Relationship Advice Thread

[StickSkills]

I'm starting to think that this theory that I discussed with my friends is beginning to work:

It's easier to get a girl when she's dating someone, than when she isn't. The reasoning is because it's 1v1 is easier than 1vWorld. When ti's 1v1, all you have to do is convince her that she wants to be with you more than she wants to be with the guy she is currently with. When she's single (1vWorld) you have to convince her that you're better than every single guy that she can possibly imagine is out there

[Brothgar]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

I'm starting to think that this theory that I discussed with my friends is beginning to work:

It's easier to get a girl when she's dating someone, than when she isn't. The reasoning is because it's 1v1 is easier than 1vWorld. When ti's 1v1, all you have to do is convince her that she wants to be with you more than she wants to be with the guy she is currently with. When she's single (1vWorld) you have to convince her that you're better than every single guy that she can possibly imagine is out there

I'd never be able to do that. It just seems too douchey to me.

[StickSkills]

Perception is everything.

[Caddy]

I perceive, that you are, as Broth so eloquently put it, 'douchey'.

[vidae]

If a woman is willing to leave a man for you, she is willing to leave you for another man.

Bitches be triflin all the time dood. Those kind aren't worth it.

[killxswitch]

Originally Posted by vidae

If a woman is willing to leave a man for you, she is willing to leave you for another man.

Bitches be triflin all the time dood. Dem bitches ain't een werf it.

The contrasting dialects were just bothering me.

[MetSox17]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

I'm starting to think that this theory that I discussed with my friends is beginning to work:

It's easier to get a girl when she's dating someone, than when she isn't. The reasoning is because it's 1v1 is easier than 1vWorld. When ti's 1v1, all you have to do is convince her that she wants to be with you more than she wants to be with the guy she is currently with. When she's single (1vWorld) you have to convince her that you're better than every single guy that she can possibly imagine is out there

This strategy has been discussed here on multiple occasions. Just cause there's a goalie, doesn't mean you can't score.

[prock]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

I'm starting to think that this theory that I discussed with my friends is beginning to work:

It's easier to get a girl when she's dating someone, than when she isn't. The reasoning is because it's 1v1 is easier than 1vWorld. When ti's 1v1, all you have to do is convince her that she wants to be with you more than she wants to be with the guy she is currently with. When she's single (1vWorld) you have to convince her that you're better than every single guy that she can possibly imagine is out there

Ease isn't the issue. This is an issue of moral hazard and trying to steal another guy's chick is incredibly douchey. It may be easier, but it's wrong.

[vidae]

Originally Posted by killxswitch

The contrasting dialects were just bothering me.

I slip in and out of it at times, my bizad ya diiiig?

[MetSox17]

I say if the guy is an asshole, it's fair game.

[Prowler]

women aren't possessions. its up to each guy to work at being the best for his girl. if he can't do it, then why should she stay with somebody who is shittier than the new guy? its all fair.

[Brothgar]

Originally Posted by Prowler

women aren't possessions. its up to each guy to work at being the best for his girl. if he can't do it, then why should she stay with somebody who is shittier than the new guy? its all fair.

If he's "not good enough" for her then why exactly is she with him in the first place? Sticking around until "someone better" comes along is dishonest. If your boyfriend is a douche leave him. Don't string him along. Also going out with the intent of looking for women with ****** boyfriends with the expressed purpose in helping them cheat is similar to bountygate.

If you hit on a chick and she happens to be taken hey its part of the game. But going out there and making it a part of your strategy is douche baggery.

[Bolt]

Originally Posted by MetSox17

I say if the guy is an asshole, it's fair game.

Quoted for Truth

[ATLDirtyBirds]

I also fail to see how it's easier. I'd say it's much more likely for one to fall into a "friend that I discuss all my relationship issues with" territory than it is to convince a chick that she needs to leave her current relationship to be in one with you. And that's with a relationship. Just hooking up is even further in favor of the single broad.

I wouldn't let her being in a relationship stop the attempt though. **** morals.

[scottyboy]

god the timing of this is perfect: the girl i like with the football player BF messaged me one night and we had a whole long convo and she said that she has feelings for me and really "likes me likes me" and then asked if I had feelings for her and I (maybe stupidly) admitted that I do. pretty sure shes still with her bf but now these thoughts are back in my head. I'm gonna develop feelings that I got over before and it's ******* annoying. I know i could never be in arelationship with her, but feelings ******* blow.

now she's like calling me babe and said she can't wait til I get home so she can "hug and kiss me all over"

so...yeah.

******* a man

[CashmoneyDrew]

I've been on a few dates in the past couple of weeks with this girl I work with, and it looks like it could be headed for a relationship if this keeps up.

Can't wait for that HR conversation that I'm sure will come from that.

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by CashmoneyDrew

I've been on a few dates in the past couple of weeks with this girl I work with, and it looks like it could be headed for a relationship if this keeps up.

Can't wait for that HR conversation that I'm sure will come from that.

Don't be dipping your pen in the company ink

[MetSox17]

Originally Posted by scottyboy

god the timing of this is perfect: the girl i like with the football player BF messaged me one night and we had a whole long convo and she said that she has feelings for me and really "likes me likes me" and then asked if I had feelings for her and I (maybe stupidly) admitted that I do. pretty sure shes still with her bf but now these thoughts are back in my head. I'm gonna develop feelings that I got over before and it's ******* annoying. I know i could never be in arelationship with her, but feelings ******* blow.

now she's like calling me babe and said she can't wait til I get home so she can "hug and kiss me all over"

so...yeah.

******* a man

Why do you say you can never be with her? Just wondering, if she's really interested in you i don't see why you should feel bad about her wanting to see you when you get home. Just don't go all puppy love on her and take it as it goes.

[scottyboy]

Originally Posted by MetSox17

Why do you say you can never be with her? Just wondering, if she's really interested in you i don't see why you should feel bad about her wanting to see you when you get home. Just don't go all puppy love on her and take it as it goes.

because if she's willing to do this with me while still supposedly having her bf, I just don't think I'd be able to trust her. the whole thing like if she did it to him, she could do it to me.

Best case scenario: we become **** buddies and I am ok with that, really. As long as I don't get, as you said "all puppy love".

It's going to be interesting when I get back.

She did say these things when I presume she was a bit intoxicated (due to the time it was home when we chatted) but since has still been calling me babe and saying how much she misses me. It's just weird.

[tjsunstein]

Girls with boyfriends are trouble. I wouldnt recommend it, its not worth it. I know from experience. As pimp as you may feel, as cool as you may seem, and as wanted as she make you think you are, you're not her boyfriend. Know your boundaries, and cross them.

[StickSkills]

Also, for what it's worth, I never said it's right or anything, simply that it is "easier", and I think that theory holds true.

Also, reminds me of the P.Blackk line from Concorde Rollin, "Um, I had a girl, but I want yours. That's disrespect, and that's a fact. It's for a moment, I"ll give her back."

[OSUGiants17]

Rather than posting the full story I'll just ask...if I almost hooked up with a girl several times at this party but got, for lack of a better word, ****-blocked 4 ******* TIMES! Seriously this girl and me couldn't get 5 seconds alone without someone walking in on us to try and hang out. Anyways, she might be at this party again this weekend. Do you think it's worth trying to get with her again? I mean I don't wanna have to start all over and play these stupid games with her and I swear to god if someone walks in on us again I'm gonna punch them in the face.

[Brent]

I would give it one chance, but odds are she was interested at the moment, not anymore.

[OSUGiants17]

Yea I know and I certainly don't want to get clingy or just look for that, but I know it's there and tempting. I know she wanted it to because we went back and forth teasing and touching each other but no one would leave us alone no matter were we went. She even tried that ******** of "o I'm so cold" when it was 80 degrees out just so I would move in and right when I did someone comes outside and interrupts and wouldn't leave.

[jrdrylie]

Maybe try to be with her in a situation where there is no chance of someone **** blocking you. Hooking up at a party is usually pretty difficult.