Relationship Advice Thread - Page 277

BamaFalcon59 · 07-28-2011, 07:09 PM

Currently seeing a dime. Not really seeing. She just stays over a lot and we go out during weekends sometimes. She's bad news all over. Definitely not my general type and I'm not hers. But damn she's fine. I go back and forth from dropping her to trying to date her and settled with just leaving things be.

I feel like I'm going to start actually liking her. Not good.

Jimmy · 07-28-2011, 09:09 PM

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I'm getting ready to tell one of my best friends that I've been into her for months, but I'm not doing it for the normal reasons. I'm doing it for closure.

I don't think there's any way feelings are mutual. She's a really flirty girl by nature, but deep down I know I'm just a friend to her.

Taking that big step and telling her how I feel, really the first time I've done this with a friend this close. My main hope is that my feelings will go away if things don't work out.

Taking Jamaal's advice. The fact that I can come into this thread and see that tidbit of info without even trying to look for it is a sign that this should be a no brainer. I've spent too many days over analyzing this and it's time to mend.

well i told her, and it shaped out the way i expected, but i feel like i got the 5000 lb gorilla off my back. hope things arent awkward, glad i sacked up and said something though.

kalbears13 · 07-28-2011, 09:11 PM

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well i told her, and it shaped out the way i expected, but i feel like i got the 5000 lb gorilla off my back. hope things arent awkward, glad i sacked up and said something though.

It probably won't be awkward but you won't be half as close as you were.

SickwithIt1010 · 07-28-2011, 10:07 PM

Alright so Im in kind of a weird situation.

Ok, so I dont usually have a problem dating younger girls like as far as a year or 2. However, my best friend's little sister has a friend who is pretty god damn hot...shes diggin me and im diggin her. Just kind of weird I guess because she is going to be a senior in high school while im going to be a senior in college. I know its totally ok to marry someone 4 years younger than you but its a little weirder when youre still in school.

ncst8fan83 · 07-28-2011, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by SickwithIt1010

Alright so Im in kind of a weird situation.

Ok, so I dont usually have a problem dating younger girls like as far as a year or 2. However, my best friend's little sister has a friend who is pretty god damn hot...shes diggin me and im diggin her. Just kind of weird I guess because she is going to be a senior in high school while im going to be a senior in college. I know its totally ok to marry someone 4 years younger than you but its a little weirder when youre still in school.

Dude, tap that poon. Seriously. She will brag to her friends that she's bangin' a *starry eyes* senior in college. No one says you have to get married and if she starts trying to call you all the time and check in on you, then bounce. Definition of a win-win.

Then again, I don't know if I can make a valid ruling until I have picture proof that this chick is worth dealing with high school drama.

Raiderz4Life · 07-28-2011, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by SickwithIt1010

Alright so Im in kind of a weird situation.

Ok, so I dont usually have a problem dating younger girls like as far as a year or 2. However, my best friend's little sister has a friend who is pretty god damn hot...shes diggin me and im diggin her. Just kind of weird I guess because she is going to be a senior in high school while im going to be a senior in college. I know its totally ok to marry someone 4 years younger than you but its a little weirder when youre still in school.

If she's of legal age....fair game imo

CJSchneider · 07-28-2011, 10:12 PM

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Then again, I don't know if I can make a valid ruling until I have picture proof that this chick is worth dealing with high school drama.

I was thinking the same thing.
I'm just kidding.

Jamaal-Football · 07-28-2011, 10:13 PM

I've taken the plunge, guys. After two years of dating, partying, one night stands, benders, and overall just "******* around", i've finally settled down with a beautiful, respectable young lady. This will be my first serious relationship since my ex of two years, so i'm crossing my fingers.

Wish me luck!

Raiderz4Life · 07-28-2011, 10:14 PM

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I was thinking the same thing.
I'm just kidding.

i 3rd that

CJSchneider · 07-28-2011, 10:19 PM

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I've taken the plunge, guys. After two years of dating, partying, one night stands, benders, and overall just "******* around", i've finally settled down with a beautiful, respectable young lady. This will be my first serious relationship since my ex of two years, so i'm crossing my fingers.

Wish me luck!

So this lady is ok with you living in her bushes.

CashmoneyDrew · 07-28-2011, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by SickwithIt1010

Alright so Im in kind of a weird situation.

Ok, so I dont usually have a problem dating younger girls like as far as a year or 2. However, my best friend's little sister has a friend who is pretty god damn hot...shes diggin me and im diggin her. Just kind of weird I guess because she is going to be a senior in high school while im going to be a senior in college. I know its totally ok to marry someone 4 years younger than you but its a little weirder when youre still in school.

It would have been so much better if you would have just left it at this point. I love the "best friends sister" stories.

SickwithIt1010 · 07-28-2011, 10:34 PM

picture is coming soon my friends. enjoying the answers thanks!

SickwithIt1010 · 07-28-2011, 10:40 PM

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Then again, I don't know if I can make a valid ruling until I have picture proof that this chick is worth dealing with high school drama.

Parents are rich as hell also

ncst8fan83 · 07-28-2011, 10:43 PM

Eh, not really my type. Funky gums in that 2nd pic. If you think she is hot, and if she has a great personality (or at least bearable), then I don't see a downside. The only caveat I'll throw in is usually rich parents = controlling parents = lawsuits depending on what they find out and which state you live in. Just sayin'...

SickwithIt1010 · 07-28-2011, 10:47 PM

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Eh, not really my type. Funky gums in that 2nd pic. If you think she is hot, and if she has a great personality (or at least bearable), then I don't see a downside. The only caveat I'll throw in is usually rich parents = controlling parents = lawsuits depending on what they find out and which state you live in. Just sayin'...

Yeah I hear ya there, luckily her parents seem pretty down to earth and have seemed to dig me so far. Idk what Im going to do yet...still kind of a weird situation.

Raiderz4Life · 07-28-2011, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by ncst8fan83

Eh, not really my type. Funky gums in that 2nd pic. If you think she is hot, and if she has a great personality (or at least bearable), then I don't see a downside. The only caveat I'll throw in is usually rich parents = controlling parents = lawsuits depending on what they find out and which state you live in. Just sayin'...

Not crazy over the gums either but....think I can overlook those. he's worth the risk in my book lol

CJSchneider · 07-28-2011, 10:51 PM

HS senior and college isn't a big deal. Besides, best friend's sister's friend isn't a strong enough link to get you in trouble if it goes bad. Have fun.

CashmoneyDrew · 07-28-2011, 10:54 PM

CJ help us out here. I know you have a best friend's sister story. You've lived too long not to have one.

SickwithIt1010 · 07-28-2011, 10:57 PM

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Not crazy over the gums either but....think I can overlook those. he's worth the risk in my book lol

Trust me guys, Ive noticed the gums...but im down with everything else....and shes an athlete so.

Raiderz4Life · 07-28-2011, 10:59 PM

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Trust me guys, Ive noticed the gums...but im down with everything else....and shes an athlete so.

ooops haha I meant she =P

Also, if you tap it. Don't giver the A-game...throw her the B-game....girls tend to get attached if they bang an older guy and he's good. Triple that if its her first time lol

CJSchneider · 07-28-2011, 11:12 PM

Devirginized chicks go psycho - period.

And yes, I do have a best friend's sister's friend story.

>be 15
>best friend's sister says girl likes me
>go to girl's house
>girl says "take it out and I'll give you a bj"
>know she is kidding
>call her bluff and whip it out
>she blushes and hesitantly gives me bj
>finish on her chin
>leave feelin like a boss

SickwithIt1010 · 07-28-2011, 11:16 PM

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ooops haha I meant she =P

Also, if you tap it. Don't giver the A-game...throw her the B-game....girls tend to get attached if they bang an older guy and he's good. Triple that if its her first time lol

Haha very solid advice there my man.

SickwithIt1010 · 07-28-2011, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by CJSchneider

Devirginized chicks go psycho - period.

And yes, I do have a best friend's sister's friend story.

>be 15
>best friend's sister says girl likes me
>go to girl's house
>girl says "take it out and I'll give you a bj"
>know she is kidding
>call her bluff and whip it out
>she blushes and hesitantly gives me bj
>finish on her chin
>leave feelin like a boss

Did big brother find out about it or what?

CJSchneider · 07-28-2011, 11:22 PM

He probably ended up trying to get some himself later. It was my friend's sister's friend.

Hines · 07-29-2011, 01:08 AM

So the ex and I started to talk again. Not sure where it's going to go or how long it's going to go for, but I'm just going to hope for the best and prepare for the worst.