What approach do you take

[KILLERSANTA]

i m talking to her freind and she tells me she was talking. i asked her is it true if her freind used to like me but she s like, she was talking about another justin. but that doesent sound right cus i was the olny one there, and we were taking pictures and the girl i like went between me and my friend and this kid said i remeber when she used to like justin. so i think she s lieing. but if she is telling the truth. lol i m so confused

I see, she was talking about me..Don't worry all girls do..But in a few years she will learn she can't have me. So in a few more years try again ;)!
I'll only hit it a few times......


PS my name is justin!

[jets future]

no i need a new offensive coordinator ur still my coach.
salary is pretty tight

[sweetness34]

Haha this subject is right up my alley. I think I could write a book on my experiences with dating and relationships. And I don't mean that in a good way.

1) Girl screws two other guys when we're talking, starts dating one of them, and then regrets it. Comes back to me and I tell her to piss off.

2) Girl lives about 30 minutes away. Her father is a co-worker of my dad. Start talking, kinda gets serious, then her dad gets fired. Her dad tells her that my dad is the reason why he was fired, and since I'm connected with my dad, she gets mad at me. We're presently good friends though right now though.

3) New girl at my church comes in. I screw up and fool around with another girl from the same church. She starts dating one of my best friends for a year. They break up, I kinda start talking to her. She leads me along for about a year or so, and then she tells me that she used to really like me. She uses me as an emotional outlet for her, we're not friends anymore. Told me she "missed me" constantly for that year.

4) Start talking to another girl from my church (should've learned from my first experience, haha). We go on a date and hang out the next day and the day after that. Talk on the phone for the next week or so. Hang out again the next weekend. The following Monday she tells me she doesn't want a relationship because they're too complicated. Yet everything that happened before she told me this was leading up to a relationship. Get in a big fight with her and her friend (long story). But we're still friends.

5) Prom 2006 (my senior year) - The girl from #2 was going to go to prom with me for about 4 months, then she found out she has a soccer tournament that same weekend. I ask another girl from my school and she said she already had a date, but if I would've asked a week earlier I would've been good to go. Then ask girl from #3 to go just as a last resort type thing, she says yes but finds out the date and has a wedding so she can't go. Then a girl I know tried to hook me up with a friend of hers from another school in town, she says yes but finds out the date and has a softball tournament that weekend. I did end up going but I never stayed with my date.

So yea, I've had some pretty crappy luck with girls. But hey, it's gotta change sometime right? (I hope)

[Big Mike]

are you Jerry Seinfeld??

[jets future]

3 and 46 minutes before the actual game. i cant wait. but this might be like a cricket match. the end result might end up in a couple of days

[sweetness34]

are you Jerry Seinfeld??

Depends on who's asking.

[jets future]

First quarter: aim conversation

i cant think of any thing to say

lol

[Big Mike]

First quarter: aim conversation

i cant think of any thing to say

lol

who opened the conversation????

[jets future]

who opened the conversation????

she did.

but then i said i ll bbl
so i can think of some thing i guess

[Big Mike]

she did.

but then i said i ll bbl
so i can think of some thing i guess

how did she start it. make sure you do not talk about school because that will be very boring. Just ask her whats up man c'mon.

[sweetness34]

she did.

but then i said i ll bbl
so i can think of some thing i guess

Are you serious dude? Ask her how she's doing. Ask her how school's going. Ask her what she did this weekend. If you know her pretty well ask her if she'd like to hang out this week.

There's always something to talk about.

[jets future]

how did she start it. make sure you do not talk about school because that will be very boring. Just ask her whats up man c'mon.
she siad hey what up. yea i already did that. but then there was nothing else too expand to.

[jets future]

Are you serious dude? Ask her how she's doing. Ask her how school's going. Ask her what she did this weekend. If you know her pretty well ask her if she'd like to hang out this week.

There's always something to talk about.

my mind is so blank, i just chocked.

[Big Mike]

Are you serious dude? Ask her how she's doing. Ask her how school's going. Ask her what she did this weekend. If you know her pretty well ask her if she'd like to hang out this week.

There's always something to talk about.

Yea, but dont ask her things like "whats for homework." That will lead to a 1 sentence answer, a thanks and the convo's end.

[Big Mike]

she siad hey what up. yea i already did that. but then there was nothing else too expand to.

What did she say after you said what up????????????? Dam its like talking to an infant.

[jets future]

i jhad some thing going on but then she had to go. she said she ll bbl. but i got to trow it down at the program at 5

[sweetness34]

Yea, but dont ask her things like "whats for homework." That will lead to a 1 sentence answer, a thanks and the convo's end.

Um how are classes going would be a good question.

There's always something to expand to. If you know the girl ask her if she'd be interested in hanging out sometime.

[Big Mike]

i jhad some thing going on but then she had to go. she said she ll bbl. but i got to trow it down at the program at 5

she is lying. the convo had no momentum so she bailed.

[jets future]

she is lying. the convo had no momentum so she bailed.

nah she probably had to get ready for the program since its in like 50 mins.

[princefielder28]

nah she probably had to get ready for the program since its in like 50 mins.

Get right back on it when you see her next

[Big Mike]

Um how are classes going would be a good question.

There's always something to expand to. If you know the girl ask her if she'd be interested in hanging out sometime.

Yea you are right. But to ask her what the homework is in a class would be bad belive me.

Exibit A

Girl: Hi, whats up
JetsFuture: Nothing Much, You?
Girl: Just chilling
JetsFuture: I see, do you know whats for homework
Girl: Yea, page 106, Questions 1 to 6
JetsFuture: Alright thanks
Girl: No problem
Jets Future: Yup

After Yup has been said, the convo has basically crashed

[sweetness34]

she is lying. the convo had no momentum so she bailed.

If a girl starts talking to you, and then all the sudden has to go, she bailed. Which is your fault jf.

[Big Mike]

nah she probably had to get ready for the program since its in like 50 mins.

but if she had a program, why would she message you in the 1st place knowing she would have to leave soon????????????

[jets future]

Yea you are right. But to ask her what the homework is in a class would be bad belive me.

Exibit A

Girl: Hi, whats up
JetsFuture: Nothing Much, You?
Girl: Just chilling
JetsFuture: I see, do you know whats for homework
Girl: Yea, page 106, Questions 1 to 6
JetsFuture: Alright thanks
Girl: No problem
Jets Future: Yup

After Yup has been said, the convo has basically crashed
nah she dont go to my school though. i know her cus like some indian assoiation and ****. like families, and stuff

she came back

[Big Mike]

If a girl starts talking to you, and then all the sudden has to go, she bailed. Which is your fault jf.

You see, Sweetness knows...

[Big Mike]

nah she dont go to my school though. i know her cus like some indian assoiation and ****. like families, and stuff

she came back

Alright now what did she say??? Im back or what?

[jets future]

well on her away it says she is sadd. i bet cus of my homie rejected her. can i use that any way in my advantage.

[Big Mike]

well on her away it says she is sadd. i bet cus of my homie rejected her. can i use that any way in my advantage.

maybe, ask her why a sad face is in her name or whatever

[MichaelJordanEberle (sabf)]

Get an arranged marriage.

[sweetness34]

well on her away it says she is sadd. i bet cus of my homie rejected her. can i use that any way in my advantage.

Oh so you've got sloppy seconds then. Good luck with that. I've been there and it's not a good place. You've got a rebound girl, not good.

[Big Mike]

Get an arranged marriage.

not a bad idea considering you asian jf

[ElectricEye]

Get an arranged marriage.

I lol'ed.
Dude, quit making a big deal out of it and do what comes natural.

[princefielder28]

well on her away it says she is sadd. i bet cus of my homie rejected her. can i use that any way in my advantage.

Comfort her but be yourself and she'll remember that b/c when she was down you were the one there to help rebound her.

[sweetness34]

I'm about ready to have another story for you guys, that'll be #6 for me. And this one might be the most frustrating of all of them. Stay tuned....

[Big Mike]

Comfort her but be yourself and she'll remember that b/c when she was down you were the one there to help rebound her.

its also not good because he will never know if he actually chopped the girl or if it was due to the rebounding. I resign as head coach because he's not listening to me. Going in the no-huddle without asking me at all.

[jets future]

its also not good because he will never know if he actually chopped the girl or if it was due to the rebounding. I resign as head coach because he's not listening to me. Going in the no-huddle without asking me at all.

lol. my bad. aight but if i play it soft and try to help rebound her. it might result in two ways. got a girl. or its just friends.

[princefielder28]

lol. my bad. aight but if i play it soft and try to help rebound her. it might result in two ways. got a girl. or its just friends.

At the same time as you're helping her rebound you need to gradually work your way in

[sweetness34]

lol. my bad. aight but if i play it soft and try to help rebound her. it might result in two ways. got a girl. or its just friends.

Just stop beating around the bush. Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. You'll find out right then where it's going. Trust me, I've beaten around the bush a lot with girls (get your minds out of the gutters) and it gets you no where. You just have to throw yourself out there and see what happens.

[Big Mike]

Just stop beating around the bush. Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. You'll find out right then where it's going. Trust me, I've beaten around the bush a lot with girls (get your minds out of the gutters) and it gets you no where. You just have to throw yourself out there and see what happens.

Great advice. I think Sweetness should be your interim.

[jets future]

Just stop beating around the bush. Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. You'll find out right then where it's going. Trust me, I've beaten around the bush a lot with girls (get your minds out of the gutters) and it gets you no where. You just have to throw yourself out there and see what happens.

should i throw down the audible

[princefielder28]

Just stop beating around the bush. Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. You'll find out right then where it's going. Trust me, I've beaten around the bush a lot with girls (get your minds out of the gutters) and it gets you no where. You just have to throw yourself out there and see what happens.

Great point becuase in his case he may be just wasting his time by being nice and if he just comes out and does it then he'll find out and if it doesn't work then he can move on

[Ho0k Em']

lol. my bad. aight but if i play it soft and try to help rebound her. it might result in two ways. got a girl. or its just friends.

Real talk just listen to sweetness. All you gotta do is ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. Eventually she'll get the idea.

If she isn't feeling you like that you'll be able to tell.

[sweetness34]

should i throw down the audible

Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. If she says yes, I say take her to a movie. Dinner might be too forward for hanging out the first time. If that goes well, then ask her on a date (dinner and like a walk or something).

But the more you sit there, the less chance you have. Jump on the chance. If she says no, at least you found out early what her feelings were. But if she says yes you are in golden shape.

Again, I've been through this enough to know what's going on here.

[Big Mike]

Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. If she says yes, I say take her to a movie. Dinner might be too forward for hanging out the first time. If that goes well, then ask her on a date (dinner and like a walk or something).

But the more you sit there, the less chance you have. Jump on the chance. If she says no, at least you found out early what her feelings were. But if she says yes you are in golden shape.

Again, I've been through this enough to know what's going on here.

Exaclty. I dont know about dinner though unless you mean McDonalds. Because he's a youngster

[sweetness34]

Exaclty. I dont know about dinner though unless you mean McDonalds. Because he's a youngster

Ok nevermind about that then. I'd stick to movies and hanging out at each others house then. Maybe take her out for some ice cream or somethin. The mall is a good place for youngsters as well.

Amazing how I know what to do, but nothing works out for me. I just somehow find the girls who make things really complicated.

[princefielder28]

Exaclty. I dont know about dinner though unless you mean McDonalds. Because he's a youngster

He can make Mac and Cheese :)

[sweetness34]

He can make Mac and Cheese :)

Eh, that may be pushing it. I'd say stick with the Kraft Mac and Cheese.:D

Also, girls like guys who can cook (at least from what I've seen). Learn how to make something like spaghetti, which is really easy, and you'll be in good shape.

[princefielder28]

Eh, that may be pushing it. I'd say stick with the Kraft Mac and Cheese.:D

Also, girls like guys who can cook (at least from what I've seen). Learn how to make something like spaghetti, which is really easy, and you'll be in good shape.

Show you can be a man around the house and that goes a long ways becuase being a slob is often a drawback

[jets future]

lol. i m going to try throw my self out there at the program. well i talked to her again and it seemed liek it went well.
made her laugh.

she said she wanna tell me something there. i ll see how it plans out

[Big Mike]

Eh, that may be pushing it. I'd say stick with the Kraft Mac and Cheese.:D

Also, girls like guys who can cook (at least from what I've seen). Learn how to make something like spaghetti, which is really easy, and you'll be in good shape.

Yea I make killer spaghetti b/c of my recipe for sauce. Some Ground Beef, Ragu sauce and a secret spice. (Jerk spice and sumn else)

[princefielder28]

lol. i m going to try throw my self out there at the program. well i talked to her again and it seemed liek it went well.
made her laugh.

she said she wanna tell me something there. i ll see how it plans out

go get her playa!

[Big Mike]

lol. i m going to try throw my self out there at the program. well i talked to her again and it seemed liek it went well.
made her laugh.

she said she wanna tell me something there. i ll see how it plans out

OMG, you have to tell us what happens lol

[sweetness34]

Show you can be a man around the house and that goes a long ways becuase being a slob is often a drawback

That's another thing. Use good manners and be a gentleman (open the door for her).

[sweetness34]

OMG, you have to tell us what happens lol

jf is gonna be hittin it tonight man.

[Hines]

this is wat i do

i usually dont start talkin to girls cuz im kinda shy to just go up and talk to them but sometimes i break that habbit even though i am very talkative.

well if she starts to interest with me we exchange numbers and all i do is compliment her and the biggest sweetheart to her even though i am really nice and treat girls nice. then like if she starts to like me and i do i write poems and treat her like a queen.

works pretty much all the time.

[Ho0k Em']

I don't believe in taking a girl to the movies the 1st time you really hang out. Especially if you don't really know how she feels about you. It's too much pressure on both of you. The mall is where its at though. It's laid back, and there's people so she feels comfortable. Maybe buy he some **** from claires or something. The food court is cheap and casual so that works out. It's also easier to make jokes at mall because there's so many things around you to talk about.

[princefielder28]

jf is gonna be hittin it tonight man.

Yeah tap that all night!

[princefielder28]

One piece of advise: Don't be a whipped piece of $hit! You're putting yourself in a deep hole if you let that happen.

[Hines]

One piece of advise: Don't be a whipped piece of $hit! You're putting yourself in a deep hole if you let that happen.



also dont fall too fast
and when they drop u like dogs it will hurt a lot worse and u will not let go
trust me im startin to get over my ex and its been like 3 months that weve been broken up

[Vikes99ej]

I usually just try to use my sense of humor. But I've recently learned that that doesn't get you anywhere...

[Hines]

i hate when girls say that all guys r the same but girls do the same **** we do and r even worse than we r. they cheat and hurt guys more than we do.

[sweetness34]

Ok so here's my situation:

I talked to this girl about a year ago before I graduated. It was a pain in the butt to find time to hang out with her but I eventually got her to go to a movie with me. We planned on doing something again but I had graduation and she spent a month and a half in New Orleans on her mission trip. I then went on my mission trip the week she got back and was gone for 2 weeks. Talks basically broke off until school started, and she said she still wanted to hang out with me. But again, we couldn't find any time. She's not one who initiates a conversation with guys.

Flash forward 5 months, I get passed girl #4 (from my list) and I send this girl a message in response to an ad she posted on myspace (and yes, I know that she didn't actually post it). I found out that she had just broken up with her boyfriend 2 weeks before this so I asked if I could take her to the hockey game I promised and she said yes.

So we went to the hockey game and had a really good time. She sent me a message saying she had a really good time and wanted to do it again sometime. So for the past 2-3 weeks I've been trying to find a date where we can hang out again. And she keeps telling me that she has stuff going on, which I know she does. But just to be safe I asked her if she was still interested in doing something with me and she said yes.

She went on spring break 2 weeks ago and she said that she'd like to hang out when she gets back. So for the past two weeks since she's been back I've been asking about the weekend and if she's available, which she apparently isn't. This past Friday night she hung out with her dad and yesterday she went to a wedding. But on Friday night at like 11pm, she shot be a text asking what I was doing on Sunday.

I figured finally I'd get to hang out with her but since that message I have not been able to get ahold of her. I've texted and called, and haven't gotten a response. Oh and one more thing, the text she sent me on Friday got delayed getting to me b/c I had no service in my basement. So I got it an hour late after she had already gone to sleep.

I'm just starting to wonder if I'm cursed with girls. I mean seriously, nothing goes right for me. Even the simplest things go wrong, and it's really not my fault. Hell it's no one's fault, it's just wierd stuff happening. I like the girl and I don't want to give up, but I'm just really frustrated. I mean I know what to do, and I don't know what's going on.

And there's #6 for me. I'm telling you, I could write a book on this. It's just un-frickinbelivable.

[Ho0k Em']

i hate when girls say that all guys r the same but girls do the same **** we do and r even worse than we r. they cheat and hurt guys more than we do.

LOL that's true, but the difference is guys that do that are assholes when they do that, and guys still usualy try to keep that innocent front.

[Addict]

frustrating. If you really like her, keep trying though!

[Hines]

LOL that's true, but the difference is guys that do that are assholes when they do that, and guys still usualy try to keep that innocent front.



ya gurls r funny though
like when they bang a million guys but they rnt a hoe
or they do all the guys friends liek this one gurl at r school
its kinda gross

[Ho0k Em']

Ok so here's my situation:

I talked to this girl about a year ago before I graduated. It was a pain in the butt to find time to hang out with her but I eventually got her to go to a movie with me. We planned on doing something again but I had graduation and she spent a month and a half in New Orleans on her mission trip. I then went on my mission trip the week she got back and was gone for 2 weeks. Talks basically broke off until school started, and she said she still wanted to hang out with me. But again, we couldn't find any time. She's not one who initiates a conversation with guys.

Flash forward 5 months, I get passed girl #4 (from my list) and I send this girl a message in response to an ad she posted on myspace (and yes, I know that she didn't actually post it). I found out that she had just broken up with her boyfriend 2 weeks before this so I asked if I could take her to the hockey game I promised and she said yes.

So we went to the hockey game and had a really good time. She sent me a message saying she had a really good time and wanted to do it again sometime. So for the past 2-3 weeks I've been trying to find a date where we can hang out again. And she keeps telling me that she has stuff going on, which I know she does. But just to be safe I asked her if she was still interested in doing something with me and she said yes.

She went on spring break 2 weeks ago and she said that she'd like to hang out when she gets back. So for the past two weeks since she's been back I've been asking about the weekend and if she's available, which she apparently isn't. This past Friday night she hung out with her dad and yesterday she went to a wedding. But on Friday night at like 11pm, she shot be a text asking what I was doing on Sunday.

I figured finally I'd get to hang out with her but since that message I have not been able to get ahold of her. I've texted and called, and haven't gotten a response. Oh and one more thing, the text she sent me on Friday got delayed getting to me b/c I had no service in my basement. So I got it an hour late after she had already gone to sleep.

I'm just starting to wonder if I'm cursed with girls. I mean seriously, nothing goes right for me. Even the simplest things go wrong, and it's really not my fault. Hell it's no one's fault, it's just wierd stuff happening. I like the girl and I don't want to give up, but I'm just really frustrated. I mean I know what to do, and I don't know what's going on.

And there's #6 for me. I'm telling you, I could write a book on this. It's just un-frickinbelivable.

If your looking to hook up with her than just send her a couple more text this next weekend if she doesn;t respond just give it up(unless she's dropdead gorgeous).

If your looking for a possible relationship with this girl forget it because you don't want a girl that's that busy anyway.

[Addict]

LOL that's true, but the difference is guys that do that are assholes when they do that, and guys still usualy try to keep that innocent front.

the difference between guys and girls is essentially the difference I read in some book by Michael Moore (I know, one-sided, left-wing propaganda) between clinton and bush jr.

Clinton essentially did the same rotten stuff bush does, possibly worse, but he just shut up about it and nobody really noticed.

Bush on the other hand did it and then rubbed it in everyone's faces.

Clinton = girls/Bush = guys.

Not necessarily something I agree with, but just a little thought that passed through my head as I read your post.

[Ho0k Em']

the difference between guys and girls is essentially the difference I read in some book by Michael Moore (I know, one-sided, left-wing propaganda) between clinton and bush jr.

Clinton essentially did the same rotten stuff bush does, possibly worse, but he just shut up about it and nobody really noticed.

Bush on the other hand did it and then rubbed it in everyone's faces.

Clinton = girls/Bush = guys.

Not necessarily something I agree with, but just a little thought that passed through my head as I read your post.

lol i like that +rep

[duckseason]

Ok so here's my situation:

I talked to this girl about a year ago before I graduated. It was a pain in the butt to find time to hang out with her but I eventually got her to go to a movie with me. We planned on doing something again but I had graduation and she spent a month and a half in New Orleans on her mission trip. I then went on my mission trip the week she got back and was gone for 2 weeks. Talks basically broke off until school started, and she said she still wanted to hang out with me. But again, we couldn't find any time. She's not one who initiates a conversation with guys.

Flash forward 5 months, I get passed girl #4 (from my list) and I send this girl a message in response to an ad she posted on myspace (and yes, I know that she didn't actually post it). I found out that she had just broken up with her boyfriend 2 weeks before this so I asked if I could take her to the hockey game I promised and she said yes.

So we went to the hockey game and had a really good time. She sent me a message saying she had a really good time and wanted to do it again sometime. So for the past 2-3 weeks I've been trying to find a date where we can hang out again. And she keeps telling me that she has stuff going on, which I know she does. But just to be safe I asked her if she was still interested in doing something with me and she said yes.

She went on spring break 2 weeks ago and she said that she'd like to hang out when she gets back. So for the past two weeks since she's been back I've been asking about the weekend and if she's available, which she apparently isn't. This past Friday night she hung out with her dad and yesterday she went to a wedding. But on Friday night at like 11pm, she shot be a text asking what I was doing on Sunday.

I figured finally I'd get to hang out with her but since that message I have not been able to get ahold of her. I've texted and called, and haven't gotten a response. Oh and one more thing, the text she sent me on Friday got delayed getting to me b/c I had no service in my basement. So I got it an hour late after she had already gone to sleep.

I'm just starting to wonder if I'm cursed with girls. I mean seriously, nothing goes right for me. Even the simplest things go wrong, and it's really not my fault. Hell it's no one's fault, it's just wierd stuff happening. I like the girl and I don't want to give up, but I'm just really frustrated. I mean I know what to do, and I don't know what's going on.

And there's #6 for me. I'm telling you, I could write a book on this. It's just un-frickinbelivable.

My only advice would be to stop putting so much effort into one girl at a time. Spread all that effort out to a handful of girls and you'll have more success. Instead of throwing your line into the river, throw a net into the ocean. I know it's easy to get fixated on that one girl, but believe it or not there are plenty out there that are just like her, or even better.

[someone447]

As long as you are confident and be yourself it doesn't matter if you are the "nice guy" or the "bad boy." Both can work, as long as you have game. I used to be the nice guy, but then **** happened that completely changed my outlook on life, and I tend to be more of an asshole now. I will admit that I get more girls now, but it isn't because I am a dick, it is because I am confident in myself and just assume all girls want me.

You just can't be the stereotypical "nice guy" who is content just letting her talk about her feelings. That is just the guy who is afraid to make a move, which shows a lack of confidence, and confidence is the sexiest thing anyone can have.

The reason the bad boys seem to get girls, is because they don't care if a girl doesn't like them, they will just find another one. You can be a nice guy and have that mindset also. So what if this one girl turns you down, there is someone better out their anyway. There is always someone better. You have a 1 in 4-5 billion chance of finding "the best girl in the world" but you have to remember, people are constantly being born, so it is more than likely not possible.

If you want a girl you have to legitimately not care if you get her. A nice guy or a bad boy can do that. The bad boys just tend to have better confidence than the nice guys. If you offend a girl, it is incredibly narcissistic to think that they will even remember, much less care, what you said a few hours from then.

[sweetness34]

If it doesn't work out with this girl, I'll try that method ds. But for now, I'll stick with this one.

In my past experience, dealing with multiple girls has been very complicated. As it seems like I had to choose between the two the and one I chose didn't work out. Which is why I went back to just staying with that one girl.

This girl is pretty special though, apart from her being very forgetful and oblivous at times. She's got a great personality and she's gorgeous. Which is why I don't want to give up. But if I don't hear back from her tonight I'll be having a talk with her to straighten things out and get on the same page. Because as much as I do like her, I'm not going to play a game with her. Because there are a lot of girls out there and I'm not just going to sit on my hands for one if she's not being honest with me.

Also, I think being a really nice guy is used against me because I don't play hard to get and I'm a bit of a sap when it comes to talking to them. Although this isn't really the case with this one. It's just a very frustrating process, but still, I don't want to give up because I know I'll regret it if I do.

[someone447]

Ok so here's my situation:

I talked to this girl about a year ago before I graduated. It was a pain in the butt to find time to hang out with her but I eventually got her to go to a movie with me. We planned on doing something again but I had graduation and she spent a month and a half in New Orleans on her mission trip. I then went on my mission trip the week she got back and was gone for 2 weeks. Talks basically broke off until school started, and she said she still wanted to hang out with me. But again, we couldn't find any time. She's not one who initiates a conversation with guys.

Flash forward 5 months, I get passed girl #4 (from my list) and I send this girl a message in response to an ad she posted on myspace (and yes, I know that she didn't actually post it). I found out that she had just broken up with her boyfriend 2 weeks before this so I asked if I could take her to the hockey game I promised and she said yes.

So we went to the hockey game and had a really good time. She sent me a message saying she had a really good time and wanted to do it again sometime. So for the past 2-3 weeks I've been trying to find a date where we can hang out again. And she keeps telling me that she has stuff going on, which I know she does. But just to be safe I asked her if she was still interested in doing something with me and she said yes.

She went on spring break 2 weeks ago and she said that she'd like to hang out when she gets back. So for the past two weeks since she's been back I've been asking about the weekend and if she's available, which she apparently isn't. This past Friday night she hung out with her dad and yesterday she went to a wedding. But on Friday night at like 11pm, she shot be a text asking what I was doing on Sunday.

I figured finally I'd get to hang out with her but since that message I have not been able to get ahold of her. I've texted and called, and haven't gotten a response. Oh and one more thing, the text she sent me on Friday got delayed getting to me b/c I had no service in my basement. So I got it an hour late after she had already gone to sleep.

I'm just starting to wonder if I'm cursed with girls. I mean seriously, nothing goes right for me. Even the simplest things go wrong, and it's really not my fault. Hell it's no one's fault, it's just wierd stuff happening. I like the girl and I don't want to give up, but I'm just really frustrated. I mean I know what to do, and I don't know what's going on.

And there's #6 for me. I'm telling you, I could write a book on this. It's just un-frickinbelivable.

Ok, quit calling her. This will work if she is at all in to you. If you quit calling, she will wonder what is up with you. She will start calling you. DON'T talk to her, tell her that you are busy(even if you aren't.) Tell her to call back at a certain time(a few hours later perhaps, or whenever you are done with what you are doing.) Then talk for a few minutes and say you have to get going. If she really wants to hang out, she will give you a call asking to do something one day. Say, "Sorry babe, but I'm busy. How about *this day*. If she says no just forget about her, she is too much work anyway.

[duckseason]

As long as you are confident and be yourself it doesn't matter if you are the "nice guy" or the "bad boy." Both can work, as long as you have game. I used to be the nice guy, but then **** happened that completely changed my outlook on life, and I tend to be more of an asshole now. I will admit that I get more girls now, but it isn't because I am a dick, it is because I am confident in myself and just assume all girls want me.

You just can't be the stereotypical "nice guy" who is content just letting her talk about her feelings. That is just the guy who is afraid to make a move, which shows a lack of confidence, and confidence is the sexiest thing anyone can have.

The reason the bad boys seem to get girls, is because they don't care if a girl doesn't like them, they will just find another one. You can be a nice guy and have that mindset also. So what if this one girl turns you down, there is someone better out their anyway. There is always someone better. You have a 1 in 4-5 billion chance of finding "the best girl in the world" but you have to remember, people are constantly being born, so it is more than likely not possible.

If you want a girl you have to legitimately not care if you get her. A nice guy or a bad boy can do that. The bad boys just tend to have better confidence than the nice guys. If you offend a girl, it is incredibly narcissistic to think that they will even remember, much less care, what you said a few hours from then.

Good post. And I agree. Except we can't forget that most girls really are attracted to some level of "bad boy"... whatever that may be. It does help to have a little of that in you. But I agree that the single most important trait is confidence. Which helps you in all areas of life.

[someone447]

If it doesn't work out with this girl, I'll try that method ds. But for now, I'll stick with this one.

In my past experience, dealing with multiple girls has been very complicated. As it seems like I had to choose between the two the and one I chose didn't work out. Which is why I went back to just staying with that one girl.

This girl is pretty special though, apart from her being very forgetful and oblivous at times. She's got a great personality and she's gorgeous. Which is why I don't want to give up. But if I don't hear back from her tonight I'll be having a talk with her to straighten things out and get on the same page. Because as much as I do like her, I'm not going to play a game with her. Because there are a lot of girls out there and I'm not just going to sit on my hands for one if she's not being honest with me.

Also, I think being a really nice guy is used against me because I don't play hard to get and I'm a bit of a sap when it comes to talking to them. Although this isn't really the case with this one. It's just a very frustrating process, but still, I don't want to give up because I know I'll regret it if I do.

Sorry man, but she isn't special. At least not any more special than any other girl. That is what your problem is, to steal a quote from a movie, "Your putting that ***** on a pedestal." You have to think that your time is more important than her time, otherwise she will be out with her lips wrapped around some other guys dick while you are left with yours in your hand.

[bored of education]

I don't try or care that much. When I'm out i go to havea good time. They like me more because im not TRYING to be fake/smooth/funny/or that a$$hole type.
im just me holler

[jets future]

man it didnt go as i planned. i talked to for a lil bit. and she had to leave. since there is terrible weather in ny. i got a lot of luck (sarcastic). well i think i m going to see her on friday. damn i blew it.

but she was definatly feeling me

[Big Mike]

I don't try or care that much. When I'm out i go to havea good time. They like me more because im not TRYING to be fake/smooth/funny/or that a$$hole type.
im just me holler

Yeah, thats how I am. Dont act like you're trying to spit game or whatever. If they think you're worth it they will holla at you.

[Big Mike]

man it didnt go as i planned. i talked to for a lil bit. and she had to leave. since there is terrible weather in ny. i got a lot of luck (sarcastic). well i think i m going to see her on friday. damn i blew it.

but she was definatly feeling me

what did she say bro?? What ya'll talk 'bout.

[someone447]

[QUOTE=duckseason;308647]Except we can't forget that most girls really are attracted to some level of "bad boy"... whatever that may be. It does help to have a little of that in you. .[/QUOTE

Guess what? Everyone has some bad boy in them, no one is a perfect angel all the time. Of course girls will want the bad boy at times. But they also want the good guy at times(as long as they have confidence and all that.) It depends on the mood of the girl at the time. Some times girls will go out looking to hook up with a black guy, a very muscular guy, or any other subtype of guy, it just depends on the mood at the time.

[duckseason]

If it doesn't work out with this girl, I'll try that method ds. But for now, I'll stick with this one.

In my past experience, dealing with multiple girls has been very complicated. As it seems like I had to choose between the two the and one I chose didn't work out. Which is why I went back to just staying with that one girl.

This girl is pretty special though, apart from her being very forgetful and oblivous at times. She's got a great personality and she's gorgeous. Which is why I don't want to give up. But if I don't hear back from her tonight I'll be having a talk with her to straighten things out and get on the same page. Because as much as I do like her, I'm not going to play a game with her. Because there are a lot of girls out there and I'm not just going to sit on my hands for one if she's not being honest with me.

Also, I think being a really nice guy is used against me because I don't play hard to get and I'm a bit of a sap when it comes to talking to them. Although this isn't really the case with this one. It's just a very frustrating process, but still, I don't want to give up because I know I'll regret it if I do.

Yeah, keep her on the line until she flops off, but I'm just saying to cast a few more out there at the same time. And to ease up on this one. There is definitely such a thing as putting forth too much effort for a girl. Like I said in my first post- You need to make her feel like she needs you. Not the other way around.

[sweetness34]

Ok, quit calling her. This will work if she is at all in to you. If you quit calling, she will wonder what is up with you. She will start calling you. DON'T talk to her, tell her that you are busy(even if you aren't.) Tell her to call back at a certain time(a few hours later perhaps, or whenever you are done with what you are doing.) Then talk for a few minutes and say you have to get going. If she really wants to hang out, she will give you a call asking to do something one day. Say, "Sorry babe, but I'm busy. How about *this day*. If she says no just forget about her, she is too much work anyway.

She already did ask me if I wanted to hang out. She texted me on Friday and I haven't heard back from her since. Which is why I'm going to straighten this crap out. Because I'm not going to play a game with her. If she's interested fine, but if she's not then I'm going to put an end to it once and for all.

Oh she is a lot of work, but there's something about her that I can't let go. Yea yea I know I'm putting the "***** on a pedestal." But again, I know if I just call it quits now I'm going to regret it.

Oh and that's actually how she texted me. I asked what she was doing early in the week and she said she was busy on Friday and Saturday. So I left her along for 2 days and she texted me. I'll just keep going with that.

Edit: Btw I know I'll regret it because I let her go once already. Well not really let her go but I stopped talking to her (not on purpose but because of my schedule) and something was missing. Which is why I started talking to her again. Yup, I'm a sap and I know it! :D

[jets future]

what did she say bro?? What ya'll talk 'bout.

umm random things. but i knew she was feeling me. but her dad came out of no where and she had to leave.

[someone447]

I don't try or care that much. When I'm out i go to havea good time. They like me more because im not TRYING to be fake/smooth/funny/or that a$$hole type.
im just me holler

Exactly, when I go out I am just me, I just happen to be confident/funny/smooth/asshole etc. I would hook up with a lot more girls if I wasn't easily annoyed. There have been many times that I passed up hooking up with a girl because she was too dumb for me to stand any longer. I honestly don't care if I hook up with a specific girl. Ya, I would like to hook up with her, but if I don't, I probably won't remember her name tomorrow anyway.

[someone447]

She already did ask me if I wanted to hang out. She texted me on Friday and I haven't heard back from her since. Which is why I'm going to straighten this crap out. Because I'm not going to play a game with her. If she's interested fine, but if she's not then I'm going to put an end to it once and for all.

Oh she is a lot of work, but there's something about her that I can't let go. Yea yea I know I'm putting the "***** on a pedestal." But again, I know if I just call it quits now I'm going to regret it.

Oh and that's actually how she texted me. I asked what she was doing early in the week and she said she was busy on Friday and Saturday. So I left her along for 2 days and she texted me. I'll just keep going with that.

Edit: Btw I know I'll regret it because I let her go once already. Well not really let her go but I stopped talking to her (not on purpose but because of my schedule) and something was missing. Which is why I started talking to her again. Yup, I'm a sap and I know it! :D

Unfortunately, you have to play the game. That is all dating is. It is a giant game. If you play it good enough, you won't have to worry about it anymore because the girl will be so into you she will be afraid to screw up so that you might break it off with her.

[sweetness34]

Oh confidence is not my problem. I can talk to any girl without hesitation, and I'm good at it as well. My problem I think is that I try too hard. I make her feel like I need her more than she needs me. Which is going to chance (thanks to you guys!).

Because when I ignored her she asked me to hang out. So like I mentioned in my last post, I'll just play off of that. I do want to find out though what happened with today and why she didn't get back to me. That's a bit confusing.

[Boston]

She already did ask me if I wanted to hang out. She texted me on Friday and I haven't heard back from her since. Which is why I'm going to straighten this crap out. Because I'm not going to play a game with her. If she's interested fine, but if she's not then I'm going to put an end to it once and for all.

Oh she is a lot of work, but there's something about her that I can't let go. Yea yea I know I'm putting the "***** on a pedestal." But again, I know if I just call it quits now I'm going to regret it.

Oh and that's actually how she texted me. I asked what she was doing early in the week and she said she was busy on Friday and Saturday. So I left her along for 2 days and she texted me. I'll just keep going with that.

Edit: Btw I know I'll regret it because I let her go once already. Well not really let her go but I stopped talking to her (not on purpose but because of my schedule) and something was missing. Which is why I started talking to her again. Yup, I'm a sap and I know it! :D


Maybe she forgot. She is forgetful...;)

[someone447]

Yeah, keep her on the line until she flops off, but I'm just saying to cast a few more out there at the same time. And to ease up on this one. There is definitely such a thing as putting forth too much effort for a girl. Like I said in my first post- You need to make her feel like she needs you. Not the other way around.

You never really have to choose between girls, unless they are good friends. Eventually you may have to, but at that point, you already know you have one in the bag.

[princefielder28]

Maybe she forgot. She is forgetful...;)

she didn't have a hard time forgetting you :)

[someone447]

Oh confidence is not my problem. I can talk to any girl without hesitation, and I'm good at it as well. My problem I think is that I try too hard. I make her feel like I need her more than she needs me. Which is going to chance (thanks to you guys!).

Because when I ignored her she asked me to hang out. So like I mentioned in my last post, I'll just play off of that. I do want to find out though what happened with today and why she didn't get back to me. That's a bit confusing.

Don't worry about what happened today. She is testing to see how bad you want her. Don't even mention what happened, just tell her you went out with some friends if she asks. Just don't let her think that you were waiting for her to call.

[jets future]

so the first quarter is over, i need some gatorade, and refresh.

but right now i m going for like singels or like short passes. eventually i have to go for the homer or going for the td.

[sweetness34]

Unfortunately, you have to play the game. That is all dating is. It is a giant game. If you play it good enough, you won't have to worry about it anymore because the girl will be so into you she will be afraid to screw up so that you might break it off with her.

I was talking more about not telling the truth and leading people on. That type of game I won't play.

I know that with every girl there is some sort of game you have to play but I won't be led along and I won't be lied to. That just isn't going to happen. Because I've been through it before and it's not fun. In the end you're left holding your dick while she's jumped to someone else.

I won't talk to her at all this week and we'll see what happens. I'll keep you guys updated. We'll see if the feeling is mutual or if in the end she wasn't interested.

[princefielder28]

Don't worry about what happened today. She is testing to see how bad you want her. Don't even mention what happened, just tell her you went out with some friends if she asks. Just don't let her think that you were waiting for her to call.

thats the right idea

[Big Mike]

so the first quarter is over, i need some gatorade, and refresh.

but right now i m going for like singels or like short passes. eventually i have to go for the homer or going for the td.

stick to Football

[duckseason]

Guess what? Everyone has some bad boy in them, no one is a perfect angel all the time. Of course girls will want the bad boy at times. But they also want the good guy at times(as long as they have confidence and all that.) It depends on the mood of the girl at the time. Some times girls will go out looking to hook up with a black guy, a very muscular guy, or any other subtype of guy, it just depends on the mood at the time.
Right, I'm over simplifying things. There are far too many variables to consider to be able to come up with a hard set of rules. But, generally speaking, you definitely need to prove to most girls that you are exciting. That usually requires displaying some element of your bad side. For most guys at least. I just think it's wise to avoid the pretty boy role. The guy that acts all faggy in front of girls because they think that will attract them. Guess what ****? SHE THINKS YOU'RE A ****! haha. That's the point I'm making. You don't necessarily need to be "bad." But there are specific characteristics that are proven to attract women. And they're not what most guys seem to think.

[sweetness34]

Don't worry about what happened today. She is testing to see how bad you want her. Don't even mention what happened, just tell her you went out with some friends if she asks. Just don't let her think that you were waiting for her to call.

Well that's kind of a problem. Because I texted her and I called her. Oh well, we'll see how things work out. Maybe her forgetfulness will work in my favor this time and she won't read her texts or listen to her voicemail. ;)

[jets future]

stick to Football

damn i m turning into jeff smarjiza or a drew henson. hope fully i wont end up like drew henson. well he got the guap atleast.

[sweetness34]

Right, I'm over simplifying things. There are far too many variables to consider to be able to come up with a hard set of rules. But, generally speaking, you definitely need to prove to most girls that you are exciting. That usually requires displaying some element of your bad side. For most guys at least. I just think it's wise to avoid the pretty boy role. The guy that acts all faggy in front of girls because they think that will attract them. Guess what ****? SHE THINKS YOU'RE A ****! haha. That's the point I'm making. You don't necessarily need to be "bad." But there are specific characteristics that are proven to attract women. And they're not what most guys seem to think.

I think every guy has a bit of badass in him. That one who wants to take a girl home, bang her, and never see her again. But I respect girls and there's a difference between working your game and taking advantage of a girl. Working your game would be going up to a sober girl and trying to get her to go home with you. Taking advantage would be hitting on a drunk girl and getting in her pants while her judgement is clouded. I will never do the latter. That's just not right IMO.

[Vikes99ej]

damn i m turning into jeff smarjiza or a drew henson. hope fully i wont end up like drew henson. well he got the guap atleast.

What is guap?

[Big Mike]

What is guap?

Guap is Money, an ebonic term as well.

[Boston]

What is guap?

Tang and ten.

[jets future]

What is guap?

guap is a lot of money, slang terminology
but he never had sucess

[sweetness34]

What is guap?

It's ebonics code for money.

You think that's bad, I hate when people say "what up joe?" When they're talking to a friend of theirs, because my name is Joe and I always turn around and think they're talking to me.

[Vikes99ej]

He asked me what I paid, and I say "yeah" I paid a guap.

[sweetness34]

Having a bunch of guap is kinda like saying "dude's got hella bank." It's kinda sad to because when you're around it, you start saying it. I think I've said "hella bank" at least once a week this year.

[jets future]

He asked me what I paid, and I say "yeah" I paid a guap.

well some times it can be used like 1,000 or 10,000 or some thing like that

[Big Mike]

He asked me what I paid, and I say "yeah" I paid a guap.

Joey says: Yo what your doing toonight.

Jets Future Says: Hustling on the corner, got to get that guap

thats how you use it

[jets future]

Joey says: Yo what your doing toonight.

Jets Future Says: Hustling on the corner, got to get that guap

thats how you use it

lol u love to use me in your exapmles
but i get the guap

[Vikes99ej]

Guap makes me think of guacomole, which reminds me of how hungry I am.

[sweetness34]

Guap makes me think of guacomole, which reminds me of how hungry I am.

And guacomole makes me want to puke because it's nasty as hell.

[duckseason]

I think every guy has a bit of badass in him. That one who wants to take a girl home, bang her, and never see her again. But I respect girls and there's a difference between working your game and taking advantage of a girl. Working your game would be going up to a sober girl and trying to get her to go home with you. Taking advantage would be hitting on a drunk girl and getting in her pants while her judgement is clouded. I will never do the latter. That's just not right IMO.
Well, I agree that you wouldn't want to rape anybody. Obviously. But there is nothing wrong with getting inside a girl who's been drinking. I'm not talking fall on yourself drunk (that would be no fun anyway) but most first time sex between two people occurs with the presence of alcohol. Girls aren't the fragile little beings some make them out to be. And they drink with the expectation of it leading to a good time. And yes their idea of a good time is the same as ours. They usually leave the house thinking the same thing as most guys. That's why parties exist. And I don't recall ever feeling taken advantage of when a girl pulled it out while I was drunk. It was just expected.

[sweetness34]

Well, I agree that you wouldn't want to rape anybody. Obviously. But there is nothing wrong with getting inside a girl who's been drinking. I'm not talking fall on yourself drunk (that would be no fun anyway) but most first time sex between two people occurs with the presence of alcohol. Girls aren't the fragile little beings some make them out to be. And they drink with the expectation of it leading to a good time. And yes their idea of a good time is the same as ours. They usually leave the house thinking the same thing as most guys. That's why parties exist. And I don't recall ever feeling taken advantage of when a girl pulled it out while I was drunk. It was just expected.

Yea I was talking more about falling all over themselves drunk. A little alcohol isn't bad but a girl who can't sit up straight is wrong IMO.

[someone447]

I think every guy has a bit of badass in him. That one who wants to take a girl home, bang her, and never see her again. But I respect girls and there's a difference between working your game and taking advantage of a girl. Working your game would be going up to a sober girl and trying to get her to go home with you. Taking advantage would be hitting on a drunk girl and getting in her pants while her judgement is clouded. I will never do the latter. That's just not right IMO.

If I am drunk why is it taking advantage of her? Women don't have to be protected, they go out looking for dick just like guys go out looking for *****. I've hooked up with some less than desirable girls, but does that mean they took advantage of me? Not every girl deserves respect, just like not every guy does. I will push the envelope as far as you will let me. If you command respect, I will give it to you. If you are a girl that lets me put it in her butt within hours of meeting you, sorry babe, but you sure as hell aren't getting my respect. When that happens, its dick and the door. Double standard? Hell ya, but thats the great thing about being me, I just don't give a damn.

If a girl has sex because she likes it cool, if she has sex to feed her low self esteem then she has a problem. But either way, I don't see sex as this sacred thing, so I just assume any girl willing to hook up with me feels the same way, and treat it as such. Has it gotten me in trouble? Honestly, what the hell do you think? But am I going to stop doing it? Hell no.

If a girl doesn't want to ****, she won't come home with you(disclaimer: she can change her mind after she gets to your place, then you just take her home, otherwise it is rape). If she wants to she will come home, how is that taking advantage? If a girl wants sex, she is going home with someone that night, I figure it might as well be me. Again, how is that taking advantage of someone? Yes, when a girl can't even stand that is trouble. But a lot of girls go out get drunk so they have an excuse other than "Sex feels so good." They can tell their friends, "Wow I was so drunk, I shouldn't have went home with that guy." That way they save face and aren't looked at like *****.

Duckseason, we tend to say the exact same thing, but you always finish it ahead of me. But that is probably because I am a little more verbose. I have a problem with getting on a soapbox.

[sweetness34]

If I am drunk why is it taking advantage of her? Women don't have to be protected, they go out looking for dick just like guys go out looking for *****. I've hooked up with some less than desirable girls, but does that mean they took advantage of me? Not every girl deserves respect, just like not every guy does. I will push the envelope as far as you will let me. If you command respect, I will give it to you. If you are a girl that lets me put it in her butt within hours of meeting you, sorry babe, but you sure as hell aren't getting my respect. When that happens, its dick and the door. Double standard? Hell ya, but thats the great thing about being me, I just don't give a damn.

If a girl has sex because she likes it cool, if she has sex to feed her low self esteem then she has a problem. But either way, I don't see sex as this sacred thing, so I just assume any girl willing to hook up with me feels the same way, and treat it as such. Has it gotten me in trouble? Honestly, what the hell do you think? But am I going to stop doing it? Hell no.

If a girl doesn't want to ****, she won't come home with you(disclaimer: she can change her mind after she gets to your place, then you just take her home, otherwise it is rape). If she wants to she will come home, how is that taking advantage? If a girl wants sex, she is going home with someone that night, I figure it might as well be me. Again, how is that taking advantage of someone? Yes, when a girl can't even stand that is trouble. But a lot of girls go out get drunk so they have an excuse other than "Sex feels so good." They can tell their friends, "Wow I was so drunk, I shouldn't have went home with that guy." That way they save face and aren't looked at like *****.

Duckseason, we tend to say the exact same thing, but you always finish it ahead of me. But that is probably because I am a little more verbose. I have a problem with getting on a soapbox.

Ok you're misunderstanding what I'm talking about. I'm talking about girls who can't even comprehend what's going on and you take them home. They can't speak and they're falling all over the place.

There is nothing wrong with getting a girl who has been drinking if she can comprehend what's going on.

[duckseason]

Duckseason, we tend to say the exact same thing, but you always finish it ahead of me. But that is probably because I am a little more verbose. I have a problem with getting on a soapbox.
haha. Yeah, nice post. My thoughts exactly, but you did a better job of bringing it across.

[islandboy843]

I thought it was gwop not guap.

[jets future]

I thought it was gwop not guap.

yo where was your commetating, you were pretty off today. but we can add john madden with you.

and its guap

[duckseason]

yo where was your commetating, you were pretty off today. but we can add john madden with you.

and its guap
Classic. jets future hosting a spelling bee.

[jets future]

Classic. jets future hosting a spelling bee.

lol. thats funny. but when it comes to slang.
i speek english, hindi and ebonics
my vocabulary makes you get hooked on phonix.
lol

[Big Mike]

lol. thats funny. but when it comes to slang.
i speek english, hindi and ebonics
my vocabulary makes you get hooked on phonix.
lol

were you trying to rhyme or was it coincidental

[jets future]

were you trying to rhyme or was it coincidental

attempting to rhyme
i m nasty

[someone447]

Ok you're misunderstanding what I'm talking about. I'm talking about girls who can't even comprehend what's going on and you take them home. They can't speak and they're falling all over the place.

There is nothing wrong with getting a girl who has been drinking if she can comprehend what's going on.

Ya, when you clarified it, I was in the process of writing my response. But, if the girl is falling over drunk, it isn't taking advantage of her when I am just as drunk. I've had one night where I wake up look over, and she asks me what my name was. I said, "Zack, thank god because I have no idea yours either and I didn't want to get slapped." Now how is that at all taking advantage of someone?

[Big Mike]

attempting to rhyme
i m nasty

Lets battle then, or is the girl on your mind:(

[jets future]

i dont diss ppl that i dont know cus i cant use apearence disses. its just stupid to battel ppl off the internet. but i spit randomly

[islandboy843]

My power was off at my house. I dont want madden old ass.

[jets future]

My power was off at my house. I dont want madden old ass.

it was up to him, joe buck, or greg gumble.

you make your pick

[Big Mike]

i dont diss ppl that i dont know cus i cant use apearence disses. its just stupid to battel ppl off the internet. but i spit randomly

...such a softie/panzee

[islandboy843]

it was up to him, joe buck, or greg gumble.

you make your pick

give me gumble. so i could dominate and do all the talking

[sweetness34]

Ya, when you clarified it, I was in the process of writing my response. But, if the girl is falling over drunk, it isn't taking advantage of her when I am just as drunk. I've had one night where I wake up look over, and she asks me what my name was. I said, "Zack, thank god because I have no idea yours either and I didn't want to get slapped." Now how is that at all taking advantage of someone?

Well if you're both intoxicated to the point where niether of you know what the hell is going on then that's ok. But if you are sober enough to know what you're doing, than that's not ok IMO.

[someone447]

Well if you're both intoxicated to the point where niether of you know what the hell is going on then that's ok. But if you are sober enough to know what you're doing, than that's not ok IMO.

Ok, then we agree. But if I am around drunk girls 99 out of 100 times I will be as drunk, if not more than them.

[MichaelJordanEberle (sabf)]

Yea I was talking more about falling all over themselves drunk. A little alcohol isn't bad but a girl who can't sit up straight is wrong IMO.

Come on, that's half my action.

The other half is when they're completely passed out.

[MichaelJordanEberle (sabf)]

To Jets Future:
Namastae.

NOT!

[jets future]

this chick still has been sad cus my friend rejected her. i dunno how in the hell to get her out of rebounding stage. me being a pimp never went going through this. i m about to just forget this chick. but olny if i can get some advice it would be better.
lol

[BuckNaked]

this chick still has been sad cus my friend rejected her. i dunno how in the hell to get her out of rebounding stage. me being a pimp never went going through this. i m about to just forget this chick. but olny if i can get some advice it would be better.
lol

That is funny, i'll give you your props. you........pimp.........i cant stop laughing.

[SuperKevin]

I'm married so I no longer take an approach other than sit down and shut up.

[SuperKevin]

this chick still has been sad cus my friend rejected her. i dunno how in the hell to get her out of rebounding stage. me being a pimp never went going through this. i m about to just forget this chick. but olny if i can get some advice it would be better.
lol

I have never, EVER in my life met an Indian kid who was a pimp

[BuckNaked]

I'm married so I no longer take an approach other than sit down and shut up.

nice, sounds kinky.....

[jets future]

I have never, EVER in my life met an Indian kid who was a pimp

well you probably never knew any indian ppl who actually was born in america.

any one can help me to what schould i do

[SuperKevin]

nice, sounds kinky.....

I wish. I really do.

[jets future]

That is funny, i'll give you your props. you........pimp.........i cant stop laughing.

bucknaked your just a playa hater.
lol

[islandboy843]

JetsFuture be


BALLINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

[jets future]

JetsFuture be


BALLINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

nice commentating line. and i thought we should add john madden with you. your a natural. well you guys are already accustomed to hearing that. lol

ballin

[Windy]

jets future, let's here some raps.

my cousin's friend's nephew knows Ice T. We can make some demos.

[BuckNaked]

jets future, let's here some raps.

my cousin's friend's nephew knows Ice T. We can make some demos.

I can top that, 50 cent is my uncle. He told me he was going to write me a single. He is such a great lyricist.

[Moses]

When was this thread created? 16 pages, damn.

[jets future]

lol you like to do that randomly.
for now i ll say a hook


If you havin girl problems i feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems but a ***** happens to be one

its ur boy. lol

[Moses]

lol you like to do that randomly.
for now i ll say a hook


If you havin girl problems i feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems but a ***** happens to be one

its ur boy. lol

I need to see a Jets Future picture.

[jets future]

When was this thread created? 16 pages, damn.

yea and it was in a slump today and yesterday

[BuckNaked]

here you go moses:

http://www.jest.com/images/wigger2big.gif

[jets future]

here you go moses:

http://www.jest.com/images/wigger2big.gif

woahhhhh i think i said i was indian. i m not white

and plus i dont wear bnadanas or doowrags on my head, i wear fitted's

[Moses]

here you go moses:

http://www.jest.com/images/wigger2big.gif

I picture him as fatter and younger than that.

[sdpads24]

here you go moses:

http://www.jest.com/images/wigger2big.gif

Can you say Wigger?

[jets future]

I picture him as fatter and younger than that.

if i run XC how am i fatter, and if i go to high school how am i younger.

[islandboy843]

Mannnnnnnnnnnnnnn Can I Be Ur Hypeman

[Moses]

if i run XC how am i fatter, and if i go to high school how am i younger.

I wasn't aware of those facts. You could put all speculation to rest by posting a picture. Did you say you were Indian?

[BuckNaked]

I picture him as fatter and younger than that.

Here:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/graphics/2006/08/01/nfat01.jpg

[jets future]

Mannnnnnnnnnnnnnn Can I Be Ur Hypeman

cool you can be flava flave role. whats going to be your gimic,
now your my commetaor and hype man.lol

[islandboy843]

My Gimmick

How Bout I Actually Rap Better Than You

[jets future]

I wasn't aware of those facts. You could put all speculation to rest by posting a picture. Did you say you were Indian?

umm i m not posting a picture on an internet forum full of a bunch of strangers i never met before thats pretty creepy. and plus i saw what you guys did with keak and the mau drew picture

[BuckNaked]

umm i m not posting a picture on an internet forum full of a bunch of strangers i never met before thats pretty creepy. and plus i saw what you guys did with keak and the mau drew picture

unless we see you in bed with a college football star, we won't make fun of you THAT much.

[Windy]

I found it.

http://www.bostonist.com/attachments/boston_caroline/boston-total-stud.JPG

[jets future]

My Gimmick

How Bout I Actually Rap Better Than You

you can wear a big 843 chain. or you can be like jay z did with big daddy kane. well i dont wanna compare the mcness of h.o.v, and big daddy kane.

[Moses]

unless we see you in bed with a college football star, we won't make fun of you THAT much.

Anybody have that picture? I formatted my computer after I made it. :(

[BuckNaked]

Anybody have that picture? I formatted my computer after I made it. :(

Here ya go:

http://cache.deadspin.com/images/2006/05/mauricedrewsleeping.jpg

[jets future]

Here ya go:

http://cache.deadspin.com/images/2006/05/mauricedrewsleeping.jpg

lol the old days.

[Moses]

Here ya go:

http://cache.deadspin.com/images/2006/05/mauricedrewsleeping.jpg

Damn, I was looking for the one I made with the hearts around it. I know somebody posted it a while ago.

[islandboy843]

What Your Area Code

[jets future]

Damn, I was looking for the one I made with the hearts around it. I know somebody posted it a while ago.
werent you the one that photoshoped the picture with michael jackson

[BuckNaked]

werent you the one that made the picture with michael jackson

that was vatech i believe

[jets future]

well i remeber keak made a thread and posted a picture with reggie bush that was offensive to d-unit.
i ownder how much rep keak would have if he still was on here.

[Moses]

well i remeber keak made a thread and posted a picture with reggie bush that was offensive to d-unit.
i ownder how much rep keak would have if he still was on here.

A lot because a lot of posters used to ride his jock.

[jets future]

well islandboy i think we are going to need a producer.

[MichaelJordanEberle (sabf)]

If Jets future is Indian, does that make him an... iigger?

(As in Indian version of wigger)

[Windy]

jets future, what are your opinions on romanesque revival architecture of the late 19th century?

[islandboy843]

well islandboy i think we are going to need a producer.


YEAH MAN.. MY RAP NAME IS PIMP SKILLET.

[Moses]

YEAH MAN.. MY RAP NAME IS PIMP SKILLET.

http://i12.tinypic.com/4dffw37.jpg

[islandboy843]

http://i12.tinypic.com/4dffw37.jpg


I KNOW BECAUSE MOST OF MY LYRICS DEAL WITH FOOD LOL

[Moses]

I KNOW BECAUSE MOST OF MY LYRICS DEAL WITH FOOD LOL

And pimping I'm assuming? Genius.

[islandboy843]

And pimping I'm assuming? Genius.

THANKS. IT'S BETTER THAN 50 CENT.

[GB12]

woahhhhh i think i said i was indian. i m not white

and plus i dont wear bnadanas or doowrags on my head, i wear fitted's

http://home.earthlink.net/~prakashcs1/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/la.jpg

That is the real jets future

[jballa838]

hahahahaha thats a good one

[jets future]

http://home.earthlink.net/~prakashcs1/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/la.jpg

That is the real jets future


how dare you offend me by posting that uglyiness imposter as my picture. thts just a shame. i m just pretty pimp, that kid looks fat.
and i rock the ny where ever i go.
i keep it real

i ll throw another hook for you guys


'Cause I'm jets future, yes I'm the real jets future
All you other jets futures are just imitating
So won't the real jets future please stand up,
please stand up, please stand up?

and guys stop -reping me. its the same two ppl who do it and takes huge chucnks off, and they dont have good reasons

[bsaza2358]

Wasn't this thread originally about talking to women? What the heck happened?

[UKfan]

My thoughts exactly, man I joined this late...

[jets future]

this chick still has been sad cus my friend rejected her. i dunno how in the hell to get her out of rebounding stage. me being a pimp never went going through this. i m about to just forget this chick. but olny if i can get some advice it would be better.
lol

this was my last post before windy went off the topic

[bsaza2358]

Let's hop back to it...

You have a tough pull there with a chick without self confidence. If she's not feeling good about herself, you can maybe take advantage of her, but that likely won't go over well. Chances are, she doesn't want to get hurt again, and she might subconsciously blame you for your buddy's actions.

My recommendation is to go right out and say you like her. If she doesn't react well, don't waste any more time on it. If you stick around and help her feel better, you'll end up in the friend zone. Not a good way to go.

[jets future]

well i dont want to go to the just friends moment. well i m a try pullin the trigga the next time i see her i guess.

[UKfan]

well i dont want to go to the just friends moment. well i m a try pullin the trigga the next time i see her i guess.

Dude I know she has a lack of self confidence, no need to shoot her though!

[Boston]

how dare you offend me by posting that uglyiness imposter as my picture. thts just a shame. i m just pretty pimp, that kid looks fat.
and i rock the ny where ever i go.
i keep it real

i ll throw another hook for you guys


'Cause I'm jets future, yes I'm the real jets future
All you other jets futures are just imitating
So won't the real jets future please stand up,
please stand up, please stand up?

and guys stop -reping me. its the same two ppl who do it and takes huge chucnks off, and they dont have good reasons

Wow. What a rhyme scheme you got going on there. And originality too?! You really are amazing.

[jets future]

Dude I know she has a lack of self confidence, no need to shoot her though!

lol its a figure of speech. i might be asian but not like that dude.
i meant pulling the trigga like telling her that i like her

[Big Mike]

lol its a figure of speech. i might be asian but not like that dude.
i meant pulling the trigga like telling her that i like her

You are so dumb lol. That rhyme you put up there was straight WACK!!!!!!

[jets future]

You are so dumb lol. That rhyme you put up there was straight WACK!!!!!!

lol it was obviously a joke cus i took it from a slim shady song. i come to entertain not to actually attempt to rap. some times i ll actually try

[Big Mike]

lol it was obviously a joke cus i took it from a slim shady song. i come to entertain not to actually attempt to rap. some times i ll actually try

i abviously know it was from Eminem. I was just trying to start a battle. forget it, its useless.

[jets future]

i abviously know it was from Eminem. I was just trying to start a battle. forget it, its useless.

lol. i dont feel like batteling ppl through the internet. its just weired. i d just make lines with ppl, but no dissing off the computer.

[MichaelJordanEberle (sabf)]

JF vs. Big Mike. Let's do it. Only rule is no momma jokes. It will be 3 rounds, judged by me, UKFan, Bsazsa, Windy and GRF. GO!

[M1Koter]

Cockyness is the way to go!!!

And if all else fails..I whip out my wang..

Cockyness actually really is, like Tucker Max always says, confidence is the #1 most important thing when it comes to talking and hitting on women, I go for the cocky approch when I'm out in public but girls always like to have an intelligent 1 on 1 conversation, so you really got to go both ways with the asshole and the nice guys thing

[Moses]

Cockyness actually really is, like Tucker Max always says, confidence is the #1 most important thing when it comes to talking and hitting on women, I go for the cocky approch when I'm out in public but girls always like to have an intelligent 1 on 1 conversation, so you really got to go both ways with the asshole and the nice guys thing

Tucker Max is a moron. His stories are entertaining yes, but unfortunately they're likely not true or are greatly exaggerated.

[cunningham06]

I offer them treats in my windowless van.... Works every time.

[someone447]

Tucker Max is a moron. His stories are entertaining yes, but unfortunately they're likely not true or are greatly exaggerated.

They are true, his Miss Vermont story was taken to court because she said it was slander. The courts threw it out because they said, the truth is an absolute defense against slander. His stories aren't that much crazier than many people I know stories, he is just able to write about them and capitalize on them better. There is absolutely no reason to not believe his stories.

I've been deep into Juarez trying to find a female hooker for my friend. We got followed and found a brothel and got chased away when we told them we wouldn't pay more than 5 bucks, because if we wanted crabs we could just find a ***** in america. You also have to remember that his stories take place in a 10 year span. If you go out trying to make something happen for ten years, you are bound to get good stories. I have 3-4 good stories from this year alone, and I didn't go out drinking 5 nights a week like he did. Regardless if you believe him or not, he has been wildly successful going against the grain. He has also said, many times, that he knows people with even better stories than he has. Notice how quickly Frey's lies were found out? Now add in the fact that a large cross section of the nation absolutely hates Tucker Max, and don't you think if they were lies, someone would know about it?

Which one of his stories is unbelievable? The buttsex story that Opie and Anthony didn't believe? How is it unbelievable that a girl, who was doing anal for the first time, and was very drunk, didn't have the command of her muscles do stop herself from ******** when a dick came out? Then if a girl **** on my dick, I would puke too. Then most people who see someone puke, also puke. Then add in the fact that I know a couple guys that have let their friend film them without the girl knowing and I see it as completely believable.

[someone447]

Cockyness actually really is, like Tucker Max always says, confidence is the #1 most important thing when it comes to talking and hitting on women, I go for the cocky approch when I'm out in public but girls always like to have an intelligent 1 on 1 conversation, so you really got to go both ways with the asshole and the nice guys thing

There is one thing and one thing only that you have to do. You have to believe in yourself and be yourself. If you aren't a naturally cocky person, don't try the cocky approach. But you do have to be confident. Confidence and cockiness are two different things entirely. An example of confidence, a girl tells you that you look good, you say thanks, but it doesn't affect your self esteem, because you don't care what other people think of you. An example of cockiness without confidence: A girl says you look nice, you say, "I know" and let her compliment feed your self esteem, because you need validation from girls to feel better about yourself. An example of cockiness with confidence: a girl says you look good, you say, "Of course, babe" and don't let it affect your self esteem.

Confidence/=Cockiness.

So, like I said before, just be confident and be yourself. Nothing more, nothing less.

[someone447]

Let's hop back to it...

You have a tough pull there with a chick without self confidence. If she's not feeling good about herself, you can maybe take advantage of her, but that likely won't go over well. Chances are, she doesn't want to get hurt again, and she might subconsciously blame you for your buddy's actions.

My recommendation is to go right out and say you like her. If she doesn't react well, don't waste any more time on it. If you stick around and help her feel better, you'll end up in the friend zone. Not a good way to go.

Chicks without self confidence are the easiest to pull. They want validation, so if you make them work for it you are going to have them in the palm of your hand. Of course, it depends on what you are looking for. If you want a relationship, stay away, far away. If you just want to hook up, it is the girls with low self confidence that you will be able to hook up with easily and in short order.

[Moses]

They are true, his Miss Vermont story was taken to court because she said it was slander. The courts threw it out because they said, the truth is an absolute defense against slander. His stories aren't that much crazier than many people I know stories, he is just able to write about them and capitalize on them better. There is absolutely no reason to not believe his stories.

I've been deep into Juarez trying to find a female hooker for my friend. We got followed and found a brothel and got chased away when we told them we wouldn't pay more than 5 bucks, because if we wanted crabs we could just find a ***** in america. You also have to remember that his stories take place in a 10 year span. If you go out trying to make something happen for ten years, you are bound to get good stories. I have 3-4 good stories from this year alone, and I didn't go out drinking 5 nights a week like he did. Regardless if you believe him or not, he has been wildly successful going against the grain. He has also said, many times, that he knows people with even better stories than he has. Notice how quickly Frey's lies were found out? Now add in the fact that a large cross section of the nation absolutely hates Tucker Max, and don't you think if they were lies, someone would know about it?

Which one of his stories is unbelievable? The buttsex story that Opie and Anthony didn't believe? How is it unbelievable that a girl, who was doing anal for the first time, and was very drunk, didn't have the command of her muscles do stop herself from ******** when a dick came out? Then if a girl **** on my dick, I would puke too. Then most people who see someone puke, also puke. Then add in the fact that I know a couple guys that have let their friend film them without the girl knowing and I see it as completely believable.

http://tuckermaxdoucebag.blogspot.com/

Look over that...

[bsaza2358]

Chicks without self confidence are the easiest to pull. They want validation, so if you make them work for it you are going to have them in the palm of your hand. Of course, it depends on what you are looking for. If you want a relationship, stay away, far away. If you just want to hook up, it is the girls with low self confidence that you will be able to hook up with easily and in short order.

The problem with this particular chick is that a guy who rejected her hardcore is friends with the guy trying to get with her. There's a negative association there. I also think Jets isn't looking to just hit and run. He wants a relationship. That's why I advised him the way I did.

[jets future]

The problem with this particular chick is that a guy who rejected her hardcore is friends with the guy trying to get with her. There's a negative association there. I also think Jets isn't looking to just hit and run. He wants a relationship. That's why I advised him the way I did.

yea its more af a relationship situation.

[UKfan]

yea its more af a relationship situation.

Bummer, but you can get out of the friendship zone, I'm just managing it now, good times!

[bsaza2358]

Getting out of the friend zone is time consuming and damn near impossible. Once you get out and it ends, you also lose a friend. My advice remains let this one go for now and look to pick it up in the future.

[someone447]

http://tuckermaxdoucebag.blogspot.com/

Look over that...

So that website shows him as a narcissistic asshole, which he undoubtedly is. Why would you take someones word who posts as anonymous over someone who has evidence of at least some of his stories. So he dresses like a slob, so do I and that hasn't stopped me from getting laid. The guy who runs that site doesn't seem to understand women would want to **** him. It is all about confidence. If you have enough confidence you can **** women. He readily admits that most chicks he ***** have serious underlying emotional issues. Which are exactly the type of girls that would **** someone like him.

Do I take his stories as 100% gospel truth? No, he was incredibly wasted in most of them, but I have had nights like that and my version of the stories are incredibly close to other peoples versions. Not a single one of his stories is far fetched.

[jets future]

yea i think its over.i ll just forget about it. cus i didnt know that this would be a hard ass rebound. and if i comfort her its the "just Friends" ****. well if i wanted her that bad i gues i can block her. but thats just low class, and pretty lame. but i aint blockin her. i ll see what happens

[bsaza2358]

If it was meant to be, it will happen. If not, you made a good effort. In these situations, you always end up better for it no matter what the outcome.

[Moses]

So that website shows him as a narcissistic asshole, which he undoubtedly is. Why would you take someones word who posts as anonymous over someone who has evidence of at least some of his stories. So he dresses like a slob, so do I and that hasn't stopped me from getting laid. The guy who runs that site doesn't seem to understand women would want to **** him. It is all about confidence. If you have enough confidence you can **** women. He readily admits that most chicks he ***** have serious underlying emotional issues. Which are exactly the type of girls that would **** someone like him.

Do I take his stories as 100% gospel truth? No, he was incredibly wasted in most of them, but I have had nights like that and my version of the stories are incredibly close to other peoples versions. Not a single one of his stories is far fetched.

If you read over that website you'll find that Tucker Max isn't who he claims he is and his stories are exaggerated to a point where they lose meaning. That's my opinion anyway.

Sure, girls love confidence. However, all the confidence in the world isn't going to help you if you don't have the other pieces of the puzzle. There's not one attribute that is going to get you a girl. It's a combination of things. Being confident helps, but it isn't the be all end all.

[jets future]

If it was meant to be, it will happen. If not, you made a good effort. In these situations, you always end up better for it no matter what the outcome.

yea. i m not going to try any thing else. well its a big loose. if some thing happens, i ll try again. but i think im passing on this chick. well for now it might just go into that freinds zone. i guess i ll just have to see. oh well.

[UKfan]

Getting out of the friend zone is time consuming and damn near impossible. Once you get out and it ends, you also lose a friend. My advice remains let this one go for now and look to pick it up in the future.

Time consuming, very true, but we'll see how it develops...

[bsaza2358]

Having sex with friends is a dangerous situation. You have to play it very well to make it happen and not make it awkward. You have to risk the friendship for the relationship. Depends on your risk tolerance and feelings, I reckon.

[UKfan]

Having sex with friends is a dangerous situation. You have to play it very well to make it happen and not make it awkward. You have to risk the friendship for the relationship. Depends on your risk tolerance and feelings, I reckon.

I'd normally agree, but I'm definitely thinking it's worth it right now. Of course like you say things can change and it's awkward so I'm more than willing to take the risk.

[jets future]

I'd normally agree, but I'm definitely thinking it's worth it right now. Of course like you say things can change and it's awkward so I'm more than willing to take the risk.

it gets really akward, especially if you really know the person, and when families know each other, and when you see this person a lot in a lot of programs. it gets really akward.

[bsaza2358]

If she really wanted you, I think she would have acted on it at this point. Much of the struggle you've had here is her not wanting to drive you away and being nice to keep a friend around. I don't think she's interested. Sad, but true. Of course, if you started dating someone right now, you'd really make her jealous...

[jets future]

well yea thats true. but i saw small intrests, but i dont feel like sticking on too long, cus eventually it ll hit the just friends route.

[snuff]

I doubt you will make the just friends route with anyone.

[jets future]

I doubt you will make the just friends route with anyone.

cus i m a pimp. but this one got passed me.

[snuff]

You know I, thug 'em, **** 'em, love 'em, leave 'em,
cause I don't ******* need 'em
Take 'em out the hood, keep 'em lookin' good
But I don't ****** feed e'm
First time they fuss I'm breezin
Talkin bout, "What's the reasons?"
I'm a pimp in every sense of the word, *****
Better trust and believe 'em

[someone447]

If you read over that website you'll find that Tucker Max isn't who he claims he is and his stories are exaggerated to a point where they lose meaning. That's my opinion anyway.

Sure, girls love confidence. However, all the confidence in the world isn't going to help you if you don't have the other pieces of the puzzle. There's not one attribute that is going to get you a girl. It's a combination of things. Being confident helps, but it isn't the be all end all.

Yes there is, maybe not one specific girl, but you aren't confident with yourself you aren't getting ANY girl. Like it or not, alpha males get the girls. The confidence is what seperates alpha males from non-alpha males.

A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him.
Mae West

On that website, look at the Jan 22, 2006 post. Erin Tyler is, theBunny, and the designer of Rudius Media. http://www.rudiusmedia.com/archives/entries/rudius_media_staff.phtml

The next one about the reviews of his book. He is incredibly popular with teenage boys, is it any wonder high schoolers would rush to amazon and post as many 5 star ratings as possible?

That Cloud Starchaser guy and Tucker have had a feud for a while, of course he would want to do whatever he could to hurt his image.

The stories were written anonymously. Tucker at least uses his real name. Those don't prove anything, especially not more than his pictures on his site. They are constantly bashing on his looks, when he has pictures just like that up on his own site.

So all that website shows is that he is a narcissistic asshole, which is already obvious from his stories. But like I said before, his stories aren't amazing, he just writes them down and capitalized on a new way to get your stuff to the world. That site just reminds me of all the anti Dane Cook. Yes, I understand that a lot of people don't like him because of his stage antics, and some people don't find his jokes funny. But regardless of that, you have to respect both of them for using a new way to reach the masses.

Do I deify him like some people, hell no. He is just a regular guy who was willing to take a chance and succeeded. Hell most of the stuff on that website he admits. When they say he ***** ugly girls or damaged girls, he admits that readily. One of his stories he talks about leaving with a 2 star(below average) he said that he thought she was a 4 star at the time, but how is calling him out on ******* ugly girls doing anything? The guys I know that are always ******* new girls end up ******* some really ugly ones. Hell, I have had a few ugly ones, and I don't get an incredible amount of ass, and I am quite good looking if I do say so myself.

[jets future]

yup its just friends for now. talked to her today she seemed to friendly. well lets see what happens i can probably get out of this zone, but i really dont care for now

[islandboy843]

yup its just friends for now. talked to her today she seemed to friendly. well lets see what happens i can probably get out of this zone, but i really dont care for now


YOU QUITTER

[jets future]

theres no where to go.
i didnt relize her heart got rejected that bad when my boy rejected her.
well i got hook for you guys

If I was your boy friend, I want you 'round all the time (I want you 'round me all the time)

Please say i m just not a friend (Uh huh) now girl let's not pretend (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!) please say i m not just a friend
i can be yo boy friend

[Big Mike]

theres no where to go.
i didnt relize her heart got rejected that bad when my boy rejected her.
well i got hook for you guys

If I was your boy friend, I want you 'round all the time (I want you 'round me all the time)

Please say i m just not a friend (Uh huh) now girl let's not pretend (Come on)
Either he is or he ain't your man (Ha Ha!) please say i m not just a friend
i can be yo boy friend

stop typing already...

[snuff]

Why can't you delete post anymore...

[Caddy]

yup its just friends for now. talked to her today she seemed to friendly. well lets see what happens i can probably get out of this zone, but i really dont care for now

Why are you still posting? I am pretty sure nobody cares about your love life or lack there of.

[snuff]

Why are you still posting? I am pretty sure nobody cares about your love life or lack there of.
I care... There is just one thing to say about Jetsfuture....

Whatta man, whatta man, whatta man, whatta mighty good man!
Whatta man, whatta man, whatta man, whatta mighty good man!

Then you gotta say:

No, woman, no cry;
No, woman, no cry;

[snuff]

This goes out to JetsFuture:

You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
You'd be like Heaven to touch.
I wanna hold you so much.
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive.
You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
-love snuff

[jets future]

This goes out to JetsFuture:

You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
You'd be like Heaven to touch.
I wanna hold you so much.
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive.
You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
-love snuff

yo snuff olny if i felt like that about you.
some thing could of worked out.

[BigDawg819]

This goes out to JetsFuture:

You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
You'd be like Heaven to touch.
I wanna hold you so much.
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive.
You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
-love snuff

That brought a tear to my eye........

[SugarSean]

Charm charm charm. The key to being successful when approaching women is charm. You gotta learn how to speak their language. Just like with anything else, practice makes perfect. I'll charm a girl with no intention of hooking up with her just to strengthen my skills. Another thing that I'm big on is being honest. I will lie to girls about one thing and one thing only. I tell them I have no game, when in fact, that is my game itself. Women are turned off to men that are just tryin to run game on them, so I convince them that I have no game. This enables them to open up to me, since I'm constantly ragging on myself because I have no game. There's no need to lie constantly or put on a front or pretend to be somebody else. There's far too many women on this Earth for you to have to pretend to be somebody you're not. Finally, be diverse. Master everything, so a woman can have no way to deny you. I believe that no matter what you are, there is a group of women that are attracted to it. If 5% of all women are really attracted to pretty boys, then you're alienating yourself from 95% of women if all you are is a pretty boy. Find out what women like and learn how to do it. If you can't dance, then learn how to dance. Now if you're a pretty boy that can dance and is smart, funny, tough, charming, adventurous, poetic, etc. then the woman that you covet has to like you. Unless you're Mexican. Nobody likes Mexicans.



That was a joke.

[BigDawg819]

I'll give you the secret to being successful with the ladies....


http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f12/wrobel8/8561acaf9db6cb306d8135a1c7e417ea.jpg

[Addict]

I'll give you the secret to being successful with the ladies....


http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f12/wrobel8/8561acaf9db6cb306d8135a1c7e417ea.jpg

you hopeless romantic!