Relationship Advice Thread

[DeepThreat]

Originally Posted by BufFan71

I'm paranoid that my GF is pregnant...

had unprotected sex about 5 days ago



she said her breasts are tender today (but not that tender)... she doesnt start her period until the 21st.

I honestly don't know whether or not to take this seriously.

[Caddy]

Originally Posted by BufFan71

I'm paranoid that my GF is pregnant...

had unprotected sex about 5 days ago



she said her breasts are tender today (but not that tender)... she doesnt start her period until the 21st.

You are clearly a moron. I assume she isn't on the pill and you still decided to go bareback? I mean, really? Even if you accept that things like this happen, they have a nifty little pill you could have picked up the 'morning-after'.

[CashmoneyDrew]

Just got back from some serious day drinking with my high school crush. She told me "I had a really, really good time" and "we definitely need to hang out more." She then asked me if we could meet up next week and gave me the longest hug I've ever received. I think I'm gonna get dat ass.

[Caddy]

Originally Posted by CashmoneyDrew

Just got back from some serious day drinking with my high school crush. She told me "I had a really, really good time" and "we definitely need to hang out more." She then asked me if we could meet up next week and gave me the longest hug I've ever received. I think I'm gonna get dat ass.

You should rape her, just to be safe and stuff.

[Brent]

Originally Posted by CashmoneyDrew

Just got back from some serious day drinking with my high school crush. She told me "I had a really, really good time" and "we definitely need to hang out more." She then asked me if we could meet up next week and gave me the longest hug I've ever received. I think I'm gonna get dat ass.

or you are drunk and she friendzoned you.

Originally Posted by Caddy

You should rape her, just to be safe and stuff.

Caddy is my Aussie alter ego.

[CashmoneyDrew]

Originally Posted by Brent

or you are drunk and she friendzoned you.

You cold heartless bastard.

[kalbears13]

Originally Posted by MetSox17

I'm pretty sure they don't get tenderness in the breasts two days into pregnancy.

Maybe he prematurely ejaculated thus the premature tenderness.

[BufFan71]

well a couple girls ive talked to (that have kids) said they remembered getting tenderness in their breasts about a week after conception...


i didnt bust inside her so im hoping that im just over-reacting

[Caddy]

I hope she is pregnant.

[MetSox17]

If you're that paranoid, why don't you just go buy her a pregnancy test?

[TitanHope]

Originally Posted by BufFan71

she said her breasts are tender today (but not that tender)... she doesnt start her period until the 21st.

Maybe it was about to rain?

[CJSchneider]

Originally Posted by Caddy

I hope she is pregnant.

I hope the baby has BufFan71's eyes.

[Brent]

Originally Posted by CashmoneyDrew

You cold heartless bastard.

Someone has to be the wet blanket here.

[georgiafan]

For all the guys who are married or engaged or planning on marrying the person they are with. How soon did u know she was the one?

[bearsfan_51]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

For all the guys who are married or engaged or planning on marrying the person they are with. How soon did u know she was the one?

Never. She told me after we had been together for two years that I needed to marry her or she would move out. I like having her and the dogs around, so I said ok. The idea that there is one person for you, in a planet of billions of people, is the most absurd notion ever.

[Prowler]

Originally Posted by georgiafan

For all the guys who are married or engaged or planning on marrying the person they are with. How soon did u know she was the one?

Depends on the individual people involved. Some people believe that you have to be hurt first in a relationship before you even know what it is that you actually want. The after high school/college years are terrible for people who don't want to be alone and jump the gun early. However, sometimes they are right.

The one and only true test is in your actual chemistry. Do you still stutter, heart rate quicken, and do you always know where she's at by feeling her presence. Trust your own body and feelings.

[bearsfan_51]

Originally Posted by Prowler

Depends on the individual people involved. Some people believe that you have to be hurt first in a relationship before you even know what it is that you actually want. The after high school/college years are terrible for people who don't want to be alone and jump the gun early. However, sometimes they are right.

The one and only true test is in your actual chemistry. Do you still stutter, heart rate quicken, and do you always know where she's at by feeling her presence. Trust your own body and feelings.

[bearsfan_51]

The last thing you should ever do is trust your body and your feelings. Between the ages of 16-24 my body and feelings told me I was in love with about 30 girls. Turns out I wanted to sex them.

[Prowler]

There's definitely a certain maturity required, but I've seen people happy at different ages. Religion and moral qualities play pretty important factors in determining people's devotion to each other. It is still entirely possible to be in love at that age. You just have to know what you are doing and not just be in it out of fear of being alone.

[Prowler]

One last thought, life is better when lived. Trust and make mistakes. If she turns out to be a ***** or if it turns out that you just wanted to do her then drop her and move on. Lesson learned.

[georgiafan]

The reason I ask is me and my gf (the one i asked about the rose last week) are moving really really fast. In the past i've been the direct oppsite and moved as slow as one could possible move. If you would have told me last week i'd be moving this fast with someone after a week I would have told you it would never happen. But I'm not worried at all im moving to fast even though im sure most people will say that we are.

Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

Never. She told me after we had been together for two years that I needed to marry her or she would move out. I like having her and the dogs around, so I said ok. The idea that there is one person for you, in a planet of billions of people, is the most absurd notion ever.

Originally Posted by Prowler

Depends on the individual people involved. Some people believe that you have to be hurt first in a relationship before you even know what it is that you actually want. The after high school/college years are terrible for people who don't want to be alone and jump the gun early. However, sometimes they are right.

The one and only true test is in your actual chemistry. Do you still stutter, heart rate quicken, and do you always know where she's at by feeling her presence. Trust your own body and feelings.

Originally Posted by Prowler

There's definitely a certain maturity required, but I've seen people happy at different ages. Religion and moral qualities play pretty important factors in determining people's devotion to each other. It is still entirely possible to be in love at that age. You just have to know what you are doing and not just be in it out of fear of being alone.

[eaglesalltheway]

Depends on the people, if you both think its working go for it. I know a few people who were married either right out of high school or soon after and are still together and have no reason to think they'll be ending it soon. I also know the same types of people that it all fell apart. Me personally, I don't want to be married anytime real soon. I'm not against marriage or anything, I just don't see the need to get married now. (I'm 22) IIRC, you are older than me, so it might be different for you, but if you both are feeling natural with the pace, don't forcibly slow down the process, unless there is a reason.

[njx9]

you've been dating a week and you're asking how to know if she's the one? jesus. christ.

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by eaglesalltheway

Depends on the people, if you both think its working go for it. I know a few people who were married either right out of high school or soon after and are still together and have no reason to think they'll be ending it soon. I also know the same types of people that it all fell apart. Me personally, I don't want to be married anytime real soon. I'm not against marriage or anything, I just don't see the need to get married now. (I'm 22) IIRC, you are older than me, so it might be different for you, but if you both are feeling it, don't forcibly slow down the process, unless there is a reason.

I'm 29 so im defnetly ready to be married, because I have a home and job that will not be going anywhere. She is 21 and to be 22 but is ready to settle down. The only potential problem was she planning on moving back to her home town (way out of state) until she meet me. When I had my mom over for superbowl she was already telling my mom that "I was the one she was gonna marry".

If I could figure out to get her pic on here yall would see why I have no doubts about going fast. Also our connection is much deeper then just loops

[georgiafan]

Originally Posted by njx9

you've been dating a week and you're asking how to know if she's the one? jesus. christ.

i know it sounds crazy