Relationship Advice Thread

[OSUGiants17]

Last night I met up with a girl at some block party, we were all touchy I said we'd go out that night. Later on I went to her room we drank then went to a party where we started hooking up then to a bar. All her friends where telling me how cute she thinks I am, yadda yadda yadda. We are dancing doing our thing, her brother keeps sizing me up so I go up to him and get his blessing he immediately buys me a drink for being a good guy. She grabs me kisses me and says she'll be right back she's going out with her friend to smoke. On her way back in I see her start hooking up with some other guy so Im like "**** THAT!". I start trying to find someone else to hook up with but I'm too ****** up. Her friends tell me I should forgive her and she really did like me, her brother apologizes and buys me another drink and says he'll talk to her tomorrow. Now I wake up to a text from her saying she's sorry. Should I respond and how should I if I do?

[CashmoneyDrew]

Nah. If you respond and forgive her, she'll know that she can control you and get away with ******** from jump street.

[BuckeyeDan17]

Originally Posted by CashmoneyDrew

Nah. If you respond and forgive her, she'll know that she can control you and get away with ******** from jump street.

Took the words right from my fingers.

Try to get an apologetic bj and let the ship sail.

[SuperPacker]

depends on how hot she is. obviously it's never going to be serious, but there's nothing wrong with manipulating this little situation and tuning it into sexing her. act butthurt about it and tell her she needs to make up for it. if not then you just dont have to speak to her.

Originally Posted by BuckeyeDan17

Took the words right from my fingers.

Try to get an apologetic bj and let the ship sail.

so basically this.

[Rosebud]

I'm sooo sorry sex is pretty awesome if you really milk the situation right.

[OSUGiants17]

Yea I think I'm just gonna turn the whole thing against her and try and get her to blow me for forgiveness or I will **** her friend who has some MASSIVE tits.

[BaLLiN]

i think pictures are in order

[Raiderz4Life]

ppfftt...comin from the guy who hasn't posted any either....just sayin.

[OSUGiants17]

Not fb friends with her so I can't. Sorry Ballin.

[OSUGiants17]

So I responded to her apology with a simple "Ok." and all she has to say is "I still have your backpack if you wanna come get it". Like wow hoe, you don't feel no remorse for that?

[CashmoneyDrew]

Originally Posted by OSUGiants17

So I responded to her apology with a simple "Ok." and all she has to say is "I still have your backpack if you wanna come get it". Like wow hoe, you don't feel no remorse for that?

Tell her to bring it to you. Take control man, I told you she's trying to pull your puppet strings.

[Raiderz4Life]

Listen to CMD bro

[BuckeyeDan17]

That's the opening dude get the **** over there and get your knob slobbed

[SuperPacker]

you were meant to play the upset card. saying "ok." will just make her think you're pissed off and that you dont wanna speak to her. theres still a chance you could go to her house and get the apologetic bang, but you need to really milk it. when you go to her house, go inside, start crying in her arms and you're basically already inside her.

[OSUGiants17]

I refuse to cry haha. I was fully expecting her to say something about how sorry she was after my text but I guess not. I plan on telling her to bring the bag back when she gets back in town tomorrow

EDIT: I just sent her this:
Yea, but I can't come by today. Can you just come drop it off when you get back tomorrow?"

thoughts?

[SuperPacker]

"im still disappointed though. you're friends were saying you liked me lol"

[CashmoneyDrew]

Whatever you do, be assertive. Make things happen on your terms and on your turf. Do not be passive and do not let her set the process.

[SuperPacker]

Originally Posted by CashmoneyDrew

Whatever you do, be assertive. Make things happen on your terms and on your turf. Do not be passive and do not let her set the process.

Do you want OSU to have sex or do you want him to have dignity? I'm sure he'd rather have sex.

[CashmoneyDrew]

Originally Posted by SuperPacker

Do you want OSU to have sex or do you want him to have dignity? I'm sure he'd rather have sex.

She's not going to give him sex if he continually gives in to her and gives her control. It's very obvious she's testing him at this point. He needs to show that he has a set.

[OSUGiants17]

While I would love to have sex with her, Im not trying to sound like a little ***** about the whole thing. Like I don't wanna be all over the top with how butthurt I am

[OSUGiants17]

Decided I'm not gonna ask "Can you drop it off" but instead make a statement like "Just come drop it off tomorrow". Put the ball in her court

[CashmoneyDrew]

Originally Posted by OSUGiants17

While I would love to have sex with her, Im not trying to sound like a little ***** about the whole thing. Like I don't wanna be all over the top with how butthurt I am

Exactly. Girls aren't attracted to guys that whine and complain or seem desperate. Just do your best to brush her off and put in the work at this point. That's the only way this might ever get you anywhere with her.

[Raiderz4Life]

Yea SP...start taking notes.

[OSUGiants17]

CMD.....thoughts on the text I sent?

[SuperPacker]

im not saying beg her. but it was a pretty easy situation to get apology sex from.