Okay guys some quick advice. A girl that I met and hardly ever talked to for an entire semester has been sending waves on fb so I sent some back. We ended up chatting and she really wants to hangout. I was a little hesitant to rush things by asking for a #. I just figured I would see her around campus, but she was quick to give me her number and so I'm feeling pretty confident about it. It isn't a girl I'm crushing on - I might even turn out to not like her because I haven't really spent much time with her. I haven't had much interaction with her at all to be honest. If nothing els she is a sweet girl that I can be friends with.
So from here I would like to hang out with her, but I don't want her to be forced to meet all of my friends and feel shy and not herself. My plan is to just ask what she is up to some nights and see if she invites me to hang out with her friends.
Sorry this seems kind of middle school. She is just a lead that might be a pleasant surprise.
So here it is. Do you think I'm on track or should I pursue it a different way?
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I wouldn't worry about you guys hanging out with each others friends yet. I would find out if you guys like being around each other first. Unless the initial hanging out is likely comprised of a group setting. I mean ****, just go for it either way and provide an update and go from there.
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Yea, as you admitted you barely know her so I feel like meeting friends could actually be kinda weird. Just ask her if she wants to grab coffee or a drink one day and you can get to know her. If that goes well then you can move on from there.
**** waiting for her to invite you, figure out what type of **** she does and invite her to something like that, or just ask her to go out for coffee.
PS I really need to stop seeing 5lbs, but she's extra crazy this time around and looks every bit as gorgeous as she did the first time we dated, so I won't.
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Thanks guys I think I'll just see if she wants to grab coffee sometime. I'll let you guys know how it turns out.
Edit: I guess I just wanted to know what she is like before I go into a date setting over coffee. Cause if I see her around her friends and she is obnoxious or annoying I can just bail on the whole thing.
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Thanks guys I think I'll just see if she wants to grab coffee sometime. I'll let you guys know how it turns out.
Edit: I guess I just wanted to know what she is like before I go into a date setting over coffee. Cause if I see her around her friends and she is obnoxious or annoying I can just bail on the whole thing.
Coffee is the no-pressure way to get to know someone. No real reason to do any pre-work. Coffee is the pre-work to determine if a real date is in order or if you should move on.
Coffee is your best friend people, cheap, and you have to drink it slowly otherwise you will burn your tongue...leaving plenty of time to talk. C'mon now.
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Thanks for advice guys. I went to coffee and it went really well. I'm pretty sure she likes me, but I'm not sure I want to pursue anything till I know her a little better. I'm gonna keep it casual. Maybe meet her at the caf on campus and stuff until I have a better idea.
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