Relationship Advice Thread

[njx9]

Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

i can't watch the scene without screaming at my TV. Even thinking about it makes me anxious.

yeah, i'm right there. i had to watch a buddy of mine recreate that scene in real life. we stopped hanging out after that.

[Brent]

Originally Posted by njx9

yeah, i'm right there. i had to watch a buddy of mine recreate that scene in real life. we stopped hanging out after that.

is this scene on YouTube? I can barely remember that movie.

[njx9]

Originally Posted by Brent

is this scene on YouTube? I can barely remember that movie.

probably, when jon favreau calls the chick 4.7 million times? i can't even look it up, it makes me a little nauseated.

[Raiderz4Life]

For NJX :)

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[Ness]

What about rolling skating in an indoor rink? I thought that was fun when I was a kid. I don't like the cold at all though.

[Brent]

Originally Posted by Ness

What about rolling skating in an indoor rink? I thought that was fun when I was a kid. I don't like the cold at all though.

skating rink? are you dating a middle schooler? unless it's some bar with a skating rink for ironic purposes, that will be a disgusting place where people eat gross food while they let their demonchild run around for a few hours.

[49ersfan_87]

Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

Aren't you hispanic? white people love ice skating. true story.

I'm Indian, she's White. I figured she would like it haha.

Originally Posted by Prowler

Ice skating will allow you to get pretty close to her and grab her hand or waist. That'll make it easier to grab her hand after and push further for a kiss or makeout later.

Heh, that was part of the idea. Have an activity to do and have some light physical contact, i thought that would help erase some akwardness.

Anyways, i can table this idea for now. I thought she was into me (we've been friends for 4 months, she's started showing some signs she was into me the last couple of weeks). I'm ready to put myself on the line and make a move and i get flat out ignored all night in class. Figures.

[Raiderz4Life]

Take a flop and then "grab" on for dear life....just make sure its believable

[Ness]

Originally Posted by Brent

skating rink? are you dating a middle schooler? unless it's some bar with a skating rink for ironic purposes, that will be a disgusting place where people eat gross food while they let their demonchild run around for a few hours.

I wasn't asking for advice for myself Brent.

In any case, I wouldn't eat at the skating rink. Not sure what rinks you went to, but the one I went out here (Cal Skate) used to be fine.

[kalbears13]

I saw a girl when I was working last year on campus and said "Hello."

She was the cutest girl I had ever seen in my entire life. Possibly cuter than Emma Watson.

I hadn't seen her since then...

...until today!

I visited my beer professor today and at the end of class I saw her as she was leaving. For next 4 weeks of the quarter it will be my mission to get the number of a chick in a class i'm not even in. The one thing that's in my favor though is that we drink alcohol in class.

[M.O.T.H.]

Do roller rinks still exist? Such a birthday party hotspot back in the day. But the only rink I even know of closed down a while ago.

My love life is in shambles, myself. This "bad girl" has ruined me for the time being. Argued with her for 2 hours on Valentines day. Then I went on a date with a really nice, cute girl, and that went really well. Kissed at the end of the night and everything...and she's really into me. But of course I'm still hung up on the other girl. And cant really commit to anything else...it wouldnt be fair, because I know my heart isnt into it right now. Girl drama. Woot.

And I still have three other girls after me. Two with kids and one with a BF. har har.

edit...as far as the only girl I care about right now. Lets just say...I'm Tom Hansen from 500 days of Summer, and she's a more bad ass version of Summer. Hilariously tragic.

[Ness]

Originally Posted by kalbears13

I saw a girl when I was working last year on campus and said "Hello."

She was the cutest girl I had ever seen in my entire life. Possibly cuter than Emma Watson.

I hadn't seen her since then...

...until today!

I visited my beer professor today and at the end of class I saw her as she was leaving. For next 4 weeks of the quarter it will be my mission to get the number of a chick in a class i'm not even in. The one thing that's in my favor though is that we drink alcohol in class.

I thought you were about to show us a photo.

[Ness]

Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

Do roller rinks still exist? Such a birthday party hotspot back in the day. But the only rink I even know of closed down a while ago.

My love life is in shambles, myself. This "bad girl" has ruined me for the time being. Argued with her for 2 hours on Valentines day. Then I went on a date with a really nice, cute girl, and that went really well. Kissed at the end of the night and everything...and she's really into me. But of course I'm still hung up on the other girl. And cant really commit to anything else...it wouldnt be fair, because I know my heart isnt into it right now. Girl drama. Woot.

And I still have three other girls after me. Two with kids and one with a BF. har har.

edit...as far as the only girl I care about right now. Lets just say...I'm Tom Hansen from 500 days of Summer, and she's a more bad ass version of Summer. Hilariously tragic.

I wish I could say I feel sorry for you, but I truly don't. You kind of brought all this "she ruined me" **** on yourself. Folks here even told you to get away. I really don't see it as tragic.

[M.O.T.H.]

Originally Posted by Ness

I wish I could say I feel sorry for you, but I truly don't. You kind of brought all this "she ruined me" **** on yourself. Folks here even told you to get away. I really don't see it as tragic.

You dont really understand the situation at all. There have been so many twists and turns. But anyway, I know I should have never went for it in the first place. Her and I have the weirdest relationship I have ever come across in my life.

It's all good, though. It will get better and **** will pass. I'm impulsive and I act with my heart too much. It happens. I havent been taking any of my friends advice either. Live and learn. You gotta take some chances in life.

[thefalconer]

Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

edit...as far as the only girl I care about right now. Lets just say...I'm Tom Hansen from 500 days of Summer, and she's a more bad ass version of Summer. Hilariously tragic.

i called it.

Originally Posted by thefalconer

are you trying to relive jgl?

[M.O.T.H.]

Yes you did, sir. So funny.

I actually watched it again like two days ago. And I was like...****...that's me to a tee.

[M.O.T.H.]

"She took a giant **** on my chest...literally."

"Literally?"

"No not literally. What's the matter with you? That's disgusting."

[kalbears13]

Originally Posted by Ness

I thought you were about to show us a photo.

I show you.

[Ness]

Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

You dont really understand the situation at all. There have been so many twists and turns. But anyway, I know I should have never went for it in the first place. Her and I have the weirdest relationship I have ever come across in my life.

It's all good, though. It will get better and **** will pass. I'm impulsive and I act with my heart too much. It happens. I havent been taking any of my friends advice either. Live and learn. You gotta take some chances in life.

I only understood the situation as you described it.

[Caddy]

Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

Do roller rinks still exist? Such a birthday party hotspot back in the day. But the only rink I even know of closed down a while ago.

My love life is in shambles, myself. This "bad girl" has ruined me for the time being. Argued with her for 2 hours on Valentines day. Then I went on a date with a really nice, cute girl, and that went really well. Kissed at the end of the night and everything...and she's really into me. But of course I'm still hung up on the other girl. And cant really commit to anything else...it wouldnt be fair, because I know my heart isnt into it right now. Girl drama. Woot.

And I still have three other girls after me. Two with kids and one with a BF. har har.

edit...as far as the only girl I care about right now. Lets just say...I'm Tom Hansen from 500 days of Summer, and she's a more bad ass version of Summer. Hilariously tragic.

I'm waiting for the cliche rom-com happy ending Moth. Don't disappoint me.

[killxswitch]

What? You mean the romance with the insane ho-bag that had (has?) a live-in boyfriend that she lied to you about (and who later sent you threatening texts), while banging some older dude at your office, while also trying to get you to do her but never showing interest beyond that, didn't work out?

[brat316]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan_87

I'm Indian, she's White. I figured she would like it haha.



Heh, that was part of the idea. Have an activity to do and have some light physical contact, i thought that would help erase some akwardness.

Anyways, i can table this idea for now. I thought she was into me (we've been friends for 4 months, she's started showing some signs she was into me the last couple of weeks). I'm ready to put myself on the line and make a move and i get flat out ignored all night in class. Figures.

So there are 3 on this board. Wait dot or feather?

[descendency]

Best relationship advice ever:

[Ness]

Me and my girlfriend did it on an exercise ball last night. It was fun. You folks should try it if you get the chance.

[49ersfan_87]

Does a girl playing with her hair almost the entire night mean anything? I've heard bored and flirtacious before but i'm not sure, figure i would ask here. She basically played with her hair all night. I don't think she was bored (we were together to start work for an assignment but all we did was look at funny pics and talk) and couldn't tell you other body language signals.