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I have a girlfriend, we've been together for a long time now. We both go to college. In this college (which isn't like you americans have it, there's not really a campus or anything) but I have a few friends. Some of them are female. I am invited by a female friend to a party at her place in honor of her moving out. She also invites four other people: three girls and one guy.
So I figure I should probably run this by my girlfriend before agreeing, here goes the conversation:
ME: Hey, I wanna ask you something,
SHE: what is it?
M: well I've been invited to a party on friday and--
S: by who
M: by this girl I go to class with
M: she's also invited a few other people, and I kinda wanna go, but if you have a problem with that I'll just tell them I can't.
S: ehm... who else are invited?
M: a few other girls from my class and a guy I know
S: oh okay
M: if you wanna come along we could do that
S: I can't, i have work saturday
M: oh right, well I guess I can just stay home if it bothers you, I get that
S: no, silly, it's fine!
M: you sure?
S: yeah, go have fun friday. How will you get home?
M: I'll take the night train I guess
S: are you crazy?
S: You can't go home at that time of night, can't you sleep over or something?
M: I suppose, but why?
S: It's freezing outside, you don't have light on your bike and it's not like you have something to do saturday. So just sleep over there and come home saturday morning.
Okay the rest of the conversation really wasn't that remarkable. Now I know what you're thinking: cool girl. And yeah, she is. But I do have a problem. Before I go on: we've been together for six years and I have never cheated on her and she hasn't cheated on me, as far as I know anyway.
Still, I'm going to a party at a girls' house, likely to be heavily populated by girls. There will be alcohol involved. I tell this to my girlfriend and she does not get angry but instead suggests I sleep over.
This is my problem. I am no longer sexually threatening or I have been loyal and faithful to the point where she does not even worry for a second about all these other women (and they're not ugly either, I wouldn't call it knock-out gorgeous, but they're not ugly). Quite frankly I feel offended.
I'm sorry for boring you guys: I have very few real issues, this is the best I can do.
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