A Small Predicament Part II.... - Page 2

BigDawg819 · 11-03-2007, 08:41 PM

How many whiny bs threads are we going to have here?

Sweetness, you did nothing wrong and manned up to it. The other guy is a tool and yet you seem bothered by his ignorant and moronic actions. Why? Jesus Christ, Life is to damn short to be worried about petty BS so who cares what this ass clown thinks. Move on, be happy you saw a naked chick, and now go find one for yourself.

DChess · 11-03-2007, 08:42 PM

girls **** everything up, if two girl are in a bathroom trashed, who gives a ****, let them be, dont get your hands dirty. i dont know if you said it was your apartment or not, and even if it is, wait till they come out and kick em out. its college, its not high school, you dont need to worry about everyone.

P-L · 11-03-2007, 09:02 PM

Was she hot?

Vince Lombardi · 11-03-2007, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Moses

If you let people hit you without responding you will have a lot of problems in the future...

Sorry man but that's bull.... fighting doesn't solve anything. If you need to knock somebody the **** out in self defense, then by all means you gotta do what you gotta do. If you feel that you need to hit somebody just to prove how big of a "man" you are, then you're no better than him.

Obviously if your intentions were good and you were only looking out for this chicks well being and you've explained this to him and he still reacted this way, then he's not really a friend and he's not worth your time.

You learn a lot about people in situations like this and sometimes people aren't who you think they are. Don't stoop to his level and don't give him the satisfaction of continuing this drama.

Stash · 11-03-2007, 11:28 PM

Your intentions were innocent and you apologized for the accident so that should have been the end of it. If he got wasted and hit you then he owes you an apology IMO.

Borat · 11-03-2007, 11:44 PM

Sweetness, just look at the scoreboard dude.

Your buddy: Punched you, got his anger out, probably feels vindicated

You: Got punched. Maybe hurt for an hour or two. Get a lifetime of memories of that naked chick.

You get over on this deal. Let your "friend" go. If he's over it, then it's cool. You can always picture his woman naked and in the end, that's all that matters.

BigDawg819 · 11-03-2007, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Borat Sagdiyev

Sweetness, just look at the scoreboard dude.

Your buddy: Punched you, got his anger out, probably feels vindicated

You: Got punched. Maybe hurt for an hour or two. Get a lifetime of memories of that naked chick.

You get over on this deal. Let your "friend" go. If he's over it, then it's cool. You can always picture his woman naked and in the end, that's all that matters.

QFT!

Once again Borat is a prophet.

someone447 · 11-04-2007, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Vince Lombardi

Sorry man but that's bull.... fighting doesn't solve anything. If you need to knock somebody the **** out in self defense, then by all means you gotta do what you gotta do. If you feel that you need to hit somebody just to prove how big of a "man" you are, then you're no better than him.

It isn't to prove how much of a man you are. But if someone hits you and you do not fight back, you are a little *****. People that were there will treat you like a little *****, because you acted like one. Sometimes, violence does solve things.

gbpackers0065 · 11-04-2007, 12:19 PM

Do not fight him if he's your team mate.

litlharsh · 11-04-2007, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by someone447

It isn't to prove how much of a man you are. But if someone hits you and you do not fight back, you are a little *****. People that were there will treat you like a little *****, because you acted like one. Sometimes, violence does solve things.

Are you guys serious with this machismo ********?

someone447 · 11-04-2007, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by litlharsh

Are you guys serious with this machismo ********?

If you get hit, you need to fight back, period. In just about any other case I would say fighting isn't worth it.

Vince Lombardi · 11-04-2007, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by someone447

It isn't to prove how much of a man you are. But if someone hits you and you do not fight back, you are a little *****. People that were there will treat you like a little *****, because you acted like one. Sometimes, violence does solve things.

hahaha what a joke. If your whole sense of identity hinges upon getting into fights to prove you're not a "little *****" then you'll have led a pretty worthless life when it's all said and done. If I need to hit somebody to make another person like me then that's probably not someone that I'd care to be friends with anyways. Violence is only exceptable as an absolute last resort if it's necessary to protect yourself or your family. It's a sign of a weak mind if you can't solve problems without physical violence.

someone447 · 11-04-2007, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Vince Lombardi

It's a sign of a weak mind if you can't solve problems without physical violence.

Not everything can be solved by diplomacy. If someone hits you, and you don't fight back, you are a little *****, and people will take advantage of that fact. It is a sign of a weak person if you don't stand up for yourself.

Moses · 11-04-2007, 01:36 PM

I don't see how defending yourself is acting macho or anything like that. If somebody hits you, you better be ready to defend yourself or you'll:
A) Get beat up.
B) Continue to be harassed because you have shown you will take it.

awfullyquiet · 11-05-2007, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DChess

girls **** everything up, if two girl are in a bathroom trashed, who gives a ****, let them be, dont get your hands dirty. i dont know if you said it was your apartment or not, and even if it is, wait till they come out and kick em out. its college, its not high school, you dont need to worry about everyone.

**** you dchess.

boys (YES BOYS) are so god damn ********. (talk about a classic string of obscenities) if boys wouldn't get all uppity and childish (and saying girls aren't either is also a falsehood) over accidents and stupid ****, and threatening to beat each other up to prove their alpha male, i got bigger balls than you, dominance in a show to impress girls (which doesn't work, as far as i can tell, unless you like the dumb super tramp i have 14 STI's and am in XXX sorority, which, then I pity you)...

if it was his apartment though, he'd be held liable, esp. if they were under the age of 21.
he was also being a nice guy.

i applaud you 34 for your bravery and general, i hope no one's dying because i'm concerned if at the very least for my own selfishness attitude.

p.s. **** that dude. he sounds like a big douche.

DChess · 11-05-2007, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by awfullyquiet

**** you dchess.

boys (YES BOYS) are so god damn ********. (talk about a classic string of obscenities) if boys wouldn't get all uppity and childish (and saying girls aren't either is also a falsehood) over accidents and stupid ****, and threatening to beat each other up to prove their alpha male, i got bigger balls than you, dominance in a show to impress girls (which doesn't work, as far as i can tell, unless you like the dumb super tramp i have 14 STI's and am in XXX sorority, which, then I pity you)...

if it was his apartment though, he'd be held liable, esp. if they were under the age of 21.
he was also being a nice guy.

i applaud you 34 for your bravery and general, i hope no one's dying because i'm concerned if at the very least for my own selfishness attitude.

p.s. **** that dude. he sounds like a big douche.

boys, ugh! im a right soul sisters!

awfullyquiet · 11-05-2007, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by DChess

boys, ugh! im a right soul sisters!

oh go to hell you twat.

DChess · 11-05-2007, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by awfullyquiet

oh go to hell you twat.

what crawled up your ass, njx slap you around a little

bearsfan_51 · 11-05-2007, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by someone447

Not everything can be solved by diplomacy. If someone hits you, and you don't fight back, you are a little *****, and people will take advantage of that fact. It is a sign of a weak person if you don't stand up for yourself.

What 8th grade world do some of you live in?

Moses · 11-05-2007, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

What 8th grade world do some of you live in?

Come on bf_51. If somebody is harassing you all night and then hauls off and smacks you do you just take it? I have pretty thick skin and let a lot of stuff slide but if somebody hits me I'm going to stand up for myself.

awfullyquiet · 11-05-2007, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Moses

Come on bf_51. If somebody is harassing you all night and then hauls off and smacks you do you just take it? I have pretty thick skin and let a lot of stuff slide but if somebody hits me I'm going to stand up for myself.

what's the point?
really. does it really matter if you hit him back or not? little chance he's going to sit there and pummel you if there's other people around watching it happen, because those people would probably pull him off you. so you walk around with a shiner, a bruised jaw, maybe a few cuts... big deal.

DChess · 11-05-2007, 05:00 PM

fighting is so stupid, most people just do it to look like a bad ass.

but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

Moses · 11-05-2007, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by awfullyquiet

what's the point?
really. does it really matter if you hit him back or not? little chance he's going to sit there and pummel you if there's other people around watching it happen, because those people would probably pull him off you. so you walk around with a shiner, a bruised jaw, maybe a few cuts... big deal.

This is not meant at a jab at you, but you are a girl aren't you? How many fights have you been in? If you let people stomp all over you it will happen over and over again. Eventually you need to stand up for yourself.

awfullyquiet · 11-05-2007, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by DChess

what crawled up your ass, njx slap you around a little

i've worked 109 hours in the last two weeks, i've worked saturday, sunday, i missed my flight home on friday, so i kept working. and working. because god damnit, i have nothing else to do.

when you get old, you get stupid, i've determined, five years ago, i woulda taken the opportunity to get drunk all weekend, now, i just work.

bearsfan_51 · 11-05-2007, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Moses

Come on bf_51. If somebody is harassing you all night and then hauls off and smacks you do you just take it? I have pretty thick skin and let a lot of stuff slide but if somebody hits me I'm going to stand up for myself.

I haven't been hit since the 7th grade. Someone pushed me at a bar and I pushed them back because I was drunk. Had I been sober I would have laughed at them and gone back to my drinking.

Never in my life have I thought, "oh wow that person is brave cause they hit someone back". Perhaps there are still bullies post-high school, but I've found that most of them try to intimdate people intellectually or emotionally.