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Old 04-23-2010, 01:10 AM    (permalink
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I think you are, IDK you either are or you are going to get laid next time.


anyone today I saw that one girl I talked about earlier in this thread, I kinda backed down since she was w/ this travis barker wanna be doing some HW. After a coupe of beers tonight I decided I am tired of being a ******* ***** when it comes to women. I posted many questions here back in the day looking for some magic line, I realized that its all in your confidence w/ women.
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Anyways, I'm thinking that she is hinting at that we'll cuddle again this weekend (I don't mind it at all, nice to have someone there), and so that makes me ask, am I really in the friend zone?
You are one of two things:

1) So far in the friend zone that she'll hang out pants-less around you.

2) She's teasing you and thinking about ******* you if you act the right way.

What the "right way" to act is depends on the girl. And if you don't know (there is no way to know), best of luck to you.
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You are one of two things:

1) So far in the friend zone that she'll hang out pants-less around you.

2) She's teasing you and thinking about ******* you if you act the right way.

What the "right way" to act is depends on the girl. And if you don't know (there is no way to know), best of luck to you.
This is the truth.

Unfortunately there are very few things women control in life outside the kitchen, sex is one of them and at this point it seems she is in control over whether something will happen or not.

I'd say if you kind of play-off the cocky funny role by playfully teasing her that night and somehow manage to get her thinking only about wanting to sleep beside you all night, you will have a chance. Don't think the nice guy role will work on this one but also at the same time you can't be too cocky or arrogant cause you might drive her away.

But if you do end up under the same blanket, let her make the first move, and if that means she turns over to stare at you and her lips come within 3 inches of yours...she wants you.

Tough task ahead of you good sir.
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I think you are, IDK you either are or you are going to get laid next time.


anyone today I saw that one girl I talked about earlier in this thread, I kinda backed down since she was w/ this travis barker wanna be doing some HW. After a coupe of beers tonight I decided I am tired of being a ******* ***** when it comes to women. I posted many questions here back in the day looking for some magic line, I realized that its all in your confidence w/ women.
It is oftentimes difficult to step out of you're element and approach a girl for conversation but what guys have to realize is girls are mostly just as shy and reluctant as a man is.

The effect of having an energy/confidence about you is so often played down these days for things like looks but I feel the way you portray yourself has a much bigger impact. Having that energy about you will make women comfortable around you and make it easier for them to step out of their element and talk.

A good way to get around this confidence issue is to approach any and all women, or even men too, in a social environment and just have friendly discussions. Do not think about getting in their pants, just talk, smile, make a few jokes, relate to something they say, get their names and get out. This will get you comfortable talking to new people and build the confidence you need so in the future you will be able to show your 'value' to women through innocent conversation and they may want to further things with you.
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A good way to get around this confidence issue is to approach any and all women, or even men too, in a social environment and just have friendly discussions. Do not think about getting in their pants, just talk, smile, make a few jokes, relate to something they say, get their names and get out. This will get you comfortable talking to new people and build the confidence you need so in the future you will be able to show your 'value' to women through innocent conversation and they may want to further things with you.
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So theres a girl Id love to birddog in my public speaking class. Only bad thing is she is very good friends with a girl I dated.... back when I was a sophmore in high school. Anyway this situation would turn out good for me?
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So theres a girl Id love to birddog in my public speaking class. Only bad thing is she is very good friends with a girl I dated.... back when I was a sophmore in high school. Anyway this situation would turn out good for me?
Yeah you can birddog both of them at the same time.
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So theres a girl Id love to birddog in my public speaking class. Only bad thing is she is very good friends with a girl I dated.... back when I was a sophmore in high school. Anyway this situation would turn out good for me?
I'd say a threesome would be a good turn out.
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Silly rabbits, I meant for an actual relationship! Silly silly.
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So theres a girl Id love to birddog in my public speaking class. Only bad thing is she is very good friends with a girl I dated.... back when I was a sophmore in high school. Anyway this situation would turn out good for me?
Work it right before summer break so you don't have to deal with the drama.

During the summer would work too.
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Nah im in college now, and I finally asked my teacher the girls name. And ill work on it soon, im trying to devise a way that my ex and her don't talk during the layover.
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Nah im in college now, and I finally asked my teacher the girls name. And ill work on it soon, im trying to devise a way that my ex and her don't talk during the layover.
Asked the teacher her name? Original, but I don't know if I like it.

Seems like you are thinking too much about this, and trying to set up a perfect plan for meeting here. Usually never works out the way you want. I say do not over think a wheel or it will just spin out of control and you will loose it.
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well my gf and i had a talk and she wants to think if she wants to still be with me. I have my money on she will become my first ex. Thoughts on what it means when a girl wants to think about it?
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well my gf and i had a talk and she wants to think if she wants to still be with me. I have my money on she will become my first ex. Thoughts on what it means when a girl wants to think about it?
it is over. cut ties & move on. don't wait on her indecisive mind.

also, prepare for an avalanche of bull **** drama.
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well my gf and i had a talk and she wants to think if she wants to still be with me. I have my money on she will become my first ex. Thoughts on what it means when a girl wants to think about it?
Haha, no offense but that is a ***** move by her and shows she is not worth the time or effort by you. Do as brent said.

Just recently broke off my first real relationship as well after it kind of snowballed. Honestly, being single a great feeling 95% of the time for the first little while. But the other 5% its kind of hard to grasp not having someone to hang out with and do all that cheesy gf/bf ****.

Got over that pretty quickly though with a couple trips to the bar and 1 and a half months into the break up I truly feel like a new man, don't regret it whatsoever.

Unfortunately, like brent said, after break up drama will soon follow. Just try and move on as best as possible.
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Be the steak.. shes fallin' for hot dogs and hamburgers. Be the steak
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well my gf and i had a talk and she wants to think if she wants to still be with me. I have my money on she will become my first ex. Thoughts on what it means when a girl wants to think about it?
I'm not sure how okay with that you are since you didn't say, but if you do not want it to end I would just suggest that if she breaks it to you (My bet is she will say its not you its me but we can be friends) you have to react without care or indifference. There is nothing you can say to change her mind, she has mentally prepared for you to try that and its useless.

However if you just get up and leave and don't discuss it further, that is enough to bother a lot of normal younger girls.

I'm not saying it is guaranteed, but you aren't going to do yourself any good otherwise.
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long story short as to what she is now telling me, she was kicked out of her mother's house, her dad is selling his parents, his, and her mom's house and they are moving. IMO, it is over without her actually saying it. Thoughts?
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long story short as to what she is now telling me, she was kicked out of her mother's house, her dad is selling his parents, his, and her mom's house and they are moving. IMO, it is over without her actually saying it. Thoughts?
Not knowing the whole scenario and just commenting on the last couple, she may well be overwhelmed with all this and wants time because she doesn't want to worry about hurting or inflicting drama on you. Sounds like there is a lot of turmoil and unknown going on with her family and living situations, and that is going to cause some varying degrees of emotions. She may well just be trying to be a stand up person by asking for time because she doesn't feel she can deal with all thats going on with that and a relationship with you.

Honestly my advice is, if you care for and about the girl, ride out the wave. Give her time and space, but also let her know that you care and are there for her. Not just for perks of a relationship, but there for her with emotional support too. Don't focus on whether or not the relationship is tanking, but just focus on supporting her and giving her some relief.
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Not knowing the whole scenario and just commenting on the last couple, she may well be overwhelmed with all this and wants time because she doesn't want to worry about hurting or inflicting drama on you. Sounds like there is a lot of turmoil and unknown going on with her family and living situations, and that is going to cause some varying degrees of emotions. She may well just be trying to be a stand up person by asking for time because she doesn't feel she can deal with all thats going on with that and a relationship with you.

Honestly my advice is, if you care for and about the girl, ride out the wave. Give her time and space, but also let her know that you care and are there for her. Not just for perks of a relationship, but there for her with emotional support too. Don't focus on whether or not the relationship is tanking, but just focus on supporting her and giving her some relief.
i would agree with you, but she doesn't actually want to hang out with me. She would rather be with her friends then me.
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