Relationship Advice Thread

[Ness]

Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

lmao. She's just really cute, come on now. haha. But no, I'm doing a **** ton socializing lately, much more than I'm accustomed to actually. I have been talking to another really cute girl, but I cant seem to shake whatever feelings I have for the first girl.

Dont mind me. hahaha.

How old are you?

[TitansCJftw]

NO MOTH4LIFE...

[M.O.T.H.]

Originally Posted by Ness

How old are you?

24, sir. My love life is hilarious at the moment.

When this girl ends up breaking my fragile heart...dont let me ***** on here. hahahaha.

[killxswitch]

MOTH you have got to be ******* kidding me.

[Brent]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

I'm pretty sure that won't be the last time I see her. Makes me wonder, maybe god put that phone there because it was destiny.

You should have asked her out for drinks right then!

[M.O.T.H.]

Originally Posted by killxswitch

MOTH you have got to be ******* kidding me.

lmao. It is, what it is. All my buddies are telling me to stay away as well. We'll see what happens.

Nothing would have happened yesterday, kissing and some "heavy petting", I'm sure. lol. I'm in no rush to just sleep with her.

[ATLDirtyBirds]

MOTH, I love you buddy, but you're doing it wrong.

[M.O.T.H.]

hahaha. I get a kick out of it. I'm over the whole crush aspect, so I'm just going with things, seeing where this comes out.

[bearsfan_51]

Is MOTH being a pedobear or something? I'm too lazy to go back and get caught up.

[M.O.T.H.]

Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

Is MOTH being a pedobear or something? I'm too lazy to go back and get caught up.

No way, man. Just a really messy situation with a real cute girl, who may or may not be sleeping with her ex boyfriend that she lives with. It's all kind of funny, really.

[BamaFalcon59]

You need to take a step back, look in the mirror, and man the eff up.

[M.O.T.H.]

hahaha. I have...I'm just having fun with it now.

[BamaFalcon59]

Originally Posted by sbh15

this means that your only hope is to be a turbo douche

Yes.

She make like the fact that you seem nice, but will automatically be turned off if she comes onto your hesitency/insecurity.

Ask her on a date and be confident doing it. She likes douche bags. Hoes that post statuses like you were referring to her doing do not mean what they say on FB.

[BamaFalcon59]

Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

One thing I forgot to mention in here...while I was pursuing that girl before. I had so many girls after me during this. It's like they could tell I was in "crush" with some girl. Well maybe because, I can be a talkitive dude and I would bring it up. But I was asked out on three separate dates in the last few weeks. haha. Had that tunnel vision and turned them all down. And now that the crush is out of the way, I'm still not interested...but it was pretty cool at least. I'm just done with the whole dating scene for a while. Not like I was actively searching for a gf before I got some crush on some cute girl.

Dawg, whatttttttttttt.

Being done with dating is cool, but your into this chick that is getting plowed by a old-ex who also happens to be old and both are co-workers (if I remember correctly). You need to just get on one of these dates and as soon as another girl enters your life/grabs your attention you will get off of this blind crush.

Only way to get off of a crush like that is another female.

[M.O.T.H.]

I hear you, but i'm not even crushing like I was these days. We werent even talking for a week after I pissed her off. But she's calling again. It's whatever...she's not with that co-worker anymore. But I dont know what goes on in her house. I'm realllllllly not stressing over anything anymore. I'm just doing whatever...it's all good. I doubt it goes any further than simple flirting and making out and what not. haha. If it even goes that far. It's no big deal. I'm not diving into anything serious, without being 100% sure about things. I'm just having a little fun now, and we'll see. Not exactly my style, but it's my current mentality.

[BamaFalcon59]

Fourth post, last.

Talking to a lot of girls lately but not really interested in most of them. Just girls to have over, fool around, etc.. But Iet a girl last night that I think could be something. She's a very good looking Indian girl; 22 years old and a nurse. I'm 19 and met her at a 21+ bar/club. Told her I was 20 but I will be in a month, so...

Anyways, she was vibing me hard the whole night and I was definitely vibing her. In addition to being a nurse, she was dressed classy and we actually had full on conversation while dancing. I'm talking reading, she was asking me about politics, everything. Awesome signs... Told me she thought I was lying about something because it seemed like I was too good to be true.

Never really had an experience like that while out in a bar/club like that. Definite turn on for something different. Seemed genuinely into me because I was educated and up-to-date on topics.

[Ness]

M.O.T.H. have you ever had a girlfriend before? This situation just strikes me as a waste of time. If nothing is going to come of it, what is the point of flirting on purpose? I just don't see where the fun part comes from. Especially when you have the girl's other dudes in the mix.

[Raiderz4Life]

Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

I hear you, but i'm not even crushing like I was these days. We werent even talking for a week after I pissed her off. But she's calling again. It's whatever...she's not with that co-worker anymore. But I dont know what goes on in her house. I'm realllllllly not stressing over anything anymore. I'm just doing whatever...it's all good. I doubt it goes any further than simple flirting and making out and what not. haha. If it even goes that far. It's no big deal. I'm not diving into anything serious, without being 100% sure about things. I'm just having a little fun now, and we'll see. Not exactly my style, but it's my current mentality.

Just nail her already!! Plus she's asian..gotta love it..no matter how big it is...they always wimper haha

[M.O.T.H.]

lol. I'm 24, of course I've had a gf. hahaha. I have plenty of useful experience...this situation is just different. There is tons of fun to be had from flirting and random hook ups...it's def. not normally my thing, but yeah. Really? When it first started, I just wanted to be that guy that she's never had...she's not used to gentlemen attention and maybe I thought it could work out. Everything was actually going really well for a while. Then you fight and what not, and now I'm just doing whatever. Just a few weeks ago things were progressing, so I mean...if she wants to talk about this again, then I'm not going to shut her out. I do like her...if things dont work out, they dont work out. I dont have this huge emotional attachment that I rushed into before. It's really not this big deal or anything. I dont know her whole situation on the side...I hope I can trust her, but I cant really say. Right now, I'm just riding it out, without my feelings really getting in the way of anything.

When I say the whole thing cracks me up...it really does. I'm in complete control of everything, though. Nothing is going to happen unless I really want it to. I'm not blinded by the "crush" I had before. It's more of a not caring of some of the other crap right now, and just going with the flow of things.

[Brent]

guys, just let MOTH get his D wet.

[Ness]

Originally Posted by Brent

guys, just let MOTH get his D wet.

He might have a better chance at that if he targets someone else. If the girl keeps flirting with him, that's a different story. As in she is chasing him more so than the other way around. You can just play along and whatever comes your way comes your way. At the same time I would be setting my sights elsewhere, while keeping that other girl on file just in case she decides to finally go the whole nine yards. I wouldn't play into her hands though and just be a doormat. Just don't see how that is fun when you aren't getting any.

[ATLDirtyBirds]

Originally Posted by Brent

guys, just let MOTH get his D wet.

He's not though, and it seems as if the opportunity is/was there if he wanted. I can understand a hit and run, any man can. But I'm just not sure what MOTH is going for here.

[M.O.T.H.]

I'll let you know what happens.

[Raiderz4Life]

Pics MOTH...pics...or vid

[CJSchneider]

Originally Posted by raiderz4life

Just nail her already!! Plus she's asian..gotta love it..no matter how big it is...they always wimper haha

Asian women have the best sex whimper.