Relationship Advice Thread

[MetSox17]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

No sir you just said first time, just misunderstood the situation you meant. I was thinking more along the lines of a woman you've been seeing for some time, for some reason.

You're slacking, waffles. We were talking about p2w's drinks/boning date with the random girl.

[eaglesalltheway]

Originally Posted by MetSox17

You're slacking, waffles. We were talking about p2w's drinks/boning date with the random girl.

Yeah, didn't catch that, lol. Regardless, eat *****. Its like a golden ticket to have favors returned, of any kind.

[MetSox17]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

Yeah, didn't catch that, lol. Regardless, eat *****. Its like a golden ticket to have favors returned, of any kind.

This is fact.

[pierce2walker]

Hey this wasn't about me, I was responding to StickSkills. But yea it definitely depends on the situation. If you are going out to the bars, then the booze will definitely help you out. But if you're on a date or some situation where you won't be drinking much a tug before could just help you relax.

And yes, going down on a chick = auto poon. I've definitely pulled that one out when I was unsure if things were going to advance. Works every time.



But seriously, it always works.

[Rosebud]

Plus it's just a fun skill to develop.

*sigh* was supposed to have lunch today with the ex today, I didn't even take the afternoon off of work cause I knew she'd bail. This team at least I can totally understand why, but still annoying. This is why I don't feel like an asshole for not breaking it off with the **** buddy yet.

[killxswitch]

Originally Posted by Rosebud

Plus it's just a fun skill to develop.

*sigh* was supposed to have lunch today with the ex today, I didn't even take the afternoon off of work cause I knew she'd bail. This team at least I can totally understand why, but still annoying. This is why I don't feel like an asshole for not breaking it off with the **** buddy yet.

This all sounds fraught with peril.

[Rosebud]

lol yeah, it's not the best, but the boning buddy is just that, we don't hate each other or anything, but I would never date her and we're not very compatible in any way other than physically. While the ex and me ended amicably, and although she's got a lot of baggage, she's a good girl who doesn't trust too well and has a lot of crazy drama in her life. So I feel for her and have been talking to her a lot more lately, give her someone to talk to and cheer her up that's not her son, crazy family and crazier friends.

Then about a week ago I stopped by to drop of some pain pills she wanted me to get her, which she said was because she refuses to tell her doctor that the prescription he's giving her makes her nauseous and so she doesn't take them often...which given some of the thought processes and decision making I saw from her while we were together, wouldn't even be weird...So we started talking, just sitting there holding hands and sucking a little face for almost 5 hours before either of us thought to look at the clock. We haven't talked about it too much, which is why I don't actually expect to get back together with her and am still seeing the boning buddy, but she's actually made an effort to see me and tried to invite me out, so it may happen.

[pierce2walker]

That situation just sounds like way too much of a mess, but that's just me (I just really dislike drama stuff). AND she has a kid??

[Rosebud]

He's a freshman in highschool. And yeah, it's a mess and she's got serious baggage, I remember her once telling me in deadpan seriousness how guys don't have feelings so she sometimes has a hard time talking to meabout stuff. But she's a kind soul, a pretty intelligent woman, we make each other laugh and she's been through so much **** throughout her life that I can see exactly why her brain goes all crazy when it does so i want to be able to help...plus she's really hot and I've never found a girl who's lips feel as amazing as hers. Like I loved her breasts and when she let me go down on her the sex was great to, although a lot of times she'd get very uncomfortable about it which was a major bummer for me, and meant she was painfully tight, but those lips were so intoxicating, the first time we went out we went for a cruise to get all high before dinner and then ended up coming back to my place and making out for hours, completely forgetting to get food.

[Bengals78]

[Brent]

Originally Posted by Rosebud

Fair enough, but to me that's the best part of sex. I actually don't enjoy boning nearly as much if I don't at least taste her first.

Dude, phrasing.

[JoeJoeBrown]

Rosebud, I though you were younger.

Also, stay away from the crazy lady. Crazy always ends up bad.

[Rosebud]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBrown

Rosebud, I though you were younger.

Also, stay away from the crazy lady. Crazy always ends up bad.

I'm actually just turning 24 next month, I've just always gone after older women and she's 32. Crazy being the other factor other than being older than me that all of the women I've actually been interested in shared. So I'm kinda used to wading through insanity.

[JoeJoeBrown]

Originally Posted by Rosebud

I'm actually just turning 24 next month, I've just always gone after older women and she's 32. Crazy being the other factor other than being older than me that all of the women I've actually been interested in shared. So I'm kinda used to wading through insanity.

You have issues if you seek crazy.

They are good in the sack, but they will also kill you.

A single 32 year old with a 14 year old kid = stay the **** away in most cultures.

[killxswitch]

I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Rosey if someone else posted your story you would tell them to GTFO of that situation.

[Rosebud]

It's not like I'm in love with her and want to marry her, she's just a friend I used to date who I've been flirting with again. Anyway the advice I give is very different from how I act, I know I'm ****** up and don't work the way most do, that's why most of my best friends throughout my life have been girls, and the girls I've gotten together with have always been predominantly physical relationships, cause I've always had those friends who were girls for the communicating and other needs.

This girl kinda broke the mold, I met her because she was my best friend's closest school friend, and was dating someone else when we met, so I got to know her and hear about her well before she broke up with him and told my friend she was into me. So whether we're together or not she's going to be a friend of mine and someone I wanna help, because she got herself onto the friend list, making the jump to the bone list doesn't take her off the friend list.

[georgiafan]

So there is this girl I've got to know recently through a combo of facebook/texting/mutal friend. After talking to her briefly in person a few times and not seeing anything change I tried to set up a dinner/date. She didnt really seem intrested which was no big deal and just chalked her up to the friend zone.

A few weeks later she started texting me more and more and eventully asked me to dinner on valetines day. Since she asked me at the last minute I already had plans and couldn't go. Because I figured the chance of a random hot girl asking me out vday was pretty slim so made plans the night before lol. I resisted the urge to try and force a raincheck and just let it happen nautrally.

This past weekend she started dropping hints for me to ask her to dinner and I did and everything went good. Afterwards I got the "Thanks for dinner I enjoyed it and had a great time text". We have been in contact since then and I havent tried to set anything up yet which I know needs to be my next step. She has been legit sick and having surgery in a few days. Part of me is prob taking it slow on purpose bc I know I will fall for this girl when we see each other again. Not sure what my question r advice is just thought i'd type this

[Forenci]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBrown

You have issues if you seek crazy.

They are good in the sack, but they will also kill you.

A single 32 year old with a 14 year old kid = stay the **** away in most cultures.

Or they will chop of your junk and mail it to you.

Either way, I'd never date a crazy person.

[Jensen]

Originally Posted by Forenci

Or they will chop of your junk and mail it to you.

Either way, I'd never date a crazy person.

sometimes you don't know how crazy they are until after you break up with them. which sucks.

[StickSkills]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

So there is this girl I've got to know recently through a combo of facebook/texting/mutal friend. After talking to her briefly in person a few times and not seeing anything change I tried to set up a dinner/date. She didnt really seem intrested which was no big deal and just chalked her up to the friend zone.

A few weeks later she started texting me more and more and eventully asked me to dinner on valetines day. Since she asked me at the last minute I already had plans and couldn't go. Because I figured the chance of a random hot girl asking me out vday was pretty slim so made plans the night before lol. I resisted the urge to try and force a raincheck and just let it happen nautrally.

This past weekend she started dropping hints for me to ask her to dinner and I did and everything went good. Afterwards I got the "Thanks for dinner I enjoyed it and had a great time text". We have been in contact since then and I havent tried to set anything up yet which I know needs to be my next step. She has been legit sick and having surgery in a few days. Part of me is prob taking it slow on purpose bc I know I will fall for this girl when we see each other again. Not sure what my question r advice is just thought i'd type this

Sounds like you're good spot man, jealous. I'm in that whole situation where I already fell for this girl, but she just got out of a 4 year relationship, so I don't know if she wants one and she is a year ahead of me, so she will graduating in 2 months and moving to Europe this summer while I'll stay at Penn State.

[killxswitch]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

So there is this girl I've got to know recently through a combo of facebook/texting/mutal friend. After talking to her briefly in person a few times and not seeing anything change I tried to set up a dinner/date. She didnt really seem intrested which was no big deal and just chalked her up to the friend zone.

A few weeks later she started texting me more and more and eventully asked me to dinner on valetines day. Since she asked me at the last minute I already had plans and couldn't go. Because I figured the chance of a random hot girl asking me out vday was pretty slim so made plans the night before lol. I resisted the urge to try and force a raincheck and just let it happen nautrally.

This past weekend she started dropping hints for me to ask her to dinner and I did and everything went good. Afterwards I got the "Thanks for dinner I enjoyed it and had a great time text". We have been in contact since then and I havent tried to set anything up yet which I know needs to be my next step. She has been legit sick and having surgery in a few days. Part of me is prob taking it slow on purpose bc I know I will fall for this girl when we see each other again. Not sure what my question r advice is just thought i'd type this

Well it seems like you're getting all green lights. Her asking for a first date on VD is a little weird so it's good you didn't do that. But her still showing interest after that is a good thing IMO. Don't be too passive about it. Be as aggressive as you can while staying true to who you are. Confidence and assertiveness are good things.

You might allow her to recover from surgery though.

[Rosebud]

We've talked about it before. If anything she'd anti-freeze my drink, but I'm pretty good at dodging being the target of crazy, so I don't think she'd try to kill me.

[jrdrylie]

You could always send a nice little get-well bouquet to her after her surgery.

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

Sounds like you're good spot man, jealous. I'm in that whole situation where I already fell for this girl, but she just got out of a 4 year relationship, so I don't know if she wants one and she is a year ahead of me, so she will graduating in 2 months and moving to Europe this summer while I'll stay at Penn State.

Originally Posted by jrdrylie

You could always send a nice little get-well bouquet to her after her surgery.

I'm still afraid of falling into the friend zone as our conversations have been mostly about her health since our date. But I guess as along as she is still replying then Its all good and we didn't text a ton before our date. I'm just trying to be safe and not fall for her to soon. I thought about sending her something like that and she already knows by now that im the "nice, christian guy that wil treat her good" and so far that seems to be working. Its rare in my small redneck town to find someone thats 30, hot, no kids, has morals and easy to get along with.

If she is only in europe for the summer thats no major deal just stay on good terms. Will she be living close to you when she gets back?

[Rosebud]

Bitches love smileyfaces.