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Old 05-20-2013, 07:34 PM    (permalink
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i had a similar situation, except i hooked up with her sister for awhile. then she got jealous i was ******* her sister and i ended up hooking up with her. so i got to bang 2 sisters and ended up with the one i wanted too. made for real interesting outings with her family.
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i had a similar situation, except i hooked up with her sister for awhile. then she got jealous i was ******* her sister and i ended up hooking up with her. so i got to bang 2 sisters and ended up with the one i wanted too. made for real interesting outings with her family.
This is the dream right here, guys.
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I had once tried the sister thing too. She wouldn't allow me to meet her
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The closest I've ever gotten is I dated a pair of cousins. There was a pretty big gap between the times so it wasn't nearly as cool.
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Hot women friends are awesome, cause they make the girls your pursuing so much more competitive and jealous so they try super hard. Only issue is if you hook up with her friends, cause then a lot of times the girls will become mortal enemies after being friends.
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Well, with the friends of your female friends thing, you can't just hook up with all of them and use them and such. That will create bad drama. Best case is to go and try to date the hottest/best one if you can. The other best case is to hook up with friends of friends. Bigger population, same advantages, and you can do it multiple times.
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Every guy ends up in the friend zone at least once. Look back through this thread. You will see DOZENS of examples. Guys of a certain age don't have the balls to ask out women or make their intentions clear. Instead, they are passive aggressive. Women don't want passive men. They want men of action.

I think many guys go through the phase of messing up their interactions with women. They lament over that one girl (or girls). Eventually, they either wise up or they don't. I am a big proponent of advising people to be more direct in all of their interactions. However, people also have to make their own decisions and mistakes. Certain things are destined to happen. In the end, no one is going to change or not do something they want until they decide to make that shift.
Truer words were never spoken. From my experience success rate doubles when you sack up and just ask her out. Are their plenty of fails anyway sure but you just handle that and 90% of the time there are no awkward side effects after a day or two.
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It really is a situation of **** or get off the pot.

But a lot of guys like to just sit on the porcelain throne, keeping it warm for the next guy.
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Absolutely. I've done it myself a bunch of times. I've also tried to hang on with girls who basically told me no several times. At a certain point, you just have to relax and put yourself out there without making some sort of stupid commitment. I would typically reject the "friendship" line because I wasn't interested in that at all. When girls would feed me that line, I would just tell them, "I'm interested in pursuing you and I have plenty of friends. If you're not interested, I wish you the best." About 20% of the time, that line would get me a date. It never resulted in any sex, though. Typically a waste.

My recommendation for all the wusses out there is to just put it out there and deal with the consequences. It's much less painful than letting it simmer and build up.
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Question for ya'll relationship advice givers:

To preface, My girlfriend that I talked about a few pages back have now been dating for almost 4 months. Things have had their rough spots as we learn more about each others personalities but not so bad that we got into any huge fights or anything like that. Just small disagreements.

Last night she said that her brother and sister-in-law were going to drop her off of their cell phone plan. I am still on my parents cell phone plan that i am paying them for, and I decided this month that I should go off on my own.

Since I am going on my own plan this month, without even thinking about it i offered to bring her onto my plan and just split the bill down the middle. She was okay with this, but I feel as though money complicates things and we are doing so well now.

I also feel like this is something small to prove that she can be responsible enough to pay bills, so it will better us in the future. But I have a hard time bugging people when they owe me money.

My other worry is that we will break up in the two years that we have a contract and then be forced to stay in contact with her after that.

Good idea, bad idea or otherwise?
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My gut says bad idea, but that's because I don't like the idea of tying yourself to people so early in a relationship for so long. So it's probably not as bad an idea as my initial reaction would lead me to believe.
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To preface, My girlfriend that I talked about a few pages back have now been dating for almost 4 months. Things have had their rough spots as we learn more about each others personalities but not so bad that we got into any huge fights or anything like that. Just small disagreements.

Last night she said that her brother and sister-in-law were going to drop her off of their cell phone plan. I am still on my parents cell phone plan that i am paying them for, and I decided this month that I should go off on my own.

Since I am going on my own plan this month, without even thinking about it i offered to bring her onto my plan and just split the bill down the middle. She was okay with this, but I feel as though money complicates things and we are doing so well now.

I also feel like this is something small to prove that she can be responsible enough to pay bills, so it will better us in the future. But I have a hard time bugging people when they owe me money.

My other worry is that we will break up in the two years that we have a contract and then be forced to stay in contact with her after that.

Good idea, bad idea or otherwise?
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It's a nice gesture vikes, but I think it's not the best idea ever.
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don't do it dude. 2 year contracts. make her go prepaid.
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TMobile offers a decent monthly plan, take her that route. Two years is a long time, last thing you want is a premature breakup and a cancellation fee in the hundreds. Or **** credit. Tell her to fly a kite.
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Different plans - as you said, it is going good, but 4 months still isn't that long of a relationship so hold off on that.
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Don't do it broski.
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TMobile offers a decent monthly plan, take her that route. Two years is a long time, last thing you want is a premature breakup and a cancellation fee in the hundreds. Or **** credit. Tell her to fly a kite.
I like this idea, however, TMobile doesn't have cellular service in South Dakota. Verizon and AT&T are all we have for options. I should also say that we have Sprint, but their service sucks so bad in South Dakota that I can't do it.
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Question for ya'll relationship advice givers:

To preface, My girlfriend that I talked about a few pages back have now been dating for almost 4 months. Things have had their rough spots as we learn more about each others personalities but not so bad that we got into any huge fights or anything like that. Just small disagreements.

Last night she said that her brother and sister-in-law were going to drop her off of their cell phone plan. I am still on my parents cell phone plan that i am paying them for, and I decided this month that I should go off on my own.

Since I am going on my own plan this month, without even thinking about it i offered to bring her onto my plan and just split the bill down the middle. She was okay with this, but I feel as though money complicates things and we are doing so well now.

I also feel like this is something small to prove that she can be responsible enough to pay bills, so it will better us in the future. But I have a hard time bugging people when they owe me money.

My other worry is that we will break up in the two years that we have a contract and then be forced to stay in contact with her after that.

Good idea, bad idea or otherwise?
AWFUL, AWFUL idea. You barely know the girl. Don't add a contractual relationship. This sets a precedent that you will take care of her with no investment on her end at all. If things don't work out (and odds are, they won't), you now have to try to collect half a phone bill from her or cut off her service. Don't put yourself in that kind of a position. Keep things separate until you are together for AT LEAST a year. Get through 4 whole seasons before you set up a multi-year situation.

Her cell phone situation is not your problem really. Sure, it sucks, but she should be able to or should have to stand on her own. Don't go down the path of creating complexity and problems for no reason. There are very few positives and a ton of negatives.

Of course, now that you have discussed it with her, she believes it is going to happen, and you are going to look like a dick when/if you say no. I don't have any advice for you on how to handle that one. Just be prepared for a meltdown because your chick thinks it's happening.
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AWFUL, AWFUL idea. You barely know the girl. Don't add a contractual relationship. This sets a precedent that you will take care of her with no investment on her end at all. If things don't work out (and odds are, they won't), you now have to try to collect half a phone bill from her or cut off her service. Don't put yourself in that kind of a position. Keep things separate until you are together for AT LEAST a year. Get through 4 whole seasons before you set up a multi-year situation.

Her cell phone situation is not your problem really. Sure, it sucks, but she should be able to or should have to stand on her own. Don't go down the path of creating complexity and problems for no reason. There are very few positives and a ton of negatives.

Of course, now that you have discussed it with her, she believes it is going to happen, and you are going to look like a dick when/if you say no. I don't have any advice for you on how to handle that one. Just be prepared for a meltdown because your chick thinks it's happening.
This is good advice.

I know it may sound cliche, but it feels like we have been together a lot longer than that and have been discussing marriage a little bit. She is very mature for her age and I am just slightly immature for my age (I am 3 years older than she is).

I know, to those of you who I have posted with since I started here you might say, "vikes, you've been down this road before and it didn't end well (different story for a different day)" I know that. But my last serious GF I was with was in high school, and we were engaged before I even graduated High school.

We were going to live together this summer but she had a job offer in another city that she couldn't pass up for the summer, and not to mention she is living rent free.

I think we are both mature enough to handle it if/ when we break up. There is just that underlying fear that it is going to cause drama in the relationship the way it is now, like I said, money complicates things.
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you have more than enough of a reason not to do it, money just complicates things.
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Stop discussing marriage so soon. Know her a year before you consider anything like this. Trust me. You will be happier for it.
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**** a year, marriage shouldn't even be discussed until you've lived together for almost two years. People in this country rush into marriage way too ******* fast, that's why all of you get divorced so damn much.
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**** a year, marriage shouldn't even be discussed until you've lived together for almost two years. People in this country rush into marriage way too ******* fast, that's why all of you get divorced so damn much.
Talking out of your ass I see?
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