Relationship Advice Thread

[georgiafan]

I didnt know she was on there and then I saw who had viewed my profile and I see her. It was really ackward and stuff but makes for a funny story. We are still friends and talk and stuff but still really ackward.

Originally Posted by CashmoneyDrew

Someone needs to sig quote this.

Also for relevancy to the thread. Got my first date with this girl from my class this week. It'll be my first date with a sorority girl. Not quite sure what to expect but it should be fun.

It can be tricky with a waitress bc you always have to try and find out is she flirting/being nice bc she likes me or so I will give her a big tip. Does he know if she is single? If he doesnt he needs to find that out first.

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

Protocol on asking a waitress for her number, with the hopes of still being able to eat at the diner in the future if she says no... GO!

My one buddy is stuck on this one waitress at a diner we go to fairly frequently, but doesn't have the balls to ask this chick out or for her number, or anything, and his excuse is that if she says no her family (owns the diner) will not allow him to eat there ever again. I'm calling BS and telling him just to nut up anyway, who gives a **** about food when there are plenty of other diners around, but he doesn't hear me too well, I guess, haha. Any advice on how to approach her without making my friend worry about getting kicked out of a diner? Personally, I wouldn't give a ****, its just a diner and in all likelihood, they wouldn't kick him out anyway, or refuse service if he came back. I think he's just being a ***** and making excuses. SO i told him if he doesn't grow a pair I'm ignoring bro code, so hopefully that'll get him going a little bit, but other than that, I don't know what else I can do.

[eaglesalltheway]

She's single, but she is always coming over to our table and talking to us when we're there. Started off mostly because we are the only people our age that really go there, we've only actually ever had her as our waitress twice. I've been trying to get my buddy to go for it for a while, but he's just being stubborn.

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

She's single, but she is always coming over to our table and talking to us when we're there. Started off mostly because we are the only people our age that really go there, we've only actually ever had her as our waitress twice. I've been trying to get my buddy to go for it for a while, but he's just being stubborn.

sounds like it would be a worth a shot if he's to stubborn/scared to do it in person which is always the best choice. Maybe he could try talking to her on facebook are something. I know thats not the best answer but its better then doing nothing.

On a similar subject went a resturant yesterday and as soon as I sit down the girl starts talking and remembers me and several other things. This caught me off guard as I've only been in there once and it was like a month ago. I didn't really get much chance to talk bc It was right after church and she was really busy. She may be married though so i'm trying to find that out lol

[eaglesalltheway]

I've been talking to this one girl for a little bit now and I told her my friends and I went on a walk last night around our town (it was still pretty nice then, barely needed our coats). She was talking jokingly about how she doesn't want to go on a walk at night because she would get raped. I sent back a lol and she replies with "I might like it though :), its been a while"...


How in the bloody **** do you respond to that ****? At least not without sounding like some sort of douche or perve...

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

I've been talking to this one girl for a little bit now and I told her my friends and I went on a walk last night around our town (it was still pretty nice then, barely needed our coats). She was talking jokingly about how she doesn't want to go on a walk at night because she would get raped. I sent back a lol and she replies with "I might like it though :), its been a while"...


How in the bloody **** do you respond to that ****? At least not without sounding like some sort of douche or perve...

I would just respond with something causual and kinda fun/flirty. She could be joking or she could be trying to get in your pants so better to play it off safe.

[kalbears13]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

I've been talking to this one girl for a little bit now and I told her my friends and I went on a walk last night around our town (it was still pretty nice then, barely needed our coats). She was talking jokingly about how she doesn't want to go on a walk at night because she would get raped. I sent back a lol and she replies with "I might like it though :), its been a while"...


How in the bloody **** do you respond to that ****? At least not without sounding like some sort of douche or perve...

"me too :)"

[BuckeyeDan17]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

I've been talking to this one girl for a little bit now and I told her my friends and I went on a walk last night around our town (it was still pretty nice then, barely needed our coats). She was talking jokingly about how she doesn't want to go on a walk at night because she would get raped. I sent back a lol and she replies with "I might like it though :), its been a while"...


How in the bloody **** do you respond to that ****? At least not without sounding like some sort of douche or perve...

To be honest, I'd play dumb a bit and not really think too much about what to say. Maybe just casually change the subject to a normal one. Stay conservative maybe and see how persistent she stays with those kinds of remarks. If she makes a couple more, maybe she's looking for a railing. But if she makes a lot, don't continue to be unresponsive, or she'll feel like she's getting rejected.

Playing dumb has always worked for me in those moments where I was unsure how to respond to remarks I was unsure what to make of. But then again, I have difficulty believing girls are flirting with me.

[someone447]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

I've been talking to this one girl for a little bit now and I told her my friends and I went on a walk last night around our town (it was still pretty nice then, barely needed our coats). She was talking jokingly about how she doesn't want to go on a walk at night because she would get raped. I sent back a lol and she replies with "I might like it though :), its been a while"...


How in the bloody **** do you respond to that ****? At least not without sounding like some sort of douche or perve...

She brought it up, so you won't sound like a perv. Invite her to hang out, then afterwards invite her to your place and make a move. She is into it. There is no doubt about that.

[Brent]

tell her that she better watch her ******* back with a pic of you in a ski mask.



am I doing that right?

[MetSox17]

Tell her you've always wanted to have sex with her at gun-point. That might get you somewhere.

[eaglesalltheway]

Originally Posted by Brent

tell her that she better watch her ******* back with a pic of you in a ski mask.



am I doing that right?

I almost considered doing that, lol, but it would've just been in a giant hoodie. So either we're both doing it right, or...

I just went with a mix of kal and georgiafan said, sorta.

Oh and someone, that is already in the plans, I brought that up later on yesterday.

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

I almost considered doing that, lol, but it would've just been in a giant hoodie. So either we're both doing it right, or...

I just went with a mix of kal and georgiafan said, sorta.

Oh and someone, that is already in the plans, I brought that up later on yesterday.

what did she say?

[eaglesalltheway]

Nothing really, just laughed and then she brought up the snow we were supposed to get last night, and since it was weather, I got off topic pretty easily, lol.

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

Nothing really, just laughed and then she brought up the snow we were supposed to get last night, and since it was weather, I got off topic pretty easily, lol.

sounds like she may have been joking which shows she prob has a good sense of humor if she's able to joke and laugh about something like that. You can always find a way to casually bring up sex when you text her the next time and see what she says.

[eaglesalltheway]

Yeah, its not really a huge deal, it just really threw me off how it all got brought up.

Outside of that comment, this chick has been real cool to talk to, one of the few chicks I can actually have a conversation about football with, who actually knows her team (including o-linemen and defensive players names), the only problem... her team is the Giants, lol.

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

Yeah, its not really a huge deal, it just really threw me off how it all got brought up.

Outside of that comment, this chick has been real cool to talk to, one of the few chicks I can actually have a conversation about football with, who actually knows her team (including o-linemen and defensive players names), the only problem... her team is the Giants, lol.

The good thing about a girl that cheers for another time is that it's easy to flirt/trash talk with her bad mouthing the team she cheers for. I never trash talk or anything about teams with other guys but with girls it's diffrent. That happens alot down here in the south when just about every girl follows college football.

Have yall went out on a date yet?

[georgiafan]

Quick poll on a first date who opens the car door for the girl?

[Brent]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

Quick poll on a first date who opens the car door for the girl?

I might but I doubt it

[A Perfect Score]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

Quick poll on a first date who opens the car door for the girl?

Depends on the girl. If she seems like she'd buy the sentimentality, then go for it. Others might just laugh at you though.

[Raiderz4Life]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

Quick poll on a first date who opens the car door for the girl?

If she's into the chivalry stuff...then yes...if not....then let her open her own gtdamn door

[eaglesalltheway]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

Have yall went out on a date yet?

Not yet, I've got one lined up though. I saw this girl for the first time in a while a few weeks ago and talked with her on FB after. I saw her again and exchanged numbers (a week or so ago), and we've been talking regularly since then.

[eaglesalltheway]

Simple way to figure this out... You should be driving, correct? If she opens the door by the time you get to it, let her. If she is opening her own door (your door) she obviously doesn't care. Otherwise, open it. I usually plan on opening it for her either way, bc that's just the type of guy I am, but I've had chicks who could care less, and if they don't care, I'm not going to go out of my way... Sometimes you just gotta let **** figure it out for itself.

[MetSox17]

I'm a pretty chivalrous guy, very old fashioned, but my gf just recently reamed me out for not opening the car door for her. So, of course i'm doing it now.

[killxswitch]

She reamed you out? For that? Really?

[MetSox17]

Well it was a jokingly serious kind of conversation, i was just being a little dramatic.