Relationship Advice Thread - Page 299

49ersfan_87 · 01-22-2012, 10:28 PM

I have kind of a general question. I hung out with the girl i liked for about half an hour and we had a decent convo (nothing special or deep). However, i'm wondering if i missed on a hint. I was telling her i liked to go drinking and she said something along the lines of "yeah i need to get drinking again". Is it possible that was a hint? It kind of went over my head until i just realized that it could have been a hint, then it was too late to say anything. There wasn't anything else that could have been a hint or anything like that in the convo.

Regardless, i think i'll ask her out for drinks next time i see her. Just wanted some feedback if anyone has any.

Brent · 01-22-2012, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by 49ersfan_87

I have kind of a general question. I hung out with the girl i liked for about half an hour and we had a decent convo (nothing special or deep). However, i'm wondering if i missed on a hint. I was telling her i liked to go drinking and she said something along the lines of "yeah i need to get drinking again". Is it possible that was a hint? It kind of went over my head until i just realized that it could have been a hint, then it was too late to say anything. There wasn't anything else that could have been a hint or anything like that in the convo.

Regardless, i think i'll ask her out for drinks next time i see her. Just wanted some feedback if anyone has any.

I don't think it was anything. Invite her out to go drinking, if she declines, never talk to her again.

On that note, for those curious, that chick I mentioned before, well, last weekend she was seated with me during that Saints-49ers game and watched me go through that emotional rollercoaster. I guess it was either endearing or at least memorable, because today she messaged me a few times about the game. I am not reading much into it, but I guess it's nice to know that she is at least thinking of me. We'll see if something comes of it, but I am not getting my hopes up.

RCAChainGang · 01-22-2012, 11:31 PM

This **** is exhausting. It sucks cause it is only once in a blue moon that I actually really like a girl. I'll see girls and think they are pretty, but there is something different about this one. All these social rules are freaking ridiculous. I just want to ask her on a freaking date.

XxXdragonXxX · 01-22-2012, 11:44 PM

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move in, be awkward friends. One night both of you will be drunk and bam you'll tap dat asss. Then from there more problems.

I'm totally willing to deal with certain problems, as long as the problems aren't of the "that was a mistake and we should just go back to being awkward friends again" variety. I don't want to get sucked into that bottomless pit again.

thefalconer · 01-23-2012, 11:55 AM

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All these social rules are freaking ridiculous.

THIS! when did interacting with people get so complicated.

Prowler · 01-23-2012, 11:57 AM

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THIS! when did interacting with people get so complicated.

When you and them have significant others...

thefalconer · 01-23-2012, 11:58 AM

whasians are hot. usually. i have no relationship experience with whasian girls but asian girls be nuts. so be careful with that. i think the asian conservative culture mixed with american societal standards just ***** them up.

XxXdragonXxX · 01-23-2012, 12:02 PM

Fortunately (or unfortunately) I have a weakness for crazy chicks.

This one is half Japanese half Irish ...she can drink

RCAChainGang · 01-23-2012, 03:20 PM

I crashed and burned. I digress. Maybe I should join a monastery.

killxswitch · 01-23-2012, 04:17 PM

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I crashed and burned. I digress. Maybe I should join a monastery.

What happened? There are 3 billion females, losing out on one isn't the end of the world.

A Perfect Score · 01-23-2012, 04:21 PM

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What happened? There are 3 billion females, losing out on one isn't the end of the world.

From my experience, it's usually a positive thing in the end.

M.O.T.H. · 01-23-2012, 05:07 PM

Not the end of the world at all...but, it could certainly feel like she was for a while. I've been there. I get that tunnel vision, where you only look at like one chick and dont think she can be topped. It can suck if it doesnt work out, but eventually you'll find someone else. haha.

Hell, the last crush I had...really made no freaking sense to me at all. There are so many better matches out there for me, it's not even funny. I just thought she was "the one girl in the world", while I was going through some blind crush. It happens.

Vikes99ej · 01-23-2012, 05:10 PM

Christ, it's been such a long time since I've had a "crush".

M.O.T.H. · 01-23-2012, 05:15 PM

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Christ, it's been such a long time since I've had a "crush".

Me too man...I'm actually glad I'm over it also. This was the first girl I even "liked" since I broke up with my GF like 8 months ago. haha. I was just enjoying the free time and single life, and for whatever reason just started getting those damn crushy feelings again. It was cool at the beginning, but it just went to ****. Now I'm finally just getting back into my normal routine, and I'm not even looking again. haha.

StickSkills · 01-23-2012, 05:45 PM

Met this girl on twitter that also is here at Penn State. My family has a tradition of getting ice cream for dinner on the first day of classes, but the other week was the first time I haven't had a family member to get ice cream with. I tweeted that if anyone would want to join me, they can. She hit me back telling me to come over to her place since no one should eat ice cream alone. I went over and hung out with her and her roommate for a few hours, til like midnight.

I hung out with her and her roommate again Saturday night and then pretty much from 4pm til 1am last night. Also saw them at the basketball game on Thursday night and talked to them during halftime.

On Saturday night after I was at her place, I met up with one of my friends and he was at his girls apartment (who I have never met before). Currently have my eyes on the red head there. Definitely having some progress there.

All and all, I would say things are going well for me.

JRTPlaya21 · 01-23-2012, 05:55 PM

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Met this girl on twitter that also is here at Penn State. My family has a tradition of getting ice cream for dinner on the first day of classes, but the other week was the first time I haven't had a family member to get ice cream with. I tweeted that if anyone would want to join me, they can. She hit me back telling me to come over to her place since no one should eat ice cream alone. I went over and hung out with her and her roommate for a few hours, til like midnight.

I hung out with her and her roommate again Saturday night and then pretty much from 4pm til 1am last night. Also saw them at the basketball game on Thursday night and talked to them during halftime.

On Saturday night after I was at her place, I met up with one of my friends and he was at his girls apartment (who I have never met before). Currently have my eyes on the red head there. Definitely having some progress there.

All and all, I would say things are going well for me.

Man them red heads.....thank the lord!

DraftSavant · 01-23-2012, 06:04 PM

Redheads>>>>

Trust.

StickSkills · 01-23-2012, 06:06 PM

Man, I freakin am obsessed with redheads

Caddy · 01-23-2012, 06:12 PM

Is she a redhead, or a ginger?

A Perfect Score · 01-23-2012, 06:16 PM

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Is she a redhead, or a ginger?

Such a huuuuuuuuuuuuge difference.

slightlyaraiderfan · 01-23-2012, 06:16 PM

redheads = hot

ginger lvl 3 = cute

ginger lvl 5 = gross

StickSkills · 01-23-2012, 06:34 PM

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Such a huuuuuuuuuuuuge difference.

Oh, I know. Redhead.

Caddy · 01-23-2012, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by slightlyaraiderfan

redheads = hot

ginger lvl 3 = cute

ginger lvl 5 = gross

Provide examples of lvl 3 and lvl5?

DraftSavant · 01-23-2012, 06:47 PM

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

OSUGiants17 · 01-23-2012, 06:51 PM

Ight what's yall's opinion on going to a girls friend(who you're also friends with) and asking her for help/advice about her friend? Like I like this girl, we talk a lot, we flirt when we talk, ect. the one problem is my window is kinda running out and I feel like we haven't been talking enough to know if there really is something. Think it's safe to ask her friend(who like I said is also a good friend of mine) for advice/her opinion?

Also, redheads... *drool* so hot. When you can find a hot redhead they look even hotter due to the fact that they're a rarity and I love it.