"Just Friends"

[DWhitner20]

So you're into a girl and you let her know how you feel and she gives you the "we're just friends and nothing more" line. I'm pretty sure everyones gotten this before, what would you do next?

[A-Dub4President]

Drop it. Either she's a tease and playing hard to get (which means that she's going to be a handful when/if you're involved) or she's legitimately not interested (which means you're going to become that creepy kid if you keep pursuing it). In the words of Humongous, "Walk Away. Just Walk Away."

[RyanLeaf#1]

Yea if she says were just friends and nothing more take it for what it is. Basicly your not doing more with her then talking thats it.

[Charm City Byrdgang]

Give it up, she obviously doesnt think of you in that way and anything you do from this point on to impress her will be looked at as creepy.

[bsaza2358]

If a girl says, "we're friends and nothing more", you have no shot at all. Best thing you can do is just move on, hang out with her, then get with her friends. It's both vengeful and you get some!

[FITD]

what i wouldnt do, is just totally drop it and never talk to her again, because thats also not the right thing to do

but yeah, you should drop the idea of a potential relationship and take her advice, be friends


unless shes a prick anyway and you were just in it for some tail, in that case, slap that ho with your ring hand

but im sure you wouldnt do that

[yourfavestoner]

Didn't you make a thread to vent about girls last week?

[Charm City Byrdgang]

Didn't you make a thread to vent about girls last week?

Yes he did. This could quite possibly be a stalker situation.

[DWhitner20]

lol yeah, i've been having issues latley

definetly not a stalker situation lol

[Ward]

Act like a man for starters. Either you're dating this girl or you aren't. Quit wasting your time. There's a million girls out there who would actually not mess with your head and give you a chance.

[bsaza2358]

Everyone has issues now and again. Everyone here has told you what to do. Don't ignore us. We've all been through this BS before. The worst thing you can do is to become a stalker. If you need to back off and dissassociate yourself from this girl, do it. You'll be better off.

[bsaza2358]

Act like a man for starters. Either you're dating this girl or you aren't. Quit wasting your time. There's a million girls out there who would actually not mess with your head and give you a chance.

To be fair, Ward, he made his move and got shot down nicely by this girl. Seems like he manned up and asked her out. Now that he knows this, he has to take it like a man and move on.

[DWhitner20]

Everyone has issues now and again. Everyone here has told you what to do. Don't ignore us. We've all been through this BS before. The worst thing you can do is to become a stalker. If you need to back off and dissassociate yourself from this girl, do it. You'll be better off.

Of course, I'm definetly not ignoring any of you and I ask for a reason which is because there's a chance quite a bit of people here could give an insightful response to a issue I may have.

To be fair, Ward, he made his move and got shot down nicely by this girl. Seems like he manned up and asked her out. Now that he knows this, he has to take it like a man and move on.

bingo.

[BuckNaked]

Just watch the extremely unfunny movie starring Ryan Reynolds......

[bsaza2358]

Of course, I'm definetly not ignoring any of you and I ask for a reason which is because there's a chance quite a bit of people here could give an insightful response to a issue I may have.

I wish you luck, dude. I give you credit for making the effort and putting yourself out there. I know that's often the hardest thing to do. In the future, you should do what you can to avoid falling into the "friend zone". Act sooner and don't act like a friend. If you are trying like a guy who wants more than friends, your perception could change.

[Borat]

Plow one of her friends. And do it real good. Trust me.

[sweetness34]

lol yeah, i've been having issues latley

definetly not a stalker situation lol


Don't even talk to me about "issues." I could write a book with all the stuff I've gone through, haha.

[Jughead10]

Plow one of her friends. And do it real good. Trust me.

I was gonna say plow two of her friends. But I guess one would do the trick. Two is just icing on the cake.

[bsaza2358]

If you're really feeling in a spiteful mood, you can plow her mom. If you're drunk and in a spiteful mood, her cat...

[JF4]

Date rape drugs usually work well in situations like this.

[Jughead10]

If you're really feeling in a spiteful mood, you can plow her mom. If you're drunk and in a spiteful mood, her cat...

Here's to you Mrs. Robinson!

[Vikes99ej]

Don't talk to the girl for a week and hope she forgot about it.

[dabears10]

Act like a man for starters. Either you're dating this girl or you aren't. Quit wasting your time. There's a million girls out there who would actually not mess with your head and give you a chance.

While some women may not be difficult they will always mess with your head my friend. And if you don't think they do, they are winning.

[MichaelJordanEberle (sabf)]

Date rape drugs usually work well in situations like this.



Ottawa owns.

[frogstomp]

You do what you do with all your friends. Tie them up in your basement.

Next question.

[frogstomp]

Don't even talk to me about "issues." I could write a book with all the stuff I've gone through, haha.

His mommy didn't hug him when he got a boo-boo.

[Man_Of_Steel]

So you're into a girl and you let her know how you feel and she gives you the "we're just friends and nothing more" line. I'm pretty sure everyones gotten this before, what would you do next?

Dude dont try to act cool.

[FlutiesDropKick]

i think we should be careful making fun of guys relationshup situations, you never know when someone is gonna be a real life player http://www.nfldraftcountdown.com/forum/images/icons/icon12.gif

[yourfavestoner]

Just blaze and I promise you will feel so much better. Trust me.

[bsaza2358]

In truth, he seems to be taking it all well. I commend him for it. It's a bit of a sucky situation, but venting a little is healthy.

[yodapoop]

U slap her in the face.

[NYmoney]

So you're into a girl and you let her know how you feel and she gives you the "we're just friends and nothing more" line. I'm pretty sure everyones gotten this before, what would you do next?

bang her...

[etk]

It's more painful to have to tell a girl you're just friends than to get the speech yourself. I guess I have too much pity.

[Ward]

While some women may not be difficult they will always mess with your head my friend. And if you don't think they do, they are winning.

Couldn't be farther from the truth. There are women that exist my friends that will put you through mindgames, break down your manhood, and try to enslave you. You have to find them, and date around. I don't get what it is about a lot of men who seem to think it's our role in this new age of sex relations that men have to put up with psycho ***** because that's supposed to mean they're "liberated" and "independent". To that I say, "A ***** is a ***** is a *****".

[critesy]

i personally like the movie and some of it was shot in my city. yay.

[BuckNaked]

My friends told me it was hysterical, then I watched it, and wondered why I had wasted an hour and a half of my life.

[critesy]

My friends told me it was hysterical, then I watched it, and wondered why I had wasted an hour and a half of my life.

i dunno, we mussst have different taste's cause i thought it was funny, some parts were annoying.

[Vince Lombardi]

See if she want to be "friends with benefits". ;)

[The American Government]

Plow her friend. It is the best possible thing you could do.

[sweetness34]

His mommy didn't hug him when he got a boo-boo.

Ha! Well it is true fs, I was betrayed as a child by my parents and locked in isolation for most of my adolescent life.

[Hurricane Ditka]

Roofies, or Chloroform

[someone447]

Just stop talking to her. That way, one of two things will happen.
1)She is emotionally needy, and will wonder why you stopped talking to her. Then she will come up to you and start liking you more and more. After that it is easy.
2)You will get over her, no harm, no foul.

See that is a win/win situation.

[someone447]

Couldn't be farther from the truth. There are women that exist my friends that will put you through mindgames, break down your manhood, and try to enslave you. You have to find them, and date around. I don't get what it is about a lot of men who seem to think it's our role in this new age of sex relations that men have to put up with psycho ***** because that's supposed to mean they're "liberated" and "independent". To that I say, "A ***** is a ***** is a *****".

All girls will put you through mindgames. Women are emotional creatures, men are logical. Now, many of them don't do it maliciously. There are quite a few girls who even try not to, but all do to an extent. Men and women don't think the same way, and that is what causes those "good girls" to play the mind games. They act the same way to a guy as they do to a girl, and guys brains just register what she is saying, not what she means. Once you can understand chickspeak, your set with just about any girl you could meet.

[Smokey Joe]

That is the line I got from the first girl I really liked in like the 6th grade. :(

[Freddy G]

One, when your talking to her, just plant one on her.

If she pushes you away and calls you a fing bastard, you have your answer.

If she gives it a second, your in.

[Smokey Joe]

I read this thing on once on finding out whether or not she wants to be more then friends. Basically, when you are just talking with her alone, reach and tough her hair and say "your hair feels soft"-or something like that-and if she smiles, make your move, but if she doesn't, back off.

[critesy]

I read this thing on once on finding out whether or not she wants to be more then friends. Basically, when you are just talking with her alone, reach and tough her hair and say "your hair feels soft"-or something like that-and if she smiles, make your move, but if she doesn't, back off.

ahahahahahahaha, sorry.

[Xiomera]

Just stop talking to her. That way, one of two things will happen.
1)She is emotionally needy, and will wonder why you stopped talking to her. Then she will come up to you and start liking you more and more. After that it is easy.
2)You will get over her, no harm, no foul.

See that is a win/win situation.

That is good advice. I would have said the same thing.

[Smokey Joe]

ahahahahahahaha, sorry.
I never actually tried it, as I think it doesn't work.

[critesy]

I never actually tried it, as I think it doesn't work.

im thinking of actually trying that, but with a friend and see what she does. haha.

if it works, then its time to move on to some potienal girlfriend material girls then.

[M.O.T.H.]

I just love how "plow" seems to be the word of choice among most posters here. ha. :)

[sweetness34]

That is good advice. I would have said the same thing.

It is good advice. I did that too a girl I liked and about 2 months later she texted me back and asked where I had been and why I wasn't talking to her.

[Smokey Joe]

There is one girl I know who just stopped talking to me for some reason... But I kinda don't care because she was not that good looking to say the least.

[BigDawg819]

Get her drunk and take advantage

[frogstomp]

men are logical.

Biggest load of crap statement ever.

[Hurricane Ditka]

That is the line I got from the first girl I really liked in like the 6th grade. :(

So that's why you like dudes...

There is one girl I know who just stopped talking to me for some reason... But I kinda don't care because she was not that good looking to say the least.

AKA-I like dudes now...

[The Unseen]

Biggest load of crap statement ever.

Being logical isn't always a good thing in relationships, you know.

[roidrunner]

call her a lesbian, and say you dont date lesbians.

[someone447]

Biggest load of crap statement ever.

There is a reason men are better at the math and sciences. Obviously it isn't ALL men, but overall men are more logical thinkers. Does that mean men will always make the choice that makes the most sense? Hell no it doesnt. What it does mean is that men will think the a problem using logic rather than their emotions. They could be using faulty logic, but it is logic nonetheless.

[bsaza2358]

When it comes to biological urges, men can be incredibly illogical. They will use rational thinking to justify doing idiotic things. When it comes to sex and boobies, logic flies out the window.

[BigDawg819]

Wallow in self misery over being rejected by this girl, turn to alcohol to self medicate and become the life of the party at various bars/parties, nail every piece of ass you can to try and overcome the rejection in a frivolous attempt to restore your self esteem only to eventually contract some sort of STD and then your self misery will be tenfold and deserved.....


Or you could just say Screw It and find someone else....


Either Way!

[bsaza2358]

I don't know what you're talking about. DWit didn't seem too busted up about it, but he wanted to vent. I don't think he has ready access to alchohol. Pretty sure he's in HS, so getting booze has some complications.

[BigDawg819]

Hey he could chose the 2nd option....

[Boston]

Ha! Well it is true fs, I was betrayed as a child by my parents and locked in isolation for most of my adolescent life.

Aww...

Is it because you were a bear's fan?

[bsaza2358]

Hey he could chose the 2nd option....

Fair enough. I'd do it out of spite.

[BigDawg819]

Fair enough. I'd do it out of spite.


Indeed..........doing things out of spite is the best thing ever!

[bsaza2358]

Spite is awesome.

[drowe]

boil her rabbit.

[ricky bobby]

I just love how "plow" seems to be the word of choice among most posters here. ha. :)
LOL. I'm Mr. Plow.

[UKfan]

Just read this thread, I think everyone pretty much got it covered, just stay friends with her, I had a similar thing just recently, manned up, asked the girl out, turns out she has had a bf for 2 years, so yeah we are just good friends now, and I'm looking elsewhere.

Anyway, go find a chick on myspace or facebook or something like that to plow in the meantime! [/immature]

[BigDawg819]

LOL. I'm Mr. Plow.


Actually I think he's Mr. Plow:



http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f12/wrobel8/SIMC1317.gif

[frogstomp]

There is a reason men are better at the math and sciences. Obviously it isn't ALL men, but overall men are more logical thinkers. Does that mean men will always make the choice that makes the most sense? Hell no it doesnt. What it does mean is that men will think the a problem using logic rather than their emotions. They could be using faulty logic, but it is logic nonetheless.

That's also not true.

Men are better at Math and Sciences because those still aren't "female subjects" in our society. As this is slowly changing, women are catching up / passing us.

Men are not more logical. You're just making a broad sterotype based on a few women, that I could make right back about men.

[frogstomp]

Being logical isn't always a good thing in relationships, you know.

I never said it was. It's just a false statement to say that men are more logical.

Even if you want to say women are more emotional, it doesn't mean their reasons for being emotional are less logical than our reasons for being stoic. It's just another random sterotype.

[Smokey Joe]

Actually I think he's Mr. Plow:



http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f12/wrobel8/SIMC1317.gif
Call Mr. Plow,
That's my name,
That name again is Mr. Plow!

or how about the rap...

Boom-chi-ca-boom-chi-ca-boom-chi-boom
I'm Mr. Plow, and I'm here to say,
I'm the plowin'est guy in the USA.
I got a big plow and I'll move a lot of things,
Like your cow if you have one.

[someone447]

That's also not true.

Men are better at Math and Sciences because those still aren't "female subjects" in our society. As this is slowly changing, women are catching up / passing us.

Men are not more logical. You're just making a broad sterotype based on a few women, that I could make right back about men.

Are you one of those people who think there aren't inherent differences between the sexes? Because there are, read anything about evolutionary biology. Is one sex better than the other? No. They are just different.

You can't tell me that women don't make more decisions based on emotions. If you ask a man why he did something wrong, he will say he THOUGHT he was doing the right thing. A woman will say that she FELT like she was doing the right thing. Women do things based on the way they FEEL at a certain time. Men do things based on the way they THINK they should do it.

Does this apply to everyone? No, there are exceptions to every rule.

[frogstomp]

Are you one of those people who think there aren't inherent differences between the sexes? Because there are, read anything about evolutionary biology. Is one sex better than the other? No. They are just different.

You can't tell me that women don't make more decisions based on emotions. If you ask a man why he did something wrong, he will say he THOUGHT he was doing the right thing. A woman will say that she FELT like she was doing the right thing. Women do things based on the way they FEEL at a certain time. Men do things based on the way they THINK they should do it.

Does this apply to everyone? No, there are exceptions to every rule.

Yes there are biological differences. I never said that there weren't. I simply talked about your fallacy of Men being naturally better at Math and Science.

However, your whole women making decisions based on emotions and men not thing is stupid. Women think things through just as much as men do, and I would like to see where you have evidence to show otherwise.

The psychological community would be interested in this, because it would counteract a few of the things they've been saying... however, I doubt they accept things based on broad sterotypes that aren't really true.

[Geo]

When it comes to biological urges, men can be incredibly illogical. They will use rational thinking to justify doing idiotic things. When it comes to sex and boobies, logic flies out the window.
Well, I don't know if that's necessar -- boobies! Yay!

[Namy]

Just stop talking to her. That way, one of two things will happen.
1)She is emotionally needy, and will wonder why you stopped talking to her. Then she will come up to you and start liking you more and more. After that it is easy.
2)You will get over her, no harm, no foul.

See that is a win/win situation.

yup. This is how to do. Continuing to talk to her could make her think of you as a needy/creepy stalker.

[jagsfreak27]

Drop it like it's hot thats all I hate that the only thing worse is when someone leads you on and then pulls that **** on u best of luck