Relationship Advice Thread - Page 263

eaglesalltheway · 01-28-2011, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by ATLDirtyBirds

I don't know her all that well, so I'll have to talk more about with my friend about it, but I don't get the impression she's one I'm going to be able to **** around with after just one date. It's going to have to be something steady. I need a shortcut.

She said she thinks you're hot, not cute or she likes you. Go for it bro.

Edit: Upon further review, maybe not such an easy get in get out situation. I revise my advice to this... If it takes more than minimal effort (and an unwillingness to be a dick), don't go for it.

bsaza2358 · 01-28-2011, 04:43 PM

This whole situation sounds like a waste of time. You're only interested bc you think she's interested. You never would have thought about this girl if your boy didn't say anything. You could maybe try to invite her over for a movie, but if she's not into that kind of thing, and you're not into what she's looking for, just walk. You are mobile.

ATLDirtyBirds · 01-28-2011, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by bsaza2358

This whole situation sounds like a waste of time. You're only interested bc you think she's interested. You never would have thought about this girl if your boy didn't say anything. You could maybe try to invite her over for a movie, but if she's not into that kind of thing, and you're not into what she's looking for, just walk. You are mobile.

To everyone else, she not freaky or anything like that, just one of those people who doesn't go out a lot.

Obviously my interest went up when I found out she was interested, but I've always thought of her as a prospect of sorts. I think I was just turned off by the fact that I knew I'd have to go the relationship route.

I'm pretty sure I'm just going to tell her my friend told me what she thinks about me and I'd be down for something casual, but I'm not a relationship type.

I've been a good person lately, and I should probably continue with that. However, in my usual fashion, I'm already plotting the idea asking her out, and then when she accepts almost never talking to her unless I'm in need of a ****. Oh, and be willing to cheat on her whenever the opportunity arises.

Vikes99ej · 01-29-2011, 01:11 PM

It's official. Not being ****-faced at the bars > being ****-faced at the bars.

Brent · 01-29-2011, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Vikes99ej

It's official.

What's the reason?

Vikes99ej · 01-29-2011, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Brent

What's the reason?

Better things happen when I'm out and I'm not completely belligerent. The whole liquid confidence thing has never really worked for me. For some reason being really drunk freezes me up.

xxxxxxxx · 01-30-2011, 12:03 AM

Ok guys, so last night I slept in this chicks bed and we were kissing and **** but it didn't go anything farther and in the morning me and my friends left.

Do I pursue this girl further or forget about it?

Thanks.

nepg · 01-30-2011, 12:19 AM

If you want to...?

xxxxxxxx · 01-30-2011, 12:39 AM

Well, would you?

nepg · 01-30-2011, 12:42 AM

Depends on the girl.

djp · 01-30-2011, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Vikes99ej

Better things happen when I'm out and I'm not completely belligerent. The whole liquid confidence thing has never really worked for me. For some reason being really drunk freezes me up.

So.. don't get really drunk, just get a solid drunk. Getting smashed is old news anyways.

eaglesalltheway · 01-30-2011, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by CDCB14

Well, would you?

What he's trying to say is (In this order)

Is she hot? (if so we need pics to confirm).

What would your intentions be?

And what do you think her intentions are?

eaglesalltheway · 01-30-2011, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Vikes99ej

Better things happen when I'm out and I'm not completely belligerent. The whole liquid confidence thing has never really worked for me. For some reason being really drunk freezes me up.

Lucky for me I'm a happy drunk, even when I'm puking up my stomach. Like djp said, get solid drunk, or only buzzed if that'd work for you. That way you've had enough that the receptors in your brain that lock you up don't work, but the ones that allow you to think and function like a normal human being still do.

MetSox17 · 01-30-2011, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Vikes99ej

Better things happen when I'm out and I'm not completely belligerent. The whole liquid confidence thing has never really worked for me. For some reason being really drunk freezes me up.

Lol, the liquid confidence theory suggests that you get buzzed enough to where you don't give a **** about being rejected, not get-completely-lit-and-not-be-able-to-carry-a-conversation drunk.

eaglesalltheway · 01-30-2011, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by MetSox17

Lol, the liquid confidence theory suggests that you get buzzed enough to where you don't give a **** about being rejected, not get-completely-lit-and-not-be-able-to-carry-a-conversation drunk.

Ahemmm...

I got this... hahaha

Buc Baller12 · 01-30-2011, 10:54 PM

So I'd like to get over this girl i have a crush on because she has a BF; and i really don't see them breaking up anytime soon. Unfortunately i waited too long to ask her out; that is what she told me. I knew she was interested at one point but i didn't want to date her at that time. Now that she has a bf i want to date her know. It is driving me insane.

The Unseen · 01-30-2011, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by djp

So.. don't get really drunk, just get a solid drunk. Getting smashed is old news anyways.

Truth.

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Originally Posted by MetSox

Lol, the liquid confidence theory suggests that you get buzzed enough to where you don't give a **** about being rejected, not get-completely-lit-and-not-be-able-to-carry-a-conversation drunk.

Truth.

Buzzed > trashed

Vikes99ej · 01-30-2011, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by djp

So.. don't get really drunk, just get a solid drunk. Getting smashed is old news anyways.

Honestly, I feel the best when I have 2-4 drinks. I just act a fool when I get drunk.

yodapoop · 01-30-2011, 11:36 PM

I am mean 50% of the time. Wow, I am awesome! This is good, right guys?

MetSox17 · 01-30-2011, 11:41 PM

Nope. That's too low a percentage.

yodapoop · 01-30-2011, 11:43 PM

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Nope. That's too low a percentage.

I agree. Apparently tho, at 50% they gotta stop talking to u. So I gotta be nice to everyone and love everything. **** THAT!

someone447 · 01-30-2011, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Vikes99ej

Honestly, I feel the best when I have 2-4 drinks. I just act a fool when I get drunk.

2-4 drinks? If I'm going out I've typically polished off a 6 pack by about 7:30. I won't even have a slight buzz at 2 drinks. My 4th drink will be when I can notice an ever so slight difference.

As the great George Burns once said: "Actually, it only takes one drink to get me loaded. Trouble is, I can't remember if it's the thirteenth or fourteenth."

Vikes99ej · 01-31-2011, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by someone447

2-4 drinks? If I'm going out I've typically polished off a 6 pack by about 7:30. I won't even have a slight buzz at 2 drinks. My 4th drink will be when I can notice an ever so slight difference.

As the great George Burns once said: "Actually, it only takes one drink to get me loaded. Trouble is, I can't remember if it's the thirteenth or fourteenth."

Well, I don't mind driving downtown when I go out with my buddies, so I try to play it safe with the drinks. Around 3 nice mixed drinks and I'm feelin' pretty good.

Sportsfan486 · 01-31-2011, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Vikes99ej

Around 3 nice mixed drinks and I'm feelin' pretty good.

Vagina and all?

eaglesalltheway · 01-31-2011, 06:38 AM

If I want to get buzzed... 3-5 drinks (this is optimal drink range for asking out chicks, unless you are a giant human being). Anything past that, the chick will most likley see you as what your are, a drunk fool.