Relationship Advice Thread - Page 158

Kramer · 03-02-2010, 06:59 AM

I say you just go, I mean you like the girl and you don’t want her getting with anyone else, seems like you should go.

'cuse-213 · 03-02-2010, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Brent

Say something about not feeling comfortable being there, since you are no longer in HS. Then mention that you would love to see her that night after prom. Try to come off as really wanting to hang out with her, but do keep in mind that you should emphasize how you would really feel awkward being at prom.

BINGO. Thats what I was looking for. Thank you kind sir.

'cuse-213 · 03-02-2010, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Brent

Say something about not feeling comfortable being there, since you are no longer in HS. Then mention that you would love to see her that night after prom. Try to come off as really wanting to hang out with her, but do keep in mind that you should emphasize how you would really feel awkward being at prom.

Wait no, this wont work. All my friends are in HS, I hangout with HS'ers everyday. I'll figure something out though.

vikes_28 · 03-02-2010, 10:24 PM

Prom is lame. Go bowling and get drunk instead.

BamaFalcon59 · 03-02-2010, 11:15 PM

Prom is going to be the ish. The girl I wanted to go with actually kind of asked me almost two months ago so that kind of eased any date concerns. We'll see if things between us go past prom, I'm kind of hoping so, but who knows.

bearsfan_51 · 03-02-2010, 11:36 PM

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So the dilemma is.. How do I tell this girl that I don't want to go to prom.. Without coming off as a dick. I do like the girl, and wouldn't want her boning another guy on that night.

It sound more like the dilemma is that you want to be a dick without her thinking you're a dick. If you like her, suck it up and go to prom, or you deserve some other guy boning her that will.

'cuse-213 · 03-03-2010, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

It sound more like the dilemma is that you want to be a dick without her thinking you're a dick. If you like her, suck it up and go to prom, or you deserve some other guy boning her that will.

No it's more of a money issue. If I had a nice little bank account, then going wouldn't be that big of a deal. I still wouldn't want to go, but I would. And theres no way in hell I would let a girl pay for everything.

brat316 · 03-03-2010, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by 'cuse-213

No it's more of a money issue. If I had a nice little bank account, then going wouldn't be that big of a deal. I still wouldn't want to go, but I would. And theres no way in hell I would let a girl pay for everything.

why not just tell her that?

'cuse-213 · 03-03-2010, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by bhaarat316

why not just tell her that?

She'll offer to pay. But I think I'll be okay. Yesterday she asked me if I was going to our schools talent show thing. I told her probably not, because I felt awkward going to HS events. So if she ever does ask me to prom, Ill say that again, along with the money issue.

YAYareaRB · 03-03-2010, 01:27 PM

Ahhhhh man I have a dilemma. I think my GF wants another child and I don't wanna look like an asshole so I've been strategically avoiding situations where we're home alone at night. I'll invite my friends over, her friends, her family, my family etc. Should I just tell her?

JF4 · 03-03-2010, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by YAYareaRB

Ahhhhh man I have a dilemma. I think my GF wants another child and I don't wanna look like an asshole so I've been strategically avoiding situations where we're home alone at night. I'll invite my friends over, her friends, her family, my family etc. Should I just tell her?

Seems like a decision that both of you should be making seeing as how (or atleast I think you are) relatively young for parenthood.

Just bring a puppy home one of these days to keep her interested for a few months.

YAYareaRB · 03-03-2010, 01:44 PM

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Seems like a decision that both of you should be making seeing as how (or atleast I think you are) relatively young for parenthood.

Just bring a puppy home one of these days to keep her interested for a few months.

I can't believe I never thought of that

HeavyLeggedWaistBender · 03-06-2010, 10:09 PM

Anyone else know a girl you wish you were in love with? One thats really cute and funny and smart and you even get kinda nervous around eachother. But the feeling just isnt there...It ******* blows.

descendency · 03-06-2010, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by 'cuse-213

Speaking of prom, I actually need some advice.

So I graduated early (late if you will) in January, and am done with HS. To make a long story short, me and this girl who is still in HS, have been talking. One of my other friends has been hinting to me that she wants to ask me. Do I want to go to another prom? Hell no. Did I already tell her that I would when we were drunk one night? Hell yea.

So the dilemma is.. How do I tell this girl that I don't want to go to prom.. Without coming off as a dick. I do like the girl, and wouldn't want her boning another guy on that night

Also to be noted, she is attractive with very large breasts.

Are you dating or just wanting to bone her? If you are a bit more serious, then you should be able to sit down with her and just tell her you don't feel comfortable being at prom. If you aren't very serious, you are just being a dick. "I don't want to hang out with you where you want to be, but I wouldn't mind boning you where I want."

I'm not saying you are terrible or something, but you are talking about taking away one of a girls favorite moments of their life... their prom night. It should at least be a good reason. If money is the reason, then you should tell her and then tell her that you would feel really awkward about accepting money from her. It would make you feel uneasy while you are there with her. Kind of like an escort (if you need an excuse). Although, if you go, you probably will be able to bone her. Your choice though.

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Originally Posted by HeavyLeggedWaistBender

Anyone else know a girl you wish you were in love with? One thats really cute and funny and smart and you even get kinda nervous around eachother. But the feeling just isnt there...It ******* blows.

I'm the guy who wishes this girl liked me more than she does. I'm pretty far down her ladder of importance, despite us being good friends and having lots in common. Sigh.

Kramer · 03-06-2010, 10:49 PM

Alright boys.. I’m going to Mexico for a week next Saturday, how do I score with some hot tourists? Advice?

bearsfan_51 · 03-06-2010, 11:24 PM

Tequila shots.

619 · 03-07-2010, 12:35 AM

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Tequila shots.

Correct answer. I can testify to that, as I was there not too long ago.

Brent · 03-07-2010, 12:41 AM

roofies... I mean... tequila shots.

SwagU · 03-07-2010, 01:40 PM

I was also in Mexico just a short time ago, and I agree. When chicks have some Tequila in their systems they are down to do some crazy ****.

In some advice to Kramer, I found I had picked up the most girls when I was tipsy. I think it's because you dont second guess yourself and you rely totally on your instincts. The tourists love the life of the party also. Me and my bud got these two chicks because they saw us dancing up on stage. As for conversation with them afterwards, be funny and flirtatious.

MetSox17 · 03-07-2010, 02:09 PM

Guys, i wouldn't be going to Mexico any time soon if i were you. Ya'll might have missed the memo, but.. there's kinda a war going on over there right now.

Addict · 03-07-2010, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MetSox17

Guys, i wouldn't be going to Mexico any time soon if i were you. Ya'll might have missed the memo, but.. there's kinda a war going on over there right now.

wait what? mexico's in a war? with who?

619 · 03-07-2010, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by MetSox17

Guys, i wouldn't be going to Mexico any time soon if i were you. Ya'll might have missed the memo, but.. there's kinda a war going on over there right now.

Drug trade? I believe that's what one taxi driver told me.

trademaster · 03-07-2010, 02:31 PM

Ok, I asked a girl recently for coffee, she said she love to, she implied that ''we had a lot in common, and since we're both busy, she also implied that it should'nt matter that we should have plenty of chances''

So she is deffy interested. I really like her, and would love to hopefully one day be in somekind of relationship w/ her.

BUT HeRE IS THE PROBLEM.

She is bi-sexual, and she is sort of seeing a lesbian lover.

I said, it's cool, I'm happy for her, she said ''thanks for understanding, I think you're amazing that is why I will continue to talk to you''.

I need help, how do I deal about this?

MetSox17 · 03-07-2010, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Addict

wait what? mexico's in a war? with who?

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Originally Posted by 619

Drug trade? I believe that's what one taxi driver told me.

Drug Cartels. For the past few decades, the Cartels have been at war with each other, but recently the Mexican Government decided to have military troops scattered throughout the country, and that has caused a lot of fighting between the Cartels and the Military. There's a **** load of people dying, and gun shootouts pretty much every day.

18k people have died since it started in 06, last year 9k died, and so far there is 1700 casualties in '10. Sad to say, but unless you have strict business to do in Mexico, you really shouldn't go.

CJSchneider · 03-07-2010, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by trademaster

Ok, I asked a girl recently for coffee, she said she love to, she implied that ''we had a lot in common, and since we're both busy, she also implied that it should'nt matter that we should have plenty of chances''

So she is deffy interested. I really like her, and would love to hopefully one day be in somekind of relationship w/ her.

BUT HeRE IS THE PROBLEM.

She is bi-sexual, and she is sort of seeing a lesbian lover.

I said, it's cool, I'm happy for her, she said ''thanks for understanding, I think you're amazing that is why I will continue to talk to you''.

I need help, how do I deal about this?

First off all, way to play it cool and be supportive of her "lifestyle". I feel obligated to tell you that at this point, the end goal of this ordeal is now to have a 3-some involving you and her female friend. I look forward to constant updates (to include photos and/or video) reagarding this.