Relationship Advice Thread - Page 331

Rosebud · 08-16-2012, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Bulldogs

You from New Jersey too?

Nah, chicago. Is it really that bad though?

eaglesalltheway · 08-17-2012, 07:33 AM

If you are asking yourself how big of an asshole would I be, you should already have your answer.

It really doesn't matter what any of us say, you're going to do what you want anyway. Whether you want to not feel like an asshole and get some easy ***** or not is up to you. Either way, you live and you learn.

kalbears13 · 08-17-2012, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Rosebud

Nah, chicago. Is it really that bad though?

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Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

If you are asking yourself how big of an asshole would I be, you should already have your answer.

It really doesn't matter what any of us say, you're going to do what you want anyway. Whether you want to not feel like an asshole and get some easy ***** or not is up to you. Either way, you live and you learn.

tl;dr- Yes.

Bulldogs · 08-17-2012, 12:12 PM

It's a dick move.

Prowler · 08-17-2012, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Rosebud

So how big of an asshole am I, if when visiting a friend while her BF is away, a BF I know she has been getting frustrated with, I hook up with her? Mind you I'm not seeing anyone at home that I'd be cheating on, although that's because I've carefully avoided asking out my dance teacher, who's really into me, until I get back.

Are you friends with the BF? If not, then its totally cool. Not even a question or doubt. Fill her up.

Brent · 08-17-2012, 05:17 PM

regardless of what you do, don't date that slag.

ATLDirtyBirds · 08-17-2012, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Prowler

Are you friends with the BF? If not, then its totally cool. Not even a question or doubt. Fill her up.

This. Go for it bud.

Rosebud · 08-17-2012, 05:52 PM

I don't know the guy, but they've been together for a while. Almost met him once, but I passed out while they were driving through town. Anyway, I've known her for a long time and I'm pretty sure it's not like she's growing apart from him because of me.

WCH · 08-17-2012, 05:57 PM

I agree with Prowler and ATL.

Raiderz4Life · 08-18-2012, 02:03 AM

I agree with Prowler and ATL and WCH.

If you don't know him...**** it its fair game imo.

TitanHope · 08-18-2012, 02:58 AM

I think the bro code is if you've never shaken hands with the guy, then his girl is fair game. It gets grey whether or not she has to be the one to initiate the encounter or if you can do it, and the "unless she's really, really hot" argument is always perpetuated by scholars.

Gentleman's code would be to refuse her regardless, but don't be a *****.

Rosebud · 08-18-2012, 09:22 AM

Well turns out I can't get out of work this weekend and am going to have to wait until next weekend. So bummed right now.

Ravens1991 · 08-21-2012, 07:54 PM

My friends and I were talking about this the other day. Could you date **** or a girl who has ****** a lot more guys then you have girls? Personally I said no because im a big of a old school kind of guy.

georgiafan · 08-21-2012, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravens1991

My friends and I were talking about this the other day. Could you date **** or a girl who has ****** a lot more guys then you have girls? Personally I said no because im a big of a old school kind of guy.

The * on the words got me lost

Ravens1991 · 08-21-2012, 08:20 PM

the first **** it rhymes with mut. and have had sex with.

StickSkills · 08-21-2012, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by TitanHope

I think the bro code is if you've never shaken hands with the guy, then his girl is fair game. It gets grey whether or not she has to be the one to initiate the encounter or if you can do it, and the "unless she's really, really hot" argument is always perpetuated by scholars.

Gentleman's code would be to refuse her regardless, but don't be a *****.

I'm such an asshole. I slept with my buddy's ex-girl on my birthday. He already had another girlfriend and was on the other side of the country though.

With that said, she had a new boyfriend, but they just broke up. Hopefully if my media credentials for the Temple-Nova game comes through, I'll be able to see her next week.

Brent · 08-21-2012, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravens1991

My friends and I were talking about this the other day. Could you date **** or a girl who has ****** a lot more guys then you have girls? Personally I said no because im a big of a old school kind of guy.

Who cares? Unless she's got diseases or something, what's it matter?

njx9 · 08-21-2012, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Brent

Who cares? Unless she's got diseases or something, what's it matter?

brent, you forget, you've graduated college. it takes that long to stop worrying about bull****.

draftguru151 · 08-21-2012, 09:22 PM

njx is such a ****.

Rob S · 08-21-2012, 09:22 PM

Yeah, I was going to say......after college it's whatever. You can't worry about that stuff. I mean, unless they have recently been whoring it up and cheating on BFs, nothing to worry about really.

They'll probably be good at sex.

Brent · 08-21-2012, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob S

They'll probably be good at sex.

Hell yeah, dude. Girls that have had like 1-2 partners usually act like dead fish.

CashmoneyDrew · 08-21-2012, 11:39 PM

MOTH don't care. And what's good enough for MOTH is good enough for MOTH.

M.O.T.H. · 08-22-2012, 05:35 AM

lol. I need to check this thread more.

Ummm...it really doesnt matter, as long as she's clean. The character of the person is what matters....and if we're talking about wifing this girl up. You better be sure you can trust her. Learned from experience. If we're talking just straight hooking up w/ a girl like that...def. not my thing. I think that's pretty gross...i dont want to be just another number or notch on some girls belt. I know plenty of girls like this, and I wouldnt touch any of them. If I truly liked a girl, who has had a **** ton of experience, or a history of sleeping around...I would want exclusitivity and a real relationship. And that could be hard to come by, with a lot of these girls who sleep around. But just because a girl has a history of banging a bunch of people...doesnt mean, I would write them off completely. I dont think like a lot of these people do...but some girls are just wild when they're not tied down, but can remain faithful and be a great gf, if they were in a relationship. It really varies on the person.

I'm pretty old school...so I hate the fact that I know so many girls, who dont want relationships. They just want to live it up, **** around, and leave all the "serious stuff" for later. Summer Finn? ha. I dont get it myself...I would love a true companion...If I find a girl I want to be with...I wouldnt feel like I was missing out on anything. I cant do the random hookups anymore. Give me something real, over that **** any day. I want someone I could share everything with, not just **** from time to time and get drunk with. It gets old.

BuckeyeDan17 · 08-22-2012, 11:21 AM

MOTH, you sound like...dare I say, a good guy. I almost wish I felt that way.

I really need to see a counselor or something because I don't think the way I feel about a lot of things germane to sexual relations or relationships js normal.

Rosebud · 08-22-2012, 11:45 AM

I've always found it easier to keep a nice separation of needs, become friends with the girls I actually like just hanging out with and talking to, bone the ones I'm attracted to but could never be "just friends" with. That way when my relationships go to hell, as they inevitably do, I'm not losing the people that really matter to me and being friends with so many beautiful woman makes it a lot easier to find someone new.