What do you guys think about being after girls that have a boyfriend already. Especially when you're both a senior in high school and the boyfriend is in college?
We hang out together all the time. Just in my gov class today, the class went through a bunch of different topics and me and her just looked at each other like 15 times going, "thats just like...!" We hang out almost every weekend. In fact, we're both going to PSU this weekend for the Blue-White game/partying.
Should I back off and give up, just be patient for her and her boyfriend to break up, or should I say something (she's always been a big hater on cheating, so I don't know if she would want to feel pressure from me at all)?
CC to me it doesnt sound like you have a problem. I get that you dont want to been a dick to girl #1 but its not like you guys have agreed to anything. as far as girl #2 goes get what you can from her then get out.
sounds like you're in the friend zone. proceed to slowly cease all communication.
I agree 100%. little by little stop talking to this girl cause from what youve told us it sounds like she just sees you as a cool guy friend she can hang around.
that logic is flawed. sure cut your losses, chances are you'll never hit it. But why the hell would you just stop talking to her? he said, "We hang out almost every weekend" not "I wanna hit that ass so bad". you can still hang out with her and just know it might not go in a romantic direction, especially since she already has a boyfriend. who knows, she may have some really hot friends.
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that logic is flawed. sure cut your losses, chances are you'll never hit it. But why the hell would you just stop talking to her? he said, "We hang out almost every weekend" not "I wanna hit that ass so bad". you can still hang out with her and just know it might not go in a romantic direction, especially since she already has a boyfriend. who knows, she may have some really hot friends.
haven't you ever seen When Harry Met Sally? Men and Women can't be friends.
I also say you should not cut her off. It sound's to me like you two are pretty good friends. It might not ever get romantic, but if you stay in her good books, she could set you up with a hot girl in the future. It is always good to have that close friend that's a girl, that you know it will never get romantic with. In my experience they help you with a women's oppinion on alot of issues, and I have been setup with some good looking girls.
that logic is flawed. sure cut your losses, chances are you'll never hit it. But why the hell would you just stop talking to her? he said, "We hang out almost every weekend" not "I wanna hit that ass so bad". you can still hang out with her and just know it might not go in a romantic direction, especially since she already has a boyfriend. who knows, she may have some really hot friends.
that logic is flawed. sure cut your losses, chances are you'll never hit it. But why the hell would you just stop talking to her? he said, "We hang out almost every weekend" not "I wanna hit that ass so bad". you can still hang out with her and just know it might not go in a romantic direction, especially since she already has a boyfriend. who knows, she may have some really hot friends.
Originally Posted by jballa838
"that logic is flawed. sure cut your losses, chances are you'll never hit it. But why the hell would you just stop talking to her? he said, "We hang out almost every weekend" not "I wanna hit that ass so bad". you can still hang out with her and just know it might not go in a romantic direction, especially since she already has a boyfriend. who knows, she may have some really hot friends."
....."sigh"
Last edited by GET LOOSE : 04-20-2010 at 04:39 PM.
Dont put ***** on a pedestal, always call a girl the day after you **** them(it will keep you in the game), Dont overthink everything, and long distance will never work. there ya go buddy thats all I got for now
Haha thats good, but too broad man. I need specific advice.
My girl keeps seeing her "friend" allot atm, they have a history...and basically its making me paranoid as ****, i just cant help but think **** is going on between them. Basically i just dont trust any girl, ever.
Have you discussed this with her? You should tell her you dont feel comfortable with her hanging out with him(it is a him right?) so much. Make her see it from your perspective. Say "what if I hung out with a girl as much as you hang out with your "friend". Lay down the law brotha
Haha thats good, but too broad man. I need specific advice.
My girl keeps seeing her "friend" allot atm, they have a history...and basically its making me paranoid as ****, i just cant help but think **** is going on between them. Basically i just dont trust any girl, ever.
Get out of the friend zone, no matter which way it goes (towards a romantic relationship or no friendship)? And it's easier to go towards the no friendship side. Thats what ya'll are saying, right?
Haha thats good, but too broad man. I need specific advice.
My girl keeps seeing her "friend" allot atm, they have a history...and basically its making me paranoid as ****, i just cant help but think **** is going on between them. Basically i just dont trust any girl, ever.
Is this the same girl who was threatening suicide? If so that's ****** up.
Girls seeing old friend's with history more than once a week, for more than thirty minutes at time is too much. Something's going down.
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If you liked (want to **** her) a single girl, would you risk losing the friend in the process of getting out of "the friend zone"?
Sometimes to get a woman, you have to be willing to risk losing her.
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I also say you should not cut her off. It sound's to me like you two are pretty good friends. It might not ever get romantic, but if you stay in her good books, she could set you up with a hot girl in the future. It is always good to have that close friend that's a girl, that you know it will never get romantic with. In my experience they help you with a women's oppinion on alot of issues, and I have been setup with some good looking girls.
So i'm kinda talking to the girl right now... anyways when we go to PSU we stay on my sisters floor (theres like a group of 5 of us) and originally she was on the couch, but then decided to come down to the floor and cuddle w/ me. Anyways, we just had blankets, no sleeping bags, and were really cold that night. So she told me the next day that she would bring a sleeping bag the next time.
Tonight, she informed me that, "I can't sleep in my sleeping bag with pants o. I'm pretty sneaky about it, but its too hot. I figured I should warn you." So hold up! As I said, she has a boyfriend (we're seniors in HS, he's a freshman in college), and she's a really nice innocent girl too. Anyways, I'm thinking that she is hinting at that we'll cuddle again this weekend (I don't mind it at all, nice to have someone there), and so that makes me ask, am I really in the friend zone?