Relationship Advice Thread - Page 274

SickwithIt1010 · 06-21-2011, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by killxswitch

Just play it slow and see where it goes. It is a bummer but sometimes there are legit reasons to cancel.

I think it was legit but sometimes when a girl isnt usually a relationship type you wonder more than you should.

fischbowl · 06-22-2011, 07:22 AM

The Stripper is coming to New York for a visit. She's supposed to stay with me, but I'm wondering if it would be keen to get a hotel room, instead of having her stay in my apartment with my ****** roommates and lack of air conditioning. Your thoughts, draft forum?

Regardless, you won't hear from me those few days as I will be out and about and face deep in poonanny.

Hawk · 06-25-2011, 01:08 PM

I"m back in the game. Broke up with my gf of 18 months a few weeks ago, and have a 1st date tonight with a cute girl I met at a party. Its been a long time since I was in this situation, and I'm actually a bit nervous. DC, any final advice?

ATLDirtyBirds · 06-25-2011, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Hawk

I"m back in the game. Broke up with my gf of 18 months a few weeks ago, and have a 1st date tonight with a cute girl I met at a party. Its been a long time since I was in this situation, and I'm actually a bit nervous. DC, any final advice?

Don't be nervous.

StickSkills · 06-25-2011, 05:14 PM

Any suggestions for a date in the DC area?

TimD · 06-26-2011, 11:24 AM

i have a terrible habit of becoming extremely self-conscious when i first start things with girls, and once i accept that the chick actually like to spend time with me, things are fine. yet until that moment it can fall apart at any moment due to my terrible decision making. it sounds really douchey, but im not bad at attracting girls yet it seems like none of them ever want to pursue anything further than physical relationships. i dont know how to start relationships through communication instead of attraction. anyways...

i had a pretty good thing going with a girl on my abroad program, but when she asked to be alone for a day while we were vacationing in venice i took it as a sign that i did something wrong. that wasnt the case, but while i was trying to "fix" whatever i thought i did, i pissed her off. were supposed to go away to florence this weekend together, and even though she says its still happening, she asked me to give her a couple days to be alone. itll be a miracle if i dont **** it up during that time. i hope i can make it to fri without completely screwing up

Damix · 06-26-2011, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by StickSkills

Any suggestions for a date in the DC area?

Jaleo's isn't bad, tapas are always decent dates. I tried ps7s not too long ago and it wasn't bad. Also Chef Geoff's is a personal fave, I eat lunch there at least once a week.

TimD · 07-07-2011, 06:40 AM

i need to stop drinking...

georgiafan · 07-07-2011, 07:53 AM

My girlfriend of 20 months just broke up with me yesterday

killxswitch · 07-07-2011, 09:34 AM

Sorry georgiafan. That always sucks.

georgiafan · 07-07-2011, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by killxswitch

Sorry georgiafan. That always sucks.

Yea man out of the blue no warning or anything just a text message on a wednesday night. After we had been texting and talking through out the day like always. We hadn't been fighting and I've been treating her good and all that stuff.

Nalej · 07-07-2011, 10:24 AM

By text. That's bull-****

killxswitch · 07-07-2011, 10:47 AM

Did you get any explanation?

georgiafan · 07-07-2011, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by killxswitch

Did you get any explanation?

Yea stuff like "i just wanna be single" and "I don't fell the same way anymore".

Jamaal-Football · 07-07-2011, 01:12 PM

She probably met someone else. It's best that you go out and do the same, it's obvious she's cold hearted if from one day to the next she ended it like that.

georgiafan · 07-07-2011, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Jamaal-Football

She probably met someone else. It's best that you go out and do the same, it's obvious she's cold hearted if from one day to the next she ended it like that.

I know the books says she prob meet someone else, but I'll be stunned if thats the real reason.

Jamaal-Football · 07-07-2011, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by georgiafan

I know the books says she prob meet someone else, but I'll be stunned if thats the real reason.

If she "just wants to be single" and "doesn't feel the same" anymore, after being in a relationship with someone that has not given her reason to feel disconnected, it's usually because someone else is in the picture. Obviously that isn't always the case, but you should probably be ready for that so you aren't blindsided.

SickwithIt1010 · 07-07-2011, 02:32 PM

I agree, It sounds like she prolly found someone else....there is no other reason for her to just break it off out of nowehere and especially over a text message.

georgiafan · 07-07-2011, 02:55 PM

I could be wrong, but like I said really don't think she left me for another guy. She still hasn't changer her facebook status to single (she is on fb all day). I texter her first thing this morning about meeting face to face and she said no. So I don't know.

I'm not really look for advice as much as I am just venting

YAYareaRB · 07-07-2011, 03:12 PM

vent on brotha!

georgiafan · 07-07-2011, 03:35 PM

Like I said we had been dating for 20 months and talked every day for 2 months before we meet. Me and my brother are super super close and do everything together (work,live together, church,weekends etc.). We was both single for a long time and neither one of us had a real girlfriend until we was late 20's (i'm 29, she is 23). I meet my gf and then 2 months later she introduced him to a girl she knew.

Fast Foward till now they are engaged and it just felt like fait that I would end up marrying her. I'm to figure out what to do about living as my bro is gonna buy me out for my part of the house we own together. So this now makes that more tricky.

They are a few things about her that I was worried about she doesnt her drivers license and her weight (looking long term). But she is a nice girl I still love her I just dont know.

Figures my goof ball cousin just upload pics from our cruise last month and taged her in a bunch. Then he wrote on her wall "hey how come you un tagged yourself in those pics" lol

YAYareaRB · 07-07-2011, 05:08 PM

i couldn't even offer you any advice even if you wanted it. such a tough situation you've been put it in.

ATLDirtyBirds · 07-07-2011, 05:45 PM

If you really don't think it's another guy, she might just be creating some drama in what she considers a mundane relationship. She might just be looking for you to "fight" for you guys, or some ******** like that.

StickSkills · 07-08-2011, 02:28 AM

Met this girl this week, we really hit it off. I found out about tuesday that she had a boyfriend, but apparently she broke up with him yesterday. I was curious and asked her how she broke it to him and she said, "I used the whole just want to be single line." Apparently he bought it too, what a putz! LMAO.

EDIT: just read through this page... this is awkward now.

georgiafan · 07-08-2011, 10:23 AM

I decided to text her since it had been over 24 hours since we had talked and she still hadnt changed her facebook status to single.

Me - How r u holding up?

Her - I've been better

Me - Yeah I understand

Her - I still want to talk to you, but I can't discuss this or i'll get upset at work

Me - I understand, you know all the ways to get ahold of me. So whenever u r ready to talk contact me. Have a good way at work

(at this point i'm thinking the contact is over for the time being)

Her - We're suppose to get a new AC installed this morning

She is still texting me now about general stuff, but i want post all of them

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Originally Posted by YAYareaRB

i couldn't even offer you any advice even if you wanted it. such a tough situation you've been put it in.

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Originally Posted by ATLDirtyBirds

If you really don't think it's another guy, she might just be creating some drama in what she considers a mundane relationship. She might just be looking for you to "fight" for you guys, or some ******** like that.